Text: Xunxing
Editor|History Composer
Sources: All of the information stated in this article is based on reliable sources, and is detailed at the end of the article
Preface
Ai Fukuhara, who has a high reputation in both China and Japan, was once the glory of Japanese table tennis, but because of his divorce from Jiang Hongjie due to derailment, it caused an uproar in the Japanese media.
However, due to the rumors of Ai Fukuhara's derailment, many parents in Japan asked Guangjitang to remove the content about Ai Fukuhara from the textbook, worried that their children would be adversely affected.
What did Ai Fukuhara do to reverse from the "national treasure" level, and even want to send Ai Fukuhara to prison? But even though she has been ruined in Japan, Chinese fans can't hate her, and even still support her?
Ping Pong genius
Regarding the former Japanese table tennis player Ai Fukuhara, netizens have used one sentence to describe their love for her: "When she cries, the people of China and Japan have to coax her."
Ai Fukuhara was born in Sendai City, Japan, 3 years and nine months old and just over the table tennis table Ai Fukuhara came into contact with table tennis, because of the small size, the hands are also small and can not stretch and the action is not standard and foul, and as early as this time Ai Fukuhara began to "tears on the table".
From the youngest player on the court to the youngest tournament champion, Ai Fukuhara's table tennis talent shocked the Japanese people, but He Zhili, a former Chinese player who had changed his name to Zhili Koyama at that time, poured cold water and said that "there are 1,000 talented players like Xiaoai in China."
It is precisely because of this sentence that Ai Fukuhara later embarked on the road to China, and it was from this time that Ai Fukuhara became attached to Chinese table tennis fans.
At the age of 10, Ai Fukuhara had already entered the training of the Japanese national team, and then in international competitions, Chinese fans gradually got to know this "porcelain doll" from Japan more deeply.
At first, Chinese fans fell in love with this Japanese athlete because of her baby-faced appearance, and at that time, the Chinese team was strong, and Ai Fukuhara did not have a chance to win a medal.
In 2003, Ai Fukuhara met Zhang Yining, a player of the Chinese team, at the World Championships, as He Zhili said above, there are too many table tennis geniuses in China, and Zhang Yining is a genius among geniuses, there is no suspense, Ai Fukuhara lost.
But at this time, she is only 14 years old, and according to common sense, there is still a long way to go, and there is still a lot of room for improvement. But the "big devil" Zhang Yining still dominates the women's singles table tennis, and at the 2008 Beijing Olympics, Ai Fukuhara met Zhang Yining again.
And did not stage the inspirational plot of successful revenge, it is still crushing, which is also the cruelty of competition, Ai Fukuhara cried during the post-match interview, and she strengthened her belief in continuing to train in China.
Ai Fukuhara's play was even more detailed in the high-pressure environment of China's hellish difficulty, and at the 2012 London Olympics, she led the Japanese women's team to a silver medal, the first medal in the history of the Japanese table tennis team.
The reason why the Chinese and Japanese people like Ai Fukuhara is because she is so strong that when the Chinese team once dominated the world table tennis arena, she can still work hard and forge ahead, as for the appearance of the "porcelain doll", this is an additional plus.
As He Zhili said, there are too many geniuses like Ai Fukuhara in China, and all of them who can stand out from them are dragons and phoenixes among people, but it also highlights Ai Fukuhara's perseverance. And an incident also caused Ai Fukuhara's reputation to decline sharply in Japan.
Polar reversal of word-of-mouth
The news that Ai Fukuhara was revealed to have traveled with a mysterious man on the street and entered the same hotel shook the Internet in China and Japan, although Ai Fukuhara is a former Japanese table tennis player, she also has many fans in China.
And the transnational marriage of the Japanese Ai Fukuhara and the Chinese Jiang Hongjie, one is an athlete who works hard in a foreign country, the other is an athlete from Taiwan, China, and is the "fairy couple" envied by countless people.
Ai Fukuhara spent most of the first half of her life by the table tennis table, and Jiang Hongjie, who also got acquainted because of table tennis, once Ai Fukuhara missed the game with a back injury, and during the recuperation, Jiang Hongjie, who had met Ai Fukuhara a few times, kept texting to comfort Ai Fukuhara.
even flew to Tokyo to take care of her, and this act of giving charcoal in the snow touched Ai Fukuhara, who has never had such an experience.
The two quickly confirmed their relationship and entered the palace of marriage in 2016. And after marriage, the two did not show the sweetness they did before, according to the details revealed by Ai Fukuhara to the Japanese media. (Disclaimer: The following dialogue is Ai Fukuhara's words, please discern for yourself)
Since Ai Fukuhara was in contact with table tennis at the age of 3, she rarely had time for entertainment, and the only entertainment was when her parents took her to Disneyland after the game. So it was also her dream to have a wedding at Disney.
However, Jiang Hongjie said the day before the wedding, "My shoulder hurts, I won't go", and he agreed under Ai Fukuhara's bitter plea. Ai Fukuhara had morning sickness many times a day during pregnancy, but Jiang Hongjie said, "The child should be out of nutrition." ”
If these remarks are true, then Jiang Hongjie is indeed unbalanced because Ai Fukuhara's income is dozens of times that of him, and he hopes to use words to suppress her to show his status, which is a deformed relationship, so it is only a matter of time before the relationship is incompatible.
This psychology is known as the "gaslighting effect" and is derived from the film "Under the Gaslight", which is two people who are in a relationship, one of them tries to control the behavior of the other.
It is roughly divided into three stages: one is to make the other party unconfident, the second is to make the other party continue to justify, and the third is that the manipulated person has begun to spontaneously produce psychological pressure.
The details of Ai Fukuhara's relationship with Jiang Hongjie are very consistent with these, if it is true, then the fairy couple envied by outsiders is just a tragedy.
However, the fact that Ai Fukuhara cheated is a certainty, and in any case, "cheating" is the most undesirable behavior in the relationship between husband and wife, so it is reasonable that Ai Fukuhara is hated by the Japanese media and boycotted by parents.
It's a pity that the former "porcelain doll" can never go back, and now the ruined reputation is a tragedy or a crime deserved?
epilogue
The details revealed to the Japanese media are only one side of Ai Fukuhara's words, and they are not 100% true, but they also have a certain reference significance.
Ai Fukuhara is the same character as the bond between China and Japan, and now the result is also embarrassing. It's just that you can't cross the bottom line and choose to cheat no matter what.
However, when Ai Fukuhara was an athlete, she still had some commendable qualities, and many Chinese netizens still supported Ai Fukuhara.
What do you think about Ai Fukuhara?
Reference:
"The Paper"-Observer.com: Ai Fukuhara should be deleted from Japanese primary school textbooks?
Ai Fukuhara - Baidu Encyclopedia
"The Paper" - the most Chinese: Ai Fukuhara, was "controlled".