When I was over 50 years old, I found that I was getting more and more accurate in seeing people. A few days ago, we had a banquet, and everyone was dressed up brightly. The women are all dressed in gold and silver, and everyone is in the presence of jewels, and they look rich or expensive. In fact, whether you are doing well or not, you can know at a glance, and a woman's blessings are hidden in these details.
Whether a woman lives well or not, in fact, at the age of 40-50, she has life experience, whether it is her appearance or her hands, she has been portrayed by life.
No matter how much makeup you put on your face, a pair of hands will not lie, and you can generally guess one or two by looking at your hands.
A woman who is diligent in her work, even if she wears makeup, does a manicure, and stretches out a pair of rough hands, this must be the hand of cooking, washing clothes, and washing dishes for the family, maybe the conditions are not so good, and the family is full of fireworks It is also a blessing for the family.
And some people not only have white skin on their faces, but also have exquisite makeup, and then stretch out a pair of smooth and tender jade hands, which are full of the gentle atmosphere of a woman. This is a pair of rich hands, it may be spoiled by a lover, or it may be maintained by itself, maybe there is a nanny at home, she has clothes to reach out for food to open her mouth, it is difficult to say whether she is really happy, at least life is not bad.
Some people look at the makeup, gentle and elegant, and knowledgeable, but the next second makes people's jaws drop. There was a delicately dressed woman at the dinner table, who kept staring at the dishes on the table during the meal, and every time a dish was served, the first one was sandwiched, and before she turned around, she quickly poured it back and clamped it again after eating, for fear that others would eat it up. Later, I took out a few supermarket bags from my bag and packed all the dishes that I hadn't eaten after two turns on the plate.
Later, I answered a phone call and scolded my husband foully, and his gestures and conversations didn't match dressing up at all. Later, I talked to my friends about it, and I thought that I should at least pretend to be outside. Another friend said that the living habits carved out of the bones can't be changed, if you don't pack it because of it, it's a pity that there are so many dishes, and the family can save money for a meal. So whether there is a blessing or not, depends on the gestures and conversations.
In life, some women have a particularly good life. can talk, can do things, the so-called eight-sided delicate woman.
There is a friend who is such a woman, and her life is so good that everyone envies her. She is a public property company, and she is a public institution. gave birth to a pair of children, lived in a large flat at home, and invited an aunt.
She is a person with high emotional intelligence, handles the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very well, gives her husband face outside, holds financial power at home, and has a pair of children who are very educated and good at learning. The family travels a lot, and she has grown up with her children, and she has become the envy of everyone.
A woman with a good life, her eyes are firm and aura, her face is ruddy, full of energy, and she is energetic. And women who are not as good as life have unfocused and eclipsed eyes.
A friend once found out that the subject was someone, and her spirit was broken, and her eyes were blank. Even if you wear makeup, you can't hide the haggard look.
It wasn't until later that she came out of her grief and came back to her radiant and confident appearance.
So a woman can work hard, she can be tired, but she can't be unhappy. is in a happy mood, even if suffering and tiredness can't defeat her, she can still struggle with passion.
The so-called love is born from the heart, and a happy mood will hold up a beautiful face, and a happy woman's spirit and complexion will not be bad.
Most of the yellow-faced women in life ignore themselves, love their families wholeheartedly, and do not hesitate to buy clothes and items for their husbands and children. I hesitated to buy myself a T-shirt for dozens of dollars, and I was reluctant to buy a lipstick. In the end, he didn't get the love of her husband and the respect of her children.
On the contrary, those women who are willing to spend money on themselves are in a happy mood, well-dressed, and radiant. Her husband is loved, her children are around, her family is happy, and she is a woman who has a good life at first glance.
When I am over 50 years old, I find that I will slowly look at people, and savor it, whether a woman is blessed in her life or not is inseparable from these five qualities. Do you have anything to add?
(This article is adapted from readers' contributions, some of the pictures are from the Internet, the views in the article are only personal views, please do not sit in the opposite number)