Tonight (April 13th) "Yili Zhennon, Do Not Disturb If You Are Honest", a male guest just appeared on the stage and received the female guest Yu Chenxin's rapid explosion! Unexpectedly, the male guest came specifically for another female guest on the field, but the girl who burst the lights did not intend to give up, and the brave confession of "I am willing to leave everything for you" is moving. The emotional internal friction in love triggered a heated discussion on the scene, and the three teachers suggested: many conflicts often do not arise because of the thing itself, and the key to resolving the conflict lies in whether the two parties have positive emotions, and they must fall in love with warm emotions.
"Rapid Lights" meets "Coming for You" Girl with Lights: "I'm willing to leave everything for you!"
As soon as Chen Yixin, a male guest from Luoyang, Henan Province, appeared, he received a female guest Yu Chenxin's rapid explosion of lights! Meng Fei couldn't help but sigh: "I have never seen such a fast explosion of lights!" Chen Yixin is a bank account manager, and his biggest hobby after work is badminton, "Badminton has been with me for 15 years, I have received professional training since I was nine years old, and I won the Henan Youth Badminton Championship at the age of 18, and I also won the men's doubles championship with my teammates during the 14th Provincial Games in Henan Province." ”
What's even more surprising than the rapid explosion of lights is that Chen Yixin actually came specifically for a female guest on the field, "She is my senior sister, and she is my fellow countryman." She helped me a lot when I was emotionally confused, and she gave me a lot of encouragement when I was starting my own business. She likes to challenge herself and is the type I admire. This year, June 9th is your birthday, and I have prepared a special gift for you in advance. Chen Xiaoxu, thank you for teaching me how to love and how to be brave, I hope you can give me a chance! You said that I like self-motivated boys, and I am constantly polishing myself, and today I have the courage to stand here, I think I can!"
Everyone thought that the girl who burst the lights would give up, but Yu Chenxin said: "Although the male guest is very determined to choose Xiaoxu, I still want to fight for myself, because I think we are quite fated, and my family is also from Luoyang." If you choose me, I am willing to leave anything for you, I can accompany you wherever you want to go!" Chen Xiaoxu also responded to the firmness of the male guests: "I have bravely left the light on stage, but I have never been so firmly chosen." You say that you look up to me a lot, but in fact many times you are the one who makes me look up. In the end, who will the male guest choose to hold hands with?
Love is like a long-distance run, and it is very important to refuse internal friction
Lv Tianyu, a male guest from Jurong, Jiangsu, originally studied business administration, but he had a strong interest in photography when he was in school, and since then he has not missed any opportunity to learn, and finally came to shoot the first short film in his life.
When it comes to the topic of feelings, Lu Tianyu believes that love is like a long-distance run, and we must be prepared to never relax, "When my first love and I entered the sixth year, the pace began to be inconsistent, we entered a period of burnout, and we lost our desire to share. I thought this was the way every couple should go, but it wasn't until she proposed to break up that I realized that I wasn't dedicated enough. With apologies for the previous relationship, Lu Tianyu made up for the debt to the next one for his first love, "I made a lot of changes, and began to care about her and take care of her, but she will always get angry because I didn't do a little thing." For example, she would often compare her former suitors to me, 'those who have a heart don't need to be taught, and those who don't have a heart can't be taught,' which is a phrase she often said to me, and I felt very sad and helpless, and became more and more aware of how inconsequential my love for her was. This kind of relationship makes me more and more internal, constantly doubting myself, do I really not know how to love someone?"
The three teachers suggested that the male guest must stop emotional friction before starting a new relationship, "His last relationship was really unequal, and the other party was always suppressing and shaping his shape, suppressing his entire inner self to disappear a little." The so-called "emotional internal friction" refers to the slow consumption of one's own emotions in one's heart, especially in love, this internal friction especially hurts the feelings of two people. Lovers must have more empathy and experience each other's emotions from each other's point of view. If the emotions you pass on to the other person are always warm and positive, it will make getting along a lot more harmonious. Many contradictions often arise not because of the thing itself, but because of the other party's emotions and attitudes, and the key to resolving the conflict lies in whether both parties have positive emotions, and they must fall in love with warm emotions.
Lu Tianyu hopes to find a reasonable, gentle and generous girl. At 20:30 tonight (April 13), please pay attention to Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Yili Zhennong, Do Not Disturb".