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Growing up is knowing how to stop making bills for anything.

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Growing up is knowing how to stop making bills for anything.

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I've always believed that true wisdom must be negation, that is, admitting one's ignorance. Reading is all about climbing the ladder of wisdom. This is actually a paradoxical existence, we read because of ignorance, and reading makes us truly admit our ignorance and shallowness. Refusing to read is a foolishness, of course, but it is an even greater foolishness to breed pride and arrogance because of reading.

——Luo Xiang, "Details of the Rule of Law"

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The longer I know you, the more I feel that you are a happy water in my life.

I want to forget the world a few times, and I always see each other quietly at the end of the mountains and rivers, which is a kind of reluctance.

- Jian Yuan

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When a woman loses interest in all real men, the only thing that leaves her hope is a man who doesn't exist.

- Calvino

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I like a saying called stubborn disinterest. To develop a stubborn disinterest, you have to limit yourself to a specific area of knowledge. You can't be thirsty for everything, you have to force yourself not to learn everything, otherwise you won't learn anything.

—Umberto Eco

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When a person is at his strongest, he does not clench his fists and prepare to attack, but open his hands to welcome the world. When you choose to free your hands, who else can take anything from you?

——Gilligan

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People must not think about what is perfect, two or three of the ten are happy to heaven. For example, to enjoy a rare good weather, you only need to open the window or go out the door, and you don't have to be accompanied by a good person.

Growing up is knowing how to stop making bills for anything.

The moment is all, there is no "what if", "if" and "just fine".

- Anti-pants position

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A person with high energy will establish an energy field centered on himself in the shortest possible time, and this radius is the coverage area of his energy. Everything that happens in this radius, he can pay attention to and control. What we often say about holding the whole audience is the control of high-energy people over their energy radius.

- Fang Reward

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Many people spend their lives pursuing the feeling of "useful" and "promising", but the more this is the case, the easier it is to feel useless.

Accept your "useless" feelings, and you will only be free when you give up to prove that you are useful.

- Zhang Defen

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Rest assured, the reason why you suddenly feel irritable and depressed may be due to the weather. Spring is hot and cold, and the air pressure is also unstable, and the endocrine system in the human body will also be affected. The new year starts with a lot of energy, but now it's inevitable that you're tired, the reality is not up to expectations, and seeing the vibrant sight of spring can add to the stress and lead to low mood. Take good care of yourself, eat and sleep on time, and this time will pass.

——paya_paya_kun

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Su Tong said:

Reading itself is a habit in a sense, if you have read a lot of books in your life, you will not regret it when you are old, because you have more memories than others, and your understanding of the world is a little richer than others, and it may even be a little deeper and more complicated. Everyone comes to read, so that everyone can leave a little space for their spiritual world and spiritual world when they are busy with life, and the energy it can leave to you is a spiritual shaping project, which is the meaning of national reading.

11 Gu Long wrote that if a man is desperate and has a narrow heart and wants to find a short-term vision, let him go to the vegetable market. That means, as soon as he enters the vegetable market, this person will definitely disappear and rekindle his love for life - this is an exaggeration, but the meaning is correct.

12 Some good opportunities may only be once in a lifetime, and if you miss them, you will miss them, but this kind of opportunity is also quite difficult to identify, and I always feel that it is okay to give up, and there will be one in the future, but it is really the only time that I am lucky. The reason for missing out is mostly because the opportunity doesn't fit our regular choices or asks us to step out of our comfort zone and makes us feel out of place. In fact, what can change fate must be such an opportunity, and most of them appear randomly in an unprepared state. So don't be afraid of trouble when you have an opportunity, the common denominator of good opportunities is that it will immediately break the balance of your current life. - Chef Alex

13There is a saying that "ignorance is the happiest life", but I still don't want to spend my life in ignorance and ignorance. Ignorance does not make people happy, it only makes people not understand why they are suffering. Those trivial hidden pains can only be given names at the moment of awareness - for example, it turns out that sensitivity is not a shortcoming, for example, I people are just personality categories, it is not love but PUA that coerces oneself, and jokes are not jokes but harassment...... We can't fight against the invisible monster, but in fact, there are many things that just need to be aware of its existence, and awareness alone can give people enough strength to loosen the nails on their bodies. When pain is truly recognized, freedom spreads its wings. ——Knowing the book boy Guo Maimai

14 The Difference Between Good Intentions and FriendlinessMany times, the people we ask for feedback from may be friendly on the surface, but they are not necessarily well-intentioned. Well-meaning people will tell you things that friendly people don't say. For example, if you have a vegetable leaf on your tooth, a well-meaning person will alert you, while a "good person" may not tell you because they feel embarrassed. Well-meaning people will tell you what is holding you back, even if it makes people uncomfortable. And good people may avoid giving you critical feedback because they are worried about hurting your feelings. ——Shane Parrish

15 I wish to be able to go away, to flee from what I know, from all that I have, from what I love. I wanted to go, not to the ethereal West Indies, not to the huge islands far from the rest of the southern continents, but to go anywhere, whether it was a village or a wasteland, as long as it wasn't here. All I yearn for is to never see these people again, to live this endless life again. What I wanted to do was to shed my habitual pretense and become another me in order to get a respite. I want the feeling of sleepiness approaching, a sleep that is an expectation of life rather than a rest of life. Leaning against a wooden hut by the sea or even a cave on the edge of a rugged mountain range was enough for me. Unfortunately, I've always backfired on these things. - Pessoa

Growing up is knowing how to stop making bills for anything.
Growing up is knowing how to stop making bills for anything.
Growing up is knowing how to stop making bills for anything.

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