Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
Body language, like a mirror, can reflect the true thoughts of a person's heart.
If a man loves you, he will naturally feel close to you.
No matter what you do, he will feel that you are right. He will give you more understanding and tolerance, as if you will never touch his bottom line.
But if a man doesn't feel good for you, he doesn't need to say it, and his behavior will tell you the answer.
It can be seen whether a man has feelings for you or not.
Men don't feel for you, and there will be behavior, an action: can't help but reject you.
02. What you say, he rejects and disrespects from the bottom of his heart
My cousin is getting married, and her fiancé accompanies her to choose a wedding dress.
He can find fault with the styles that his cousin likes, either they are too revealing, or the styles are too cumbersome, and none of them he thinks are suitable.
The two of them were about to quarrel in the bridal shop, but in fact, my cousin also knew that it was not the wedding dress's problem.
She likes Western-style weddings, and men say that Chinese-style is good. She wanted to hold a banquet, but the man was troublesome and said that it was not good to go out for a tour.
The two of them always can't talk about going together, and the cousin is becoming more and more uncertain and full of doubts about the marriage of the two.
Belinsky said: "Love needs a reasonable content, just as a raging fire needs oil to sustain it, and love is the harmonious blending of two similar natures in the infinite senses." ”
Men who don't feel for you and don't love you will get used to retorting what you say. When you speak, you don't save face, and you feel that you don't understand anything and don't see.
When two people are together, they will encounter all kinds of disagreements and contradictions, and quarrels will occur if they disagree.
A man loves you, he will give you respect and try to understand you. Be willing to follow your ideas and opinions and get things done.
And the man does not approve of you, what you say, he rejects you from the bottom of his heart, and loses the most basic respect for you, in fact, he is not in love.
03. If you are close to him, he will reject you and not be close
"Great Body Language" reads: "When a person has a crush on you, his body will subconsciously present all kinds of signals. ”
It is likely that a person's speech is false, but his subconscious actions are the most real.
If he doesn't like you, if you sit next to him, he will immediately move his body, not wanting any part of each other's bodies to touch.
If you try to pull his hand, he will dodge too. He'd rather have a hard time walking on his own than let you take care of him.
If you want to hug, he won't give you this opportunity, and he won't feel sweet.
Men don't like to have any physical contact with you when they don't have feelings for you. There will be no intimate behavior before and after people.
The body's resistance and deliberate sense of distance are actually all signals that the other party is releasing a "I don't love you".
Even if you want to "play on the spot" and have physical contact with each other, you can feel his stiffness. He feels that having intimate contact with you is a kind of torment and torture.
If a man has a particularly strong sense of resistance to you, stop deceiving himself, he doesn't love you anymore. Even if they are still by your side, their hearts have flown away, and their feelings for each other will not last long.
04. What you do, he rejects and does not approve
In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the emperor said a sentence that disliked Concubine Qi very much: "How old are you now, and you are still delicate." ”
I don't like a person, I have disgust and disgust for what she does, and I won't approve of it.
Concubine Qi was wearing pink clothes, and he scoffed. Bringing him soup and water, he looked impatient. Concubine Qi picked his favorite topic to talk about and talked about children, but he felt that women were too nagging.
In fact, Concubine Qi tried her best to make him smile, but he sat for less than a quarter of an hour, shook his hand and left, his face full of disdain.
A man has no feelings for you, no matter what you do for him, there is no gratitude and love in his eyes.
Zhang Ailing said: "When a man no longer loves a woman, it is wrong for her to cry, it is wrong to be silent, it is wrong to breathe alive, and it is wrong to die." ”
He doesn't approve of any effort you make. He doesn't see your expectations, and he doesn't understand your hard work.
He doesn't care about your joys and sorrows, and he doesn't want to be with you.
Even when I talk to others about you, I have a look of disdain, as if I have something to do with you, which is a very shameful thing.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
If you don't love someone, there will be a particularly obvious sense of alienation between two people.
Always disagreeing with you, not wanting to talk to you, feeling meaningless in what you do, feeling that you are self-inflicted.
Blindly belittles you and doesn't take into account your feelings.
Men don't feel for you anymore, they don't love you anymore, you can see it at a glance.
If a man always embarrass you, makes you sad when he says something, always wants to draw a line with you and excludes you, he is not loving.
The man who doesn't feel for you and rejects you, stop trying to get closer, know how to stop in moderation and stop losses in time.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.