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You Benchang's retirement choice
Yoshimoto's decision after the sixtieth year has made people re-examine the meaning of retirement. In the eyes of most people, retirement is a signal to end a lifelong career path, but for Yau Benchang, it is the beginning of re-planning his life for love.
In the face of his wife's sudden serious illness, he did not hesitate and chose to end his acting career, and devoted all his time and thoughts to the treatment of accompanying his wife.
may seem to outsiders that his decision is full of sacrifice and abandonment, but You Lao tells us with practical actions that to love someone is to stand up when the other person needs it most, even if it is to give up the career he loves the most.
Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son
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You Benchang's concept of marriage is a way of getting along with "harmony but difference". He believes that it is impossible for husbands and wives to agree forever, and contradictions and conflicts are inevitable. The key is to learn to support each other and face problems together.
He proposed a seemingly simple but not easy way to deal with disputes - "let the other party say the last sentence, and don't make a sound".
This way of getting along avoids unnecessary quarrels and allows each other to maintain respect and understanding for a long time.
In the eyes of netizens, such a philosophy may be a pearl sharpened by mature married life, although it is inevitably a little old-fashioned, but it is definitely worth learning.
Funny comments from netizens
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"It turns out that true love doesn't need a safety helmet, because You Lao is the strongest shield!" a netizen joked.
This is not only a praise for You Benchang for giving up the performance and accompanying his sick wife, but also a witty expression of the deep love in their marriage.
This comment quickly sparked heated discussions among netizens, and everyone shared their understanding of true love and You Benchang's recognition of marriage concept in the comment area.
Some netizens even began to discuss whether they would be able to make the same choice if they were put in the position of You Lao.
The philosophy behind great love
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You Benchang's view of marriage soon caused an in-depth discussion on social media.
Some people agree with this, believing that this is what true love should look like, while others have a different view, believing that marriage in modern society requires more independence and personal space, and that it may not be a good thing to be too dependent on each other.
Controversial summary
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The discussion among netizens intensified, and some people said: "Love is not 'whose youth is not confused', but 'whose wife is not crazy'." ”
This humorous twist is not only laughable, but also thought-provoking. You Benchang's love story has undoubtedly inspired many people, but in contemporary society, everyone's definition of a happy marriage is different.
Is a lasting and deep love like You Lao, who needs to be ready to let go of everything at all times? Or should each couple have their own secret to maintain that unique emotional connection?