"There are naughty old people in the family, don't be dragged down by filial piety, and resolutely don't be spoiled!"
Introduction:
Are there any elderly people in the family who are "troubled" and always cause trouble to their children? They may be able to move freely, but they have made their children anxious, and have even been "kidnapped" by filial piety, and they have to serve them wholeheartedly. This situation makes people feel helpless at times, and sometimes they feel distressed. Today, let's take a look at the story of a neighbor's house and think about how to face such an old man.
Body:
In this community, there is a family of elderly people who are particularly eye-catching. The children of the elderly, especially their sons, always went out of their way to take care of him. Every morning, breakfast is brought to the elderly on time, and in the evening they come back to cook dinner for him, and even several times a day they have to go to ask the elderly about their needs. But the old man always seemed to be dissatisfied, and from time to time he would call his son, tell him all kinds of troubles, and ask the child to take care of him.
This has been going on for a long time, and the children of the old man seem to be accustomed to it, and there are not too many complaints about it. They believe that this is a duty to their parents and a duty to their parents, so although they sometimes feel troubled, they can only bear it silently.
However, recently, the neighbor's son and daughter received a call from the old man again, saying that he was feeling a little uncomfortable at home alone and hoped that his children would take care of him. In the face of such a situation, they feel very helpless, because their work and family also need to be taken care of, but they are always worried about the affairs of the elderly. But they have to take care of the elderly wholeheartedly, because after all, they are their own parents and have inseparable feelings for them.
This scene makes people wonder what kind of degree of filial piety should children have to their parents? Should they take into account their own life and work while respecting their parents? After all, children also have their own responsibilities and obligations, and should not be "kidnapped" by filial piety.
End:
With such an old man in the family, the children do not have to be kidnapped by filial piety, and they resolutely do not get used to him. But at the same time, we must not forget the care and respect for our parents. How to strike a balance between filial piety and our own lives may be a question that requires us to ponder. What do you think?Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.