When Chunyang came in, the doorbell rang, the partner opened the door, and the son came in and said "let's go".
Lao Li sent my two suitcases and a few backpacks downstairs with his son.
In the elevator, Lao Li whispered, it's not that I don't keep you, it's that I'm powerless and really can't take care of it.
I am Zhou Xiangmei, 56 years old this year, retired for 6 years, with a pension of 2800, and partnered with Lao Li for 10 years.
An illness, unable to do heavy work, Lao Li is a hands-off shopkeeper, and he proposed to break up with me.
I cried and cried, made trouble, and called Lao Li's son.
Let him see the love of me helping to take care of the baby for a few years, and tell Lao Li, don't drive me away.
Lao Li's son is a good person, he talked to Lao Li for a long time, and promised to come over on the weekend to clean up the housework for us.
However, Lao Li still said ruthlessly:
We live together, and we are not really husband and wife, so he has no obligation to take care of me.
I had nowhere to go but to call my married son and ask him to pick me up and rent me a house.
At this time, I regretted that I shouldn't have divorced my ex-husband, helped others take care of the baby, and neglected my son.
My ex-husband and I were assigned to the same factory after graduation, and we got married two years later.
The unit is divided into welfare housing, ranked according to seniority, we have a short working experience and low education, and we are assigned to the fifth floor of a one-bedroom apartment.
No matter how small the house is, if you have a family, you feel that you are the happiest person in the world.
The years after my son was born were the happiest days for my ex-husband and me.
With the development of society, the progress of science and technology, and the restructuring of unit enterprises, the ex-husband's career is bright and gratifying.
We switched to a big three-bedroom house, and my son worked hard to improve all the way, and I didn't need to bother to do it.
When people reach middle age, a woman's confidence is getting smaller and smaller, and her eyes are naturally only staring at her ex-husband's every move.
I found out that my ex-husband had someone outside of marriage, and I was caught red-handed several times, and after several tosses, my ex-husband actually filed for divorce with me.
I thought that I would live well without my ex-husband, but not only did I not have a son, but I didn't even want a house.
If you don't eat steamed buns and fight for breath, you often suffer from yourself.
My ex-husband was at fault, and I was equivalent to leaving the house, and I only asked my ex-husband to pay me tens of thousands of yuan.
After the divorce, I learned that women should read Yang Jiang more and not take the love in marriage too seriously.
If a man has no affection for you, use him as a family tool to earn money and take care of himself and his children.
A sober and rational woman, the competition is not for her husband, but for her excellent children and herself.
Without a home and no son, I became a free woman and wanted to find a good man for myself.
I've been in a serious relationship a few times, but in the end it ended up with nothing, either I think men are calculating, or men dislike me for nothing.
My son is estranged from me, lukewarm to me, and wants my son to have a meal with me in my rental house during the Chinese New Year, but he is not willing.
After a few years of wandering life, I also saw the reality clearly, and I wanted to remarry my ex-husband, but I found that he had already married and had a baby.
I had no choice but to find a retired man, who felt like a nanny and a part-time wife, but also unwilling.
Lao Li and I were introduced by well-wishers around me, and Lao Li also said that I was young and would definitely be able to take good care of him.
Lao Li said that we have been together for a long time, and he considered getting a certificate and promised that I would live in his house until a hundred years later.
That's why I paid all kinds of flattery to Lao Li.
Lao Li partnered with me, handed over the 6,200 monthly pension to me for management, and gave me red envelopes during the New Year.
In the first 5 years of the partnership, our days made the old sisters around me envious, and I felt that I was still blessed.
After I retired, Lao Li's son's family gave birth to a second child, and Lao Li painted me a big cake, first said, I will help take care of the baby, and he will consider adding a name to the property.
When I took the child to kindergarten, Lao Li said to wait under various excuses, and said that he was considering selling it and directly buying a new house for the two of us.
During that period, my son's family had no one to take care of the baby, and my son once came to me and asked me to help with it for a few years.
I was being fooled by Lao Li and couldn't find the north, thinking that as long as I was good to Lao Li and his son, my old age would be settled.
I refused to bring a baby to my son's family, and my son didn't pay attention to me for several years.
Last year, I was sick and hospitalized, and after medical insurance, I spent more than 20,000, and my body was very weak, I couldn't do too much housework, and I needed Lao Li to take care of me.
I discussed with Lao Li to hire a part-time job for my family first, and then resign when I was well.
Lao Li agreed at first, but then he didn't know what he thought, and he broke up with me noisily, and said that we were not husband and wife in the first place.
Now I can't serve him, so he doesn't need to be with me, and he has to take his pension card away.
Scolding me at home all day long, driving me away, I am also a woman who wants face, he drives me away, I don't leave, and I am angry when I stay at his house.
I had to call my son, tell him about my situation, ask him to drive over to pick me up, and rent me a suite by the way.
In fact, I have partnered with Lao Li for 10 years, and I have saved some money myself.
Here is Lao Li's pension, as well as the red envelopes they gave me when I brought a baby to Lao Li's son, as well as the expenses for the New Year.
Although I now have pension money and a monthly pension, I don't have a house and no relatives around me.
My heart is still empty, if I hadn't insisted on divorcing my ex-husband, my life would have been very good.
Men are the same, they will be a little crooked when they are young, if the ex-husband can change his ways, we can still live it.
It's because I'm too bent on going my own way, always seeing my feelings too clearly, and instead living my life miserable.
My son put me in a small house that my ex-husband was vacant, and he said that my ex-husband made me feel at ease.
What can I say, my son only has obligations and responsibilities for me, a mother, and there is no extra family affection.
After arranging for me, my son bought me some vegetables and asked me to get some food for myself, and if I needed to go to the hospital, I would call him again.
My son taught me how to find an accompanist online, saying that he travels a lot, not necessarily always with me, so that I can learn to take care of myself.
It's not that I have any serious illness, but I have just been discharged from the hospital, my body is weak, and coupled with menopausal syndrome, it is inevitable that I am a little hypocritical.
What I didn't expect was that Lao Li actually broke up with me due to an illness.
After more than ten years of divorce, I can see clearly that if a woman is in marriage, if there are not extreme things, she must not divorce easily.
After all, you and your original partner have years of growing up together, a family built together, and your own children.
Remarrying, or living together, is just to take what they need and have their own thoughts, without benefits, it will not last long at all.
Author: Huagui Zen Heart
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have a story, I have tea, and we can talk about the rest of our lives together.
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