Be smart, this is a classic saying that Mr. Mo Yan said. Being smart not only means that we should be wise and resourceful in life, but also includes clever responses when dealing with interpersonal relationships. Especially when dealing with the relationship between relatives, sometimes we may encounter some embarrassing situations, such as not being notified of some important activities and becoming a neglected character. In this case, if we can pretend not to know and deal with it in a smart way, we can not only maintain the friendship of our relatives, but also maintain our own dignity.
First of all, we need to remain calm and understanding in the face of a situation where our relatives pretend not to know without informing us. Understanding does not mean that we ignore the unannounced behavior of our relatives, but rather that we may have their own reasons. Things are often complicated in the family, and there can be some difficulties in communication between relatives. Therefore, being smart is not about holding accountable who is right and who is wrong, but about facing the situation with a tolerant mindset while maintaining self-esteem.
Secondly, being smart also requires some skills and strategies. When we find ourselves not being notified about some important family activity, we can choose to pretend that we don't know instead of dwelling too much on the issue. We can choose to participate in activities with other relatives or friends as a way to show our independence and self-confidence. At the same time, when communicating with other relatives, do not overemphasize your own ignorance, but participate in the activity with a positive attitude and show our intelligence and resourcefulness.
In addition, being smart also needs to learn to properly handle your emotions. When we find ourselves not being notified, we may feel aggrieved and lost. But being smart is not about expressing these emotions, but about learning to control your emotions and finding solutions to problems. We can choose to communicate privately with relatives to find out why we weren't notified and try to address what is happening in this situation. In this process, we need to keep a calm mind, try to avoid emotional arguments, and solve problems in a smarter way.
In general, it is a relatively wise thing to be smart, and it is relatively wise to not know when relatives do not inform you. When dealing with this situation, be calm and understanding, have certain skills and strategies, and learn to handle your emotions properly. In this way, we are able to maintain the camaraderie of our relatives, maintain our dignity, and show our smart side. Being smart not only makes us more complete and harmonious in our family relationships, but also makes us more comfortable in other relationships. Let's keep learning and growing in life and become a truly intelligent person.