How many marriages that are favored by the outside world do not last to the end?
No, this is a pair of golden boys and girls in the table tennis world! In the end, it is impossible to escape the fate of divorce.
Ai Fukuhara, known as the "porcelain doll", is the favorite Japanese table tennis player among domestic netizens.
This national treasure table tennis player from Japan, his cute appearance and powerful ball skills are irresistible!
And Jiang Hongjie, from Taiwan, China, is also a handsome table tennis player.
The two of them, one from Japan and the other from Taiwan, China, got married in 2016 and gave birth to a pair of lovely children.
This cultural difference and personality trait is really interesting!
Ai Fukuhara, that personality is as warm as the sun! Her smile can instantly melt people's hearts, just like the cute heroine in Japanese anime.
As for Jiang Hongjie, he is sunny and handsome, with a gentle personality, like a breeze in spring.
However, personality differences can also lead to communication and getting along problems. For example, Ai Fukuhara may be more direct and candid, while Jiang Hongjie may be more reserved and reserved. This discrepancy can lead to misunderstandings when dealing with issues and expressing emotions.
Ai Fukuhara's friend once broke the news that Jiang Hongjie was very controlling of Ai Fukuhara before and after marriage, restricting Ai Fukuhara's freedom of dressing. And Ai Fukuhara's concept of love is that if a person who really loves his wife, he can let his wife do what she wants to do and release her heart!
However, the cultural differences between the two are not small. For example, Ai Fukuhara's Japanese culture places special emphasis on etiquette and rules, while Jiang Hongjie's Taiwanese culture focuses more on family and affection.
This difference can lead to a lot of conflict in their daily lives. For example, when it comes to family decision-making, Ai Fukuhara may be more inclined to follow the traditional Japanese way, while Jiang Hongjie may be more focused on the joint participation of family members.
The difference in lifestyle is also a problem in their marriage. There are many differences in the way of life between Japan and Taiwan. For example, eating habits, social styles, family values, etc. These differences are gradually revealed in the long-term misadaptation and confusion of life.
Their former loving husband and wife are not as imagined by the outside world! In the end, because Ai Fukuhara showed affection for the "Yokohama man" in marriage, they ended their 5-year married life in 2021.
When fighting for the custody of his son, the scene was even more intense than a table tennis match!
The law ruled that his son should be raised by Jiang Hongjie, but Ai Fukuhara was reluctant to let his son leave and took his son to live outside Japan. Jiang Hongjie filed a criminal complaint with the Japanese Metropolitan Police Department on the grounds that Ai Fukuhara had kidnapped his son.
Now, Ai Fukuhara's son is back to live in Taiwan! Jiang Hongjie was so happy that he even posted a photo of his children kissing their mouths. This photo immediately sparked heated discussions among netizens!
Some netizens said: "This picture is so loving, the cross-cultural family relationship is so warm!" Hey, this netizen must have been moved by this cross-cultural warm scene.
Someone else said: "Jiang Hongjie is really a gentle and good father, watching his interaction with the children, it is so sweet!" Well, it seems that Jiang Hongjie's performance has been recognized by many netizens.
However, some netizens ridiculed: "Is this kissing photo showing off to Ai Fukuhara? There are big cultural differences, and parenting styles are also different!" Haha, this netizen's brain hole is really open!
Speaking of which, I am reminded of an interesting example. Just like in the movie, the two made a lot of jokes in life because of cultural differences. For example, one likes to eat sushi, while the other prefers braised pork rice. It's funny to think about!
For their marriage, netizens also have various comments and discussions:
Support their voices: Some netizens think that their love was beautiful and hope that they will be well in the future.
Views on cultural differences: Some netizens pointed out that cultural differences are one of the important factors that led to the breakdown of their marriages.
Personality evaluation: Some people think that their personalities complement each other and could have gone further, but unfortunately they have not dealt with the problems caused by differences.
The marriage story of Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie brings us the following inspirations:
1. In a transnational marriage, it is necessary to fully understand and respect the other party's culture, and strive to adapt and integrate.
2. Personality differences are not necessarily a problem, the key is to learn to understand and tolerate each other.
3. Differences in lifestyles require both parties to work together to harmonize and balance.
In conclusion, the marriage story of Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie makes us deeply aware of the influence of cultural differences, personalities, lifestyles and other factors on marriage.
I hope that their experience can bring inspiration to more people, pay more attention to understanding, tolerance and communication in marriage, and create a happy family together.