Li Yuan is an ordinary girl, everyone sees it that way.
He looks very delicate, not tall or short, usually doesn't talk much, and his personality is mild.
However, her life has taken a big turn recently, and the whole story sounds a bit like a movie plot.
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Ready to enter the palace of marriage with her boyfriend
Li Yuan is 27 years old and ready to enter the palace of marriage with her boyfriend.
The two talked for several years, had a stable relationship, and finally decided to get married. Before marriage, in order to make everything go well, the two of them decided to go for a comprehensive physical examination, and as a result, after a check, Li Yuan turned out to be male on chromosomes!
As soon as this incident came out, it can be imagined that Li Yuan and her boyfriend were dumbfounded.
The doctor explained that Li Yuan was suffering from a rare disease called congenital adrenal hyperplasia, which was specifically subdivided into 17α-hydroxylase deficiency.
The symptoms of this disease are atypical, resulting in her being physically and mentally developing into a female from a young age, although she is biologically male.
Back then, when Li Yuan was 18 years old, she went to the local hospital for examination because she had never had menstruation, and at that time, the doctor thought it was an ovarian problem and asked her to check the chromosomes, but she and her family didn't take it seriously.
Now that I think about it, if I had checked it back then, maybe the situation would have been very different.
Under the advice of his doctor, Li Yuan underwent a series of complex examinations, including sex hormone tests, adrenal function tests, chromosome analysis, and so on. After a month of anxious waiting, the doctor's initial diagnosis was finally confirmed.
The doctor also told her that because the testicles hidden in her body could become cancerous, they needed to be surgically removed as soon as possible. The surgery was very risky for Li Yuan, because patients with this disease are prone to surgical infection and bleeding.
Fortunately, the hospital organized a multidisciplinary team to develop a personalized surgical plan and perioperative medication for her.
After the operation was successfully completed, Li Yuan was discharged after three days in the hospital. After she was discharged from the hospital, she needed to take adrenocorticosteroids regularly, and she also had to return to the hospital regularly for endocrinology and gynecological follow-up.
This whole process was not only a physical torment for Li Yuan, but also a major psychological blow. After all, when a girl is told overnight that she is actually a man, this psychological gap is not something that ordinary people can understand. But she's also coming to terms with this fact and learning to live with a whole new identity.
This incident also sounded a wake-up call for people in our town, if there is a child in the family with atypical sexual development, we must go to the hospital for examination in time and cannot be delayed.
Doctors say that congenital adrenal hyperplasia is a genetic disease, and the child should be screened for neonatal diseases after birth for early detection and early treatment.
Although the experience was full of challenges for Li Yuan, she is slowly finding her way. Life is like this sometimes, a sudden blow may make you see your heart clearly, perhaps, this is another rebirth of Li Yuan.
Comments
When Li Yuan was 18 years old, the doctor suggested that the chromosomes be checked, but she and her family didn't take it seriously, which was a big problem. Isn't this the same as buying a lottery ticket and winning the jackpot and losing it?
If this rare disease is detected early, not only the treatment effect is good, but also the psychological preparation is sufficient. Now a "You're a man" suddenly pops up, isn't it clear that people are broken! Doctors are too, can you give a little more force at the critical moment and push more?
Gender matters, it's really not your XX chromosome, you have to be what. Li Yuan was defined as male because of chromosomes, and this black-and-white definition is too old-fashioned.
The stereotype of gender in society is too heavy, and it has to be masculine for men and gentle for women. Li Yuan's experience is a vivid example of how we need to change this stereotype.
Is it appropriate to finally fall in love and get married, and suddenly tell you that you can't get married? The law has to keep up with the times, and the understanding of gender diversity needs to be updated. People have a good relationship, but the law is still stumbling over there, which is really a blockage.
The blow to Li Yuan was absolutely devastating. Suddenly told her that your gender identity in this life is wrong, and ordinary people can bear this kind of thing?
This is not only a reshaping of identity, but simply a denial of self-existence. What Li Yuan needs now is not only healing, but also strong psychological support, and the understanding and tolerance of the people around him.
Look, this matter is a big scoop of cold water, for Li Yuan and for the society. We have to update our concepts in all aspects, from medicine to law, from social concepts to psychological support, so that this kind of thing will not happen again.
If it is handled properly, Li Yuan's life may be able to avoid many detours. If society could be more tolerant, maybe she wouldn't have to run between the hospital and the courtroom now, but prepare for the wedding with her lover with peace of mind.
I really hope that there will be changes in the future, so that people like Li Yuan will suffer less.
What do you think?
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