Opening Section:
XX years ago, I was also struggling in the tide of blind dates? You heard me right, it was me! From childhood to adulthood, others have been sweetly falling in love and dating, but I seem to have been isolated from a mysterious circle, and I have never stepped into this "forbidden land". However, in the past two years, the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family began to take turns as if they had discussed it, and the sound of urging marriage was endless. My mother was even more troublesome, and the double blow of tears and nagging made me really unable to resist. In the end, in desperation, I had to compromise and embarked on my blind date journey on a well-known marriage and love platform in XX city.
Middle Section:
To be honest, at first I had the mentality of giving blind dates a try. After all, I'm also at the age when I should talk about marriage, so I can't always be single like this, right? But I didn't expect that this blind date road was much more tortuous than I imagined.
Let's start with my conditions. Although he is from a small city of XX, his family is harmonious, his parents are intellectuals, and he has a stable income. As for myself, I graduated with XX degree, and I am currently doing XX work in XX city, and my monthly salary is quite considerable. I don't look good, I'm not handsome but definitely not ugly, I'm a little chubby, but my colleagues and friends say I'm cute.
However, the various encounters in the blind date process really opened my eyes. Some girls were nearly two hours late and played with their mobile phones the whole time, which made me feel like I was being ignored; some girls were mediocre but had a high-minded posture, which made me feel discouraged; and some girls obviously had a good impression of me, but rejected me for some inexplicable reasons.
Among them, there was one girl who particularly impressed me. She is the Xth girl I have ever met, she is gentle and lovely, and she has a very cheerful personality. We had a very speculative conversation and felt like we both had a good feeling for each other. However, just when I thought I was finally going to play this time, she told me that she felt that I was too stable and not aggressive. I was stunned and thought to myself: I have a stable job and a good income, so how can I be said to be unmotivated?
However, although the blind date road was full of bumps and setbacks, I did not give up. After all, life is like a marathon, you don't care where you start, you only care about whether you can stick to the end. I believe that as long as I keep a positive attitude and continue to work hard to find, I will meet the right person one day.
Epilogue:
Looking back now, although the blind date road was tortuous, I also gained a lot. I learned how to communicate with people and how to understand their thoughts and needs. More importantly, I understood what kind of person and life I wanted.
So, I want to say: blind date is not a scary thing, it is just a way to meet new people. If you're like me, forced to do anything by the sound of marriage urging at home, you might as well try a blind date!
How about it? Does my blind date story make you feel both interesting and emotional? The blind date road is full of unknowns and surprises, and everyone has their own story. If you have similar experiences or ideas, please leave a message in the comment area to share!