Do men love you?
This question often plagues girls in love.
Because men's emotional expressions are often restrained and elusive.
Therefore, many girls can't see the true thoughts of men, so they become troubled in love.
Although some men will hide their thoughts.
But their subconscious will be revealed inadvertently. And these subconscious minds can often show the true attitude of men, and can also let girls see whether the other party cares about them.
Does a man love you? His "subconscious" can't hide it.
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If you love, you will pay attention to you frequently
Does someone care about you?
"Attention bias" in psychology can give the answer.
How do you understand that?
In fact, our focus is often selective.
When we have strong emotions about someone or something, everyone's attention will unconsciously be biased towards them. This phenomenon is the phenomenon of "attention bias" in psychology.
If a man, when getting along with you.
He is always able to notice subtle changes in you quickly. Whether it's your hairstyle, clothing, or mood, once there is a change, he can realize that this bias shows that he is paying attention to you.
Such a man will look for you in the crowd, will pay attention to your topic in conversation, and will appear in time when you need it. This kind of attention is not deliberate, but subconsciously, a natural expression of love for you.
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cares, and will take the initiative to show themselves
Psychology believes that:
When people are in love, they show their true selves.
Because of love, people will let down their guard.
This means that if a man doesn't love you, he will lock his heart, and if he loves you, he will open his heart to you.
From this point of view, if a man does not hide his joys and sorrows in front of you, sharing his dreams and confusions, then it is very likely that it is a manifestation of his subconscious love for you.
If you really love you, a man will trust you completely.
So, such a man will take off his disguise in front of you and show his vulnerability and insecurity. Because he trusts you, relies on you, and is willing to share the bits and pieces of life with you.
This authentic self-expression is one of the most precious parts of love.
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深爱,会忍不住地付出
The "principle of reciprocity" in psychology states:
In interpersonal interactions, people will seek a balance, that is, what is given and what is received should be equal.
Love, however, can upset this balance.
Love makes people run involuntarily and can't help but give.
Therefore, if you want to judge whether a man loves you or not, there are traces to follow.
When a man truly loves you, he will be willing to give you a lot, whether it is time, energy, or material support.
Even, such a man will give up his own interests for you and will not hesitate to lend a helping hand when you need it. This kind of giving is not for some purpose, nor is it expected in return.
Rather, it is a subconscious, natural expression of deep love for you.
On the way to growth.
Many people have learned to disguise themselves.
But a person's love cannot be hidden.
The more people try to cover it up, the more they will only leave a feeling of wanting to cover it up.
From a psychological point of view, whether a man loves or not, his subconscious cannot deceive people. If a man always loves you, then he will take the initiative to pay attention to you, will show himself in front of you, and will pay for you.
So, have you grasped the subconscious state of men?