Many times, we often fall into a misunderstanding.
When others are angry at us, they can't wait to use more anger to suppress their arrogance.
But in fact, fighting with others is red-faced and hard-hitting, and in the end there is only one result: both lose.
You may even be in danger of your own life.
Because you don't know who is on the verge of an emotional breakdown, and your little argument with him, ignites him, and the flames of his anger erupt on your body and burn you.
And truly wise people will know how to avoid the edge for a while, calm down, and use their wisdom to give people a fatal blow at a critical moment.
Ms. Wang, from Hangzhou, bought a parking space after moving into her new home. But because she didn't live here for a long time, she rented out the parking space as well. But soon after the lease was out, the tenant kept complaining to her that someone had occupied her parking space, so she couldn't park her car all the time.
Ms. Wang checked the surveillance and found that a man had been parking his car in her parking space for a long time. She didn't go directly to the other party to theorize, but installed a floor lock in her parking space.
But unexpectedly, when the man saw it, he angrily smashed the ground lock, and drove a motorcycle to smash the ground lock, and parked the car again
The surveillance video completely recorded the situation at that time.
The scene in front of her made Ms. Wang unbearable.
She dialed the other party's phone, but the other party not only did not apologize, but instead flew into a rage, scolding Ms. Wang on the phone.
Ms. Wang did not scold him, but calmly recorded these insulting words. After hanging up the phone, she contacted the property and called for a tow truck, and towed the car away.
The other party didn't see the car the next day, called her, and she said:
I'm sorry, the car has been towed away by the property, and I have also filed with the traffic police, and you have to bear the towing costs.
In the future, I will park our parking space, I will see a tow once, you will work with me, I will drag you together!
He kicked the lock of Ms. Wang's house and insulted Ms. Wang, which was also handed over as evidence. At this time, he not only has to pay a towing fee of several thousand yuan, but may even face prison and completely wilt.
In this incident, Ms. Wang did not conflict with him head-on, nor did she entangle with him too much, but did the most ruthless thing with the calmest mind. Even if others spoke ill of her own belongings and maliciously destroyed her home's belongings, she was not provoked, but solved the trouble quickly and ruthlessly.
Zhuangzi said: "Those who respect but do not like it, and insult it but do not get angry, only those who are in harmony with heaven are the same." ”
The greatest ability of a person is not to panic.
No matter how the other party provokes him, annoys him, or provokes him, he can control his "anger", deal with it calmly and quietly, and give the other party a fatal blow.