On April 15, a small incident that happened at a concert held by a singer in Chongqing made netizens hotly discuss and became the most high-profile hot topic. It is reported that in the interactive part of the concert, the host randomly selected a pair of male and female fans to interact with the idol on stage. Unexpectedly, the selected female fan temporarily changed her words and said that she "came alone", and the male companion with glasses was embarrassed on the spot. Subsequently, the relationship between the two became weird, and onlookers speculated whether there was a hidden secret behind it.
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Here's how it happened. On the day of the concert, a man and a woman who appeared to be a couple entered the venue at the same time. During the random interaction session, the camera happened to be pointed at them, and the female fan hurriedly asked the male companion to help with the video. Who knows, as soon as the host asked about the number of others, the female fan blurted out "one person". Hearing this, the expression of the "glasses brother", who was originally happy for his girlfriend, suddenly stiffened, and he couldn't figure out the situation for a while. When the two left the scene, they also walked in different ways, and the atmosphere was weird.
Netizens were only amused at first, but with the doxing, more unusual details were discovered. The two were indeed in a relationship before. But on female fan social networking sites, "Brother Glasses" has never appeared. What "Brother Glasses" used in the explanation video was actually a live broadcast of the personal account of a female fan. Coupled with the indifferent tone of the two when they left the scene, netizens questioned that they were lying too much, what were they hiding?
Is it to break up and hide it and still watch the show? to use the popularity of fans to earn traffic? Or is it a lie and a lie just to become famous? All kinds of speculations have appeared. "Brother Glasses" couldn't bear the criticism of netizens, and wanted to clarify the truth, but fell into a misunderstanding again. This micro-topic has changed from ridicule to serious questioning, and even personal attacks.
The situation is serious, and a small thing that should have been fun is exacerbated by a lack of communication. "Brother Glasses" can't dispel doubts and can't explain why he used the other party's account and concealed the past, and there are still many deficiencies in theory. But should we accuse others too arbitrarily? After all, it is difficult for the two people to know everything about their private relationship, and each person may express his own opinions in a truthful position, so does too naïve malicious speculation hinder the ascertainment of the truth?
So how should "Brother Glasses" face this storm of public opinion? Should he directly publish all the truths to avoid misunderstandings, as netizens said? However, privacy belongs to individuals, and it seems abrupt to force him to reveal it all. Should we let the "parties" come up with their own solutions? Or should we call on the media and public opinion to cool down and avoid the situation from continuing to deteriorate? If all parties can communicate calmly, perhaps the problem can be resolved in time.
There is much to learn from this incident. In the age of social media, more attention should be paid to the issue of personal privacy. Posting photos or details of events in the public domain is a pleasure for both parties, but once the relationship deteriorates, past commemoration or casual confiding information is likely to hurt people again. We need to know the boundaries between sharing and privacy, so that the past does not affect the future. At the same time, the media should also pay attention to fact-checking and wording when reporting personal news, so as not to encourage unnecessary misleading and attacks.
After all, it is inevitable that any individual will be misunderstood and induced one day. The important thing is to let the truth see the light of day through a rational and prudent attitude, and avoid misjudgments dominated by emotions. We should be more tolerant and tolerant of others, and we should be careful not to become a source of misinformation for our own words.
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