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On April 11, the news of Jin Xing's remarriage with his predecessor Hans shocked the whole network, and the two made a high-profile official announcement, went around and around, and returned to the original starting point.
Jin Xing also took advantage of the official announcement to explain that the divorce was because of the children, allowing netizens to witness their steadfast love.
The Venus in the picture is wearing a gold necklace and a silver ring, even though he is 57 years old, he still looks very radiant, and the temperament of a dancer is still the same.
At the beginning, I had no choice but to divorce because of the settlement of the children, but I didn't expect that 18 years of time would not take away the feelings of the two at all.
Venus's path to love, like the "change" she made back then, is full of challenges and tests.
Give everything for the dance
In April 1995, Venus underwent sex reassignment surgery. The operation lasted up to 10 hours, and all the pain was unbearable.
Venus was 28 years old at the time and ready to take on everything. And the idea of "sex change" was planted as early as when Venus was very young.
When she first found herself scared when she entered the men's bathhouse, it was the first time Venus had an awareness of her gender.
"When I was a teenager, I sat on the patio and fantasized about being a beautiful girl, fantasizing about one day going all over the world to dance. This is what Venus later confessed to on the show.
In fact, long before the gender change, Jin Xing had already achieved something in dance, and at the age of 20, as the first Chinese dancer, he was sent to New York to study.
Surgery is risky, success is good, if not, the previous efforts are lost, and Venus will not be able to dance again for the rest of his life.
Fortunately, the sex reassignment surgery was successfully completed, but the lower leg of the left leg was injured during the operation, and the doctor said that he could not return to the way it used to be.
But Venus refuses to admit defeat, she can survive the operation, and her calf will definitely return to the beginning, she wants to dance!
It took less than a year for Venus to complete the miracle that doctors said was impossible, her calf was fully recovered, and she successfully changed her life!
Since then, Jin Xing has devoted herself to the dance career she loves, and she has not only become a female dancer, but also a pioneer of modern Chinese dance.
In 1999, in order to bring more youth power to Chinese modern dance, Jin Xing founded his own dance group.
Since its establishment, the Venus Dance Troupe has performed all over the country, allowing modern dance to go abroad and to the world. One of the most famous works, "Tango at Sea", has toured Europe as the main dance.
Over the years, Jin Xing has not hesitated to pave the way for the new generation of dancers, and every time he generously took the hands of other young actors and sent them to the center of the stage for a curtain call, never caring if there was a camera of his own.
Not only is she fluent in various languages, but she has also worked as a host, actress and director. All kinds of "scandals" in the entertainment industry can't escape Jin Xing's "magic eye".
She shines on the stage, in order to be able to come and go freely while performing in the United States, Jin Xing has to think about getting married, but the "change" causes her marriage to not go well.
The first time for cooperation, the second time for true love
Before Venus and Hans got married, they had a legal "wife". Before her surgery, in order to get a green card in the United States and achieve freedom of access, Jin Xing discussed with her classmate's girlfriend and got a marriage certificate in the United States.
But a few years later, his classmate's girlfriend was going to get married, and Jin Xing immediately went through the divorce procedures. Although the legal husband and wife were not completed, Jin Xing still flew to attend the wedding of his "wife" and generously blessed the two of them.
Jin Xing didn't get a green card in the end, but the green card didn't matter to her anymore.
Later, Venus, who did not have much expectations for love, met Hans by chance on Air France. The two left each other phone calls after meeting for the first time on the plane.
Because the boys Venus likes are tall and muscular types, Hans, a gentleman, did not affect Venus's heart at first.
But Hans fell in love with the tsundere dancer Venus on the plane at a glance.
With the phone, Hans took the initiative to ask Venus to meet, but he didn't expect that the Venus who came to the appointment was dressed casually, which was very different from the fashion trend on the plane.
Jin Xing didn't expect that Hans would take the initiative to contact her, and she, who has always been bold, took him home directly when she knew that Hans was going to pursue her, letting him know that there were already three adopted children at home.
The strong family atmosphere gave Hans a sense of belonging, and he felt that he had fallen in love with her, but this was one-sided, and Venus immediately told Hans about himself.
even said bluntly, "The woman in front of you is a huge challenge for any man in the world." Venus tried to persuade Hans to give up.
But Hans didn't, he has always made decisions carefully, he made an exception here with Venus, and it was rare to be impulsive, and the exclusive charm of Venus fascinated him.
After the two got along for six months, Venus felt that Hans was very bold and courageous, and gradually fell in love with him.
In 2005, the two got married, and after learning about Venus's past, Hans's parents only asked, "Can you stand her being so famous, and won't there be pressure to be with her?"
Hans says "no" categorically, while Venus's mother doesn't accept Hans at first, feeling that anyone who falls in love with her daughter has some intentions. When Hans first entered the door, Venus's mother thought she was a foreigner delivering food.
Hans chose to settle in China for the sake of Venus, and although the two could no longer have children of their own, it was enough for them.
Venus, as a person with a clear understanding of life, always brings all kinds of surprises to Hans, and she clearly understands her responsibility, she is not only a dancer, but also a mother of three children, and then Hans's wife.
So when the child couldn't settle down, Jin Xing decisively divorced Hans, which made Hans very helpless, but Jin Xing still said very resolutely, "The child always comes first." ”
Adopt three children and stage "Three Lives and Three Worlds" with Hans
In 2006, the day after the end of the World Cup, Jin Xing and Hans went through divorce procedures, and after the divorce, Jin Xing immediately went to register for the child.
Since all three are adopted, only one can be done first, unless the other children are sent back to the orphanage. Venus resolutely objected, because she wanted to protect the child's heart, even if she gave it back after sending it back, Venus couldn't accept it.
After several choices, Jin Xing first opened a household registration for his eldest son, and the other two children could only give up first.
Because of the hukou problem, the children cannot take the plane, but Jin Xing still does his best to bring care to the children, and often drives them to self-drive trips.
Venus's nurturing grace to the children touched the teachers of the school, so they had the privilege of being able to go to school. Venus loves this country, she follows all the rules, does not abandon her children, and does not send them abroad perfunctory.
Now the three children have grown up smoothly, the eldest son has his own career in the UK, the second daughter has become the cover character of fashion magazines, and the youngest is still studying.
Although Venus's family situation is very special, the three children know that Venus is not easy to give to them, and they have long regarded her as their biological mother.
Although Venus and Hans are divorced, Hans can still help take care of Venus's children at home, and they have always been a warm family of five.
Jin Xing also often shares Hans's love for herself to the outside world, she once said on the show, "The person she admires the most is Hans." ”
On Venus's birthday, Hans gave her an oil painting version of the engagement photo, and in Hans's heart, Venus was already his only wife and the love of his life.
Not only that, but Venus's mother slowly changed her opinion of Hans, and told Venus not to "bully" him.
Even on Children's Day, Hans would carefully prepare gifts for Venus and pet her as a child. The photo posted by Jin Xing on Weibo also specifically pointed out that it was taken by Hans, and fans invisibly ate a handful of dog food, saying that Jin Xing is a "love blogger".
Such a kind and generous sharing makes everyone feel like this is a pair of ordinary lovers, and sweetness is their daily mode of getting along.
In addition to sharing his work on Weibo, most of the other content is related to Hans, and in January this year, the two went to see an art exhibition together, and the life of the artist is really full of art.
As Hans said, in the face of love, it doesn't matter whether there is a proof or not, the important thing is that two people really love each other, and stability and happiness are enough. And now, remarriage is a matter of smooth sailing for them.
On the day of remarriage, not only Hans's birthday was chosen, but also a special time, the lover is like raising flowers, in the company of Hans, Mr. Venus is still extraordinary, elegant temperament, and the pigeon eggs in his hands are conveying happiness.
This marriage letter, which was delayed for 18 years, is the best proof of the unswerving love between the two.
epilogue
She is the brightest star on the stage, she is the greatest mother in life, and she is a lover who keeps her promises in love.
Venus not only used words to tell us the truth of life in the show, but also used his own story to tell us that nothing cannot be overcome, dare to say it, dare to do it, dare to do it!
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Sources of information in this article:
[1] "Baidu Encyclopedia: Venus"
[2] "Luyu has a date: Venus couple, a different kind of love"
[3] "Venus Personal Weibo Account Dynamics"
[4] "Venus Official Announcement: Get Married Again!"