Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
Marriage is like a train to the future. If you are attracted by the scenery outside the window and can't help but lean out, you will encounter unforeseen dangers.
Men are so caught up in the novelty of marriage that they don't realize that their actions are a ridiculous adventure.
He put his desire first, ignoring the adherence to the bottom line of marriage, thinking that happiness was within reach, but in fact everything was in vain.
Betrayal of marriage will come at a painful price. If you look closely, you will find that if a man betrays his marriage, he will generally have the following "ends".
02. After the divorce, I found that the woman outside of marriage was unfaithful
My colleague Xu Heng developed a relationship outside of marriage behind his wife's back, and he couldn't extricate himself from love, and he always wanted to be with a woman outside of marriage.
He has long been tired of his wife, and he doesn't like his wife no matter how he looks at it.
So, he simply filed for divorce from his wife, determined to stay with a woman outside of marriage.
After completing the divorce procedures, he wanted to surprise the woman, came downstairs to the woman's residence, and saw a scene that he couldn't believe.
A strange man sent a woman home, and after getting out of the car, the two were still reluctant and extremely intimate. It seems that they are a pair of lovers who are inseparable in love.
Xu Heng chased after the woman and asked her what she meant, why she was entangled with other men behind his back, and said that he was divorced for her.
The woman said, everyone is an adult, don't take your feelings too seriously.
Men who betray their marriages use their marriages as a cage in an attempt to find solace in extramarital relationships.
As everyone knows, if you misbehave, you will only attract the same kind of people who treat your feelings as a game. The harm he inflicted on others will eventually be retributed to himself in the same form.
Manmohan Singh said, "When you betray others, you also betray yourself." ”
A man's betrayal of his marriage is doomed. Since he is unable to maintain his fidelity to his marriage, it is difficult to gain the sincerity of others.
03. Children don't understand, so they are estranged and not close
When a man betrays his marriage, he harms not only his wife, but also his children.
A family has become fragmented and no longer warm.
The image of a man in the hearts of his children will collapse with a bang, and he will no longer have the majesty and respect he deserves as a father.
The children will not understand his actions and thoughts, but will only regard him as a destroyer of the family, and blame him for all the dissatisfaction in his heart, and even the unsatisfactory life in the future.
With these emotions of indignation and resentment, the feelings for each other will become very indifferent, as if they were strangers.
There are too many unresolved knots between men and their children to get along like other fathers and sons, and even if they need their children by their side, it is difficult for them to do so.
To betray a marriage is to betray the whole family and stand in opposition to all family members.
Even if a man wakes up and wants to re-cultivate the family affection of his children, it is difficult for the family affection to return to the past.
04, after losing, I know that the original match is good, but I can't love it
Just like in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng fell in love with the empathetic Ling Ling.
Ignoring his wife Luo Zijun's pleading, he insisted on divorce.
After reforming his family with Ling Ling, he found out that Ling Ling was not as understanding, gentle and filial as he thought.
She is scheming everywhere, full of heart, trying every means to fight for more resources for her children, and she has a firm view of Chen Junsheng.
Chen Junsheng couldn't help but start recalling Luo Zijun's goodness and the happy time when the family of three was together. When he heard that someone was slandering Luo Zijun behind his back, he couldn't help but feel sorry for Luo Zijun.
At this time, he realized that he still loved Luo Zijun in his heart.
It's just that the current self is no longer qualified to love her.
Men who betray their marriages are often trapped in an obsession. Marriage is regarded as a bondage, and women outside of marriage are regarded as salvation in this life.
Only when you lose it, will you really understand the good of your wife, but everything has been wrong, and there is no turning back.
People are always constantly weighing and comparing, and when they have a marriage, they don't know how to cherish it. I can't wait to abandon it, and when I lose it completely, I regret it.
A man who betrays his marriage will always be tormented by what he has gained and lost, and will be trapped in the anxiety and regret of not being able to love.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
There is a price to be paid for everything, and once you take the first step, there is no turning back.
Don't betray your marriage easily, don't use your boredom with marriage as an excuse for your depravity, and unscrupulously hurt your dearest.
Cherish the time with your lover and continue to improve each other's marriage. Invest more time and thoughts, so that ordinary days can warm each other's hearts.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.