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In fact, in a sense, there is no real soul mate in real life!
It's just that, compared with those problematic combinations, those who are relatively at the same frequency are more able to interpret deep love to the extreme.
This is what we often call "soul mates"!
For many people, the word "soul mate" sounds very abstract, but in fact, after the soul mate meets, the real feeling is in the details of the interaction in reality!
Between men and women, after the soul mate meets: 4 manifestations are obvious!
1: Empathy
Empathy is to experience your feelings as if you were feeling your own feelings!
This kind of empathy can only be truly achieved by soulmates!
There are always people who say that if two people have been together for a long time, they will lose a lot of formality because of the fading of passion.
Therefore, when you get along in ordinary days, you will think that the other party has "changed", "not as sorry for yourself, caring for yourself, and considerate of yourself as before......
In fact, no one will change! Only people are willing to do too much to satisfy their passion at first sight!
After a long time, the passion fades and the performance decreases!
It's not who has changed, but who has shown his true colors, lost interest in the person in front of him and is unwilling to "act".
The real soul mate will provide each other with a very appropriate empathy value, so that each other can love and be loved, and through the way of mutual empathy, they will bring each other the most indispensable sense of existential value!
Under the blessing of each other's indispensable sense of existential value, both people can experience the beautiful experience of caring and being cared for all the time!
Without empathetic emotional relationships, no matter how much sense of form, no matter how much real vows there are, they will look extremely pale.
2: Resonance
If it is a soul mate, then the resonance from each other's hearts is particularly obvious!
There is a kind of emotional relationship, which is that you don't say I don't ask, mixed with the twist that you don't ask and I don't say and you don't ask, so no matter how long you are together, they consume each other's existence!
There is also a kind of emotional relationship, I will say whether you ask or not, I will move if you say it or not, it is the existence of mutual help with one heart, empathy, and the same goal!
In comparison, you will know that telepathy is very compatible with true soul mates.
With the same thoughts, the same values, and the same outlook on life, we will not get along with each other because of too many unnecessary misunderstandings and suspicious speculations!
Sad what you are sad about, happy what you like, even if I don't know what happened to you for the first time, but I will send you the message of care and sharing in a way that you can accept!
This kind of "togetherness" is that two magnets attract each other, and two 50% people complement each other perfectly!
The emotional relationship that can't reach the resonance of the heart, at most it is only a superficial liking!
3: Win-win
Any kind of relationship is a win-win model with a plan, so that we can get along with each other more healthily and lastingly!
This pattern is even more pronounced in relationships.
Don't say that to love someone is to run against all odds!
In fact, the desperate rush process is to let yourself feel as you have figured out or are about to be!
Adults do things, they have motivation to have actual behavior, the stronger the "righteousness" of the behavior, the more it means that the more they want to do it!
When two people in a relationship can exist in the relationship as a "win-win" partner, then they will be more motivated to be each other's assistants because they want to be satisfied with each other's needs!
Hello, I'm good, hello everyone, this kind of "together" is the manifestation of soul mates - a sense of steadfastness, security, and confidence.
4: A shared future
Some people have a very big misunderstanding about soul mates, thinking that they only care about the current fit they once had and don't care about the eternal fit is a soul mate!
In fact, a true soulmate is meant to have a future!
In the world of feelings, a shared future means that each other has to work hard for the rest of their lives together!
While working together for the rest of their lives, soulmates will really be able to rely on each other and do their best for a common future, regardless of illness or health, wealth or poverty!
People who share the future will respect each other's ideas and suggestions, know how to listen to each other's voices, and correctly express their own demands......
In this state, soulmates will establish a pattern of mutual trust, mutual support, mutual sharing, and mutual advancement.
In short, when I met my soul mate, two people's hearts were full of each other, and they would do their best for each other's hearts and minds for each other!
In addition, soul mates will also have full relationship commitment and problem-solving perseverance, and will grow together with each other, but they will be the most worthy of care in each other's eyes!
Soul mates make people understand that the so-called love is never passion and freshness, but a responsibility and a belief!
Negative emotions are common to all, and when you are willing to put them aside, you can not be bound by them. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!
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Topic discussion: Do you think there will be an irreversible separation between soul mates?