I once thought that a blind date would meet a good fate,
Who would have thought that the gift would become chaotic.
He asks for expenses as if he were a debt,
My heart is cold to the bone.
The gift is affectionate,
Unexpectedly, he was so calculating.
After returning I act,
made his face not calm.
Laughing at the changing wind and clouds,
I have a heaven in my heart.
Not bound by the world,
Walk the world independently.
I am not angry when he asks for money,
After returning it, my heart is stronger.
I am not subject to my own rules,
He panicked.
There are many troubles in the world,
My heart is at peace.
Although the blind date is gone,
I'm going around in style.
(The following is the prose part)
I thought that a blind date would meet a good match, but unexpectedly, gift-giving became a source of trouble. The blind date actually asked me for the cost of the gift, which made my heart cold.
Gift-giving is a way to express affection, and it is a respect and recognition for the other party. However, he regarded the gift as a transaction, and my favor for him disappeared in an instant.
I didn't get angry about this, but calmly returned the cost of the gift to him. However, my approach made him not calm. He probably didn't expect me to refund the fee so decisively, let alone face it so calmly.
After the fee was refunded, I was not bothered or disappointed by it. On the contrary, I felt a sense of ease and freedom that I had never felt before. I realized that I don't need to change myself to meet other people's expectations, and I don't need to compromise in order to maintain a relationship.
I was not angry when he asked for the fee, but after I returned it, I was even more convinced. I do my own thing, I am not bound and restricted by the world, I have my own life and pursuits. His departure is just an episode in my life, and I will continue to move forward to find the happiness that truly belongs to me.
The road to blind date may be full of unknowns and uncertainties, but I believe that as long as you keep your inner peace and firmness, you can find the person who is truly suitable for you. And those short-term disturbances and setbacks will only become the scenery and experience on the road of my life.
At this moment, my heart is peaceful. I know that no matter what challenges and difficulties I encounter in the future, I have enough courage and wisdom to face and solve them. The departure of the blind date is just a small episode in my life, and I will continue to move forward and perform my own wonderful chapter on the broad stage of life.