Hey, friends, have you ever met a "full-time" mother at home, but she lives a leisurely life all day long, as if everything at home has nothing to do with her? Eating, sleeping, and playing with her mobile phone have become her daily trilogy, and even sometimes she owes some unexplained debts, so that the whole family sweats for her. Doesn't it sound like a family version of an "absurd drama"? Today, what I'm going to share with you is such a story that makes people laugh and cry.
The protagonist of the story, let's call her Xiaoling for the time being. Xiaoling, a college girl, recently posted on the Internet that she boldly complained about her mother. This mom is such a "different" character. She never goes to work, and her father is all responsible for the family's expenses. The house was dilapidated and there was no money to repair it, but my mother didn't seem to care about it.
Xiaoling said that she grew up with her grandparents since she was a child, and she rarely felt the love and companionship of her mother. Now that she has grown up, seeing that her mother is still doing nothing like this, and even asking her to buy a house for her mother to live in the future, Xiaoling really feels extremely depressed and confused. She feels that her mother is like a "parasite", who only knows how to take, but never knows how to give.
As soon as this matter spread on the Internet, it immediately caused an uproar. Many netizens have stood up for this mother to "stand up", thinking that Xiaoling complaining about her mother is a sign of unfilial piety. These netizens seem to be standing on the commanding heights of morality, and have made all kinds of accusations and criticisms against Xiaoling.
To be honest, I was really speechless after reading these comments. Shouldn't stay-at-home mothers be complained about and criticized for their ability to do nothing all day long and just know how to enjoy themselves?
I think that both stay-at-home mothers and working women should have their own responsibilities and obligations. Stay-at-home motherhood does not mean that you can let go of yourself and do whatever you want, but you have to take on the responsibility of taking care of your family and caring for your family. Only in this way can you win the respect and gratitude of your family.
And those mothers who only know how to ask and don't know how to give, should really reflect on their behavior. Don't always put the blame on others, and don't always use moral kidnapping to save your own face. It is important to know that the family is a whole, and it takes the joint efforts and dedication of each member to maintain harmony and happiness.
Of course, we can't generalize that all stay-at-home moms are like this. After all, everyone's family situation and lifestyle are different. However, at least we should understand one truth: both mothers and daughters should look at the problems and contradictions in the family rationally. Mothers should fulfill their responsibilities and obligations to contribute to the family, and daughters should understand their mother's situation and difficulties, and give her more support and love.
So, dear friends, what do you think of this story? Do you think this "special" mother should be complained about? Or does she actually have her own hardships and helplessness? Come and leave a message in the comment area to share your opinions! Don't forget to like and support this article! Let's work together for family harmony and happiness!