Marriage, as one of the most basic and important relationships in social life, carries the common commitments and expectations of two people.
However, in real life, there are always some men who will look for another emotional sustenance outside the walls of marriage and become obsessed with "women outside of marriage". Behind this phenomenon, there are often complex and profound reasons hidden.
Understanding these reasons not only helps us to understand the complexity of human nature more comprehensively, but also helps us to deeply analyze the nature of the marital relationship, and provides useful enlightenment for the construction of a harmonious and stable marital relationship.
This article will explore several reasons why men are obsessed with "women outside of marriage" from multiple perspectives. These reasons may involve multiple levels such as personal psychology, marital relationship, social environment, etc.
1. The satisfaction of personal psychological needs
In married life, men may seek emotional sustenance outside of marriage because of the lack of certain psychological needs. These psychological needs may include being noticed, understood, appreciated, etc.
When these needs are not met in marriage, they may look to women outside of marriage.
These women may have somehow met their psychological needs and made them feel valued and cared for, leading to a feeling of infatuation.
2. Alienation and dissatisfaction in marital relations
Alienation and dissatisfaction in marital relationships is one of the important reasons why men are infatuated with women outside of marriage. When there is poor communication and cold feelings between couples, men may feel lonely and lost.
At this time, they may look for a woman outside of marriage to fill the emptiness and loneliness inside. These women can give them more attention and companionship, so that they can feel the sweetness and warmth of love again.
3. The pursuit of freshness and excitement
Men are born with a spirit of exploration and challenge, and have a strong desire for novelty and excitement. In a long married life, if there is a lack of novelty and excitement, a man may feel bored and bored.
At this time, they may be attracted by the novelty and excitement of a woman outside of marriage and develop a crush. These women may give them fresh experiences and feelings in different ways that allow them to rejuvenate their lives.
Fourth, the improvement of self-worth
In extramarital relationships, men can often enhance their sense of self-worth through praise and adoration from the other party.
In marriage, due to long-term relationship and running-in, couples may ignore each other's strengths and strengths, causing men to feel that their self-worth is devalued.
And women outside of marriage tend to show more appreciation and adoration for them, making them feel their charm and worth, which leads to infatuation.
5. Inducement and influence of the social environment
The social environment also has a non-negligible influence on men's behavior and psychology. In today's society, the phenomenon of extramarital romances is not uncommon, and some men may be influenced by their surroundings and have the idea of having a crush on an extramarital woman.
In addition, certain values in society may also have an inducing effect on men's behaviour to perceive the pursuit of extramarital affairs as a fashion or a sign of freedom.
summary
There are complex and deep reasons behind the phenomenon of men becoming obsessed with "women outside of marriage".
These reasons may involve the satisfaction of personal psychological needs, the alienation and dissatisfaction of the marital relationship, the pursuit of novelty and excitement, the improvement of self-worth, and the inducement and influence of the social environment. Therefore, when facing this problem, we need to conduct in-depth analysis and understanding from multiple perspectives.
For men, they should recognize the possible consequences and repercussions of being infatuated with a woman outside of marriage and work to overcome their psychological needs and dissatisfaction.
They can improve their marital relationship and meet their psychological needs by strengthening communication with their wives, enhancing their relationships, and finding common interests and hobbies. At the same time, they should also establish correct values and morals and reject the temptation and influence of unhealthy social trends.
For women, they need to be vigilant and rational and not easily carried away by men's infatuations.
They should understand their own value and status, stick to their principles and bottom line, and not sacrifice their marriage and family for the sake of momentary passion. At the same time, they can also enhance their competitiveness and attractiveness in marriage by strengthening their self-cultivation and charm.
Finally, society should also strengthen publicity and education on marriage morality and create a good social atmosphere and atmosphere.
Through strengthening family education, school education, public opinion, and other means, guide people to establish a correct concept of marriage and morality, and reduce the occurrence and harm of extramarital romances.
In conclusion, men's infatuation with "women outside of marriage" is a complex and sensitive topic that requires in-depth analysis and understanding from multiple perspectives. Only through in-depth analysis of the causes, strengthening self-restraint and social education, and other ways can we effectively prevent and reduce the occurrence of this phenomenon and maintain the harmony and stability of the family and society.