"Mother-in-law can't quarrel if she is unreasonable", "If you don't want to reciprocate and love your mother-in-law", the community mother-in-law and daughter-in-law code has caused controversy

"No matter how unreasonable your mother-in-law is, don't quarrel with her."

"If you don't ask for anything in return, you love your mother-in-law like you love your mother."

On May 16, some netizens broke the news that a community in Shenzhen released a friendly family brochure, which mentioned a number of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law codes, but the content in it caused controversy among netizens, bluntly saying: "It's uncomfortable to watch."

The page "Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship should be good" in this brochure reads:

1. Be grateful to your mother-in-law from the bottom of your heart, respect your mother-in-law, and don't quarrel with her no matter how unreasonable she is.
2. Even if your mother-in-law is not present, you can't speak ill of her to your husband.
3. Living with my mother-in-law, I can't run back to my parents' house from time to time because I'm angry.
4. If you don't ask for anything in return, you love your mother like you love your mother.
5. Don't be too intimate with your husband in front of your mother-in-law.

To sum up, it is necessary to always understand the mother-in-law's difficulty, and the wife must unconditionally accommodate the mother-in-law, even if the mother-in-law is wrong.

There are five in total, and it can be said that each of them has stepped on the thunder point of netizens: it is very uncomfortable to watch!

Netizens hit the nail on the head and said: Which mother-in-law wrote out what was in her heart?

Does anyone lack a mother? I want to be a mother-in-law.

Emotional netizens said wildly: Ah, yes, yes, yes, it's not easy for my mother-in-law to give birth to me and raise me.

This is clearly a manual of psychological shadows.

As soon as the booklet's mother-in-law code was exposed, it sparked heated discussions and controversies, and the community workers who released the brochure said that the original intention was to pay attention to family relationships and provide help to everyone.

The Community Women's Federation, which produced the brochure, apologized to the public and stated that the brochure was produced in 2019, and that the proofreading was not rigorous enough at that time, and it was distributed to residents without updating it in time.

The bug brochure will be collected as soon as possible, revised, and distributed after being revised.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the focus of family disputes and contradictions.

The Community Women's Federation has produced a brochure for the purpose of paying attention to family relations and maintaining mental health, which is also a job responsibility, with good intentions.

With the awakening of women's consciousness in recent years, the concept of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also undergone great changes in 2019 and now, and the content should also be updated in a timely manner.

In a family, although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are divided into elders and juniors, there should not be obvious concepts of superiority and inferiority.

Respect is mutual, and no one should unconditionally accommodate others when they come up.

At the same time, a good husband should be a good lubricant between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, and coordinate the relationship between the two parties.

Only a mother-in-law who wants to be the king and hegemon at home will treat her daughter-in-law as her own subordinate, and she should be driven unconditionally by herself to respect herself everywhere.

And such a family relationship is obviously deformed, and the marriage will not last long.

What do you think about this?