I had a friend who was very talented, and when he was in his early twenties, everyone was very optimistic about him, thinking that he should become some kind of great designer or great artist one day. Unexpectedly, more than ten years later, this friend has been mediocre and dependent on his parents to help him live, but he still feels that he is very talented, so he has been reluctant to find a job or do things in a down-to-earth manner, just waiting for some noble person or luck to fall from the sky every day to let him realize his "destiny".
Later, when I saw him, the aura of the whole person also changed, he was very attractive when he was young, but later his aura was prickly and negative everywhere, and after chatting deeply, he even found that his three views became super crooked.
In fact, no matter how talented a person is, if his head is full of "poor people's thinking", a good hand of cards will be broken. On the contrary, if you can get rid of the following poor people's thinking, even if you start slower than others at the beginning, you can still create success.
#1
Habitually disgusted with other people's things and services are not worth anything
There is a kind of person around me, no matter what he sees, he always says, "This is worth so much money", or "This is too expensive!
He said this not because he really had insight into the quality of things, or was really economical, but simply thought very highly of himself, greedy for small and cheap, liked to take free money, and did not respect professionalism at all.
As long as a person has this mentality, he will never be able to see the true value of things, nor can he understand the complex logic of resource exchange in the market, and his thinking will always stay at a low level, and it is impossible for you to ask him to invest in the right place.
#2
Thin-skinned
People with serious internal friction usually don't make much money.
In the mall or workplace, it is common to get along with all kinds of people, and bumps and bumps. If a person is too thin-skinned, maybe someone else's casual unintentional words can keep him awake at night, stay in the negative bull's horns all day long, and consume a lot of energy, how can there be extra time and energy to take care of really important things.
Even if this kind of person has a little achievement, most of them are fought hard to live and die, and I don't know how much they have sacrificed or how much they have gained.
#3
False clear high
Fake Qinggao and thin-skinned are actually two sides of the same coin.
A person who is fake and tall seems to be sanctimonious and superior on the surface, but he is too thin-skinned, so he needs to constantly and deliberately create this kind of self-image. A person with stable self-confidence does not need to repeatedly prove that he is better than others. People who are fake and high-minded, when they see others succeed or make money, will not want to learn with an open mind, but will feel that others are philistines, villains, only love money, and do not understand what the "true meaning of life" is, etc., and then there are all kinds of envy, jealousy and hatred behind their backs.
No matter what opportunities there are in front of such people, they will be ruined by their own hands because of unnecessary conceit and self-esteem, and over time, their luck will get worse and worse.
#4
Get used to soothing pain with short-acting entertainment
Everyone's life is full of pain, big and small, but the most obvious difference between successful people and failed people is that they face pain in different ways.
In the face of pain, losers always use short-term entertainment to soothe them, indulge in escape, and waste time and money on trivial things. This kind of person often has the habit of spending money indiscriminately, and at the same time will not improve himself well and increase his ability to make money, so he is often in a tight state of poverty.
#5
Childish
The petty family is angry, but in fact, the bottom reflects "fear".
Because a person has experienced failure and humiliation, he is afraid that he will experience such pain again, so he draws his own limit, he does not dare to spend the money he should spend, he does not dare to start the investment that should be made, and he avoids social or social yin and yang, in short, he seems to have a sense of security on the surface, but in fact he has given up many opportunities for growth, and only dares to stand on the beach and look at the sea from afar, but he will never experience the taste of galloping in the sea.