Recently, I was chasing "The First Half of My Life", and I was very emotional about Chen Junsheng's derailment and Luo Zijun's divorce.
Luo Zijun in the TV series is a full-time wife, in addition to grocery shopping, laundry, and cooking every day, she also has to take care of her children, while her husband Chen Junsheng is just an ordinary white-collar worker.
If a man has a successful career, what is he most afraid of?
It is probably that this man not only does not have a job, but also does not seek to be motivated.
Chen Junsheng's derailment incident is not over yet, but Luo Zijun has started his new life.
The greatest sorrow in marriage is that a woman slowly loses herself in marriage.
- Don't be a stay-at-home wife
After Luo Zijun's divorce, Tang Jing said to her: "If one day, you find out that I don't love you anymore, please don't tell me, okay? I don't want to live with someone I don't love for the rest of my life." ”
I think many women want to be a woman like Tang Jing, right? But Tang Jing is very sober, she knows what she wants, and she knows what she wants.
She did not become a full-time wife like Luo Zijun, but became a company executive and turned her life into an inspirational drama.
A woman can fight for what she likes, and she doesn't have to rely on others to realize the value of life. On the contrary, a woman's greatest failure is to live for others.
Don't be a stay-at-home wife, just live for yourself, and no matter which lifestyle you choose, love yourself first.
- Be a woman with a flirtatious feeling
When we reach middle age, we will inevitably lose our passion for life. The firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, the pressure at work, and the children's learning will make us feel bored.
And fun is the fuel that allows us to rekindle our passion for life.
In "Wonderful Sayings", Fu Seoul once said:
"The best state between husband and wife is to have common interests. Only by having common hobbies and topics can we resist the storms and setbacks in life together during the long years of marriage. ”
If a woman loses her interest in marriage, her life will have no meaning. And sex can keep a woman young forever and better integrate into married life.
If you want to be a fun person, here are a few role-play activities to try. Being a woman with a passion can also make your marriage a little more sweet and fun.
- Learn to dress yourself
In the family, a woman, in addition to taking care of her husband and children, has to learn to dress herself.
It is said that good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand.
Therefore, no matter how busy a woman is, she must also learn to dress herself.
Women should have their own circle of friends and their own hobbies. In your free time, you can go shopping, eat and watch movies with friends.
You can also make a small cake at home and take a trip that you can just go.
Dress up not to please others, but to please yourself.
In fact, when a woman learns to dress herself, she will understand a truth:
If a woman loses herself in marriage, then she loses the ability to live happily.
When a woman is strong enough, she can support her entire family on her own.
Therefore, women must learn to dress themselves, which is an ability and an attitude to life.
- Interact with your child
Family and children are a woman's greatest weakness and the best armor.
Many women are unhappy in their marriages because they neglect their children.
Because they have lost themselves in the family, their children have also lost the space to grow.
Therefore, women should learn to liberate themselves from the family, spend more time with their children, and do some parent-child activities with their children.
For example, reading with your child, doing crafts, playing with Lego, or doing chores together......
Women should not feel that children are their accessories, as long as they do not affect their work and life, they should not interfere with their children's choices.
Being a "role-playing" woman in marriage does not mean that you complain about a man like a resentful woman every day, but that you use your own posture to maintain your marriage.