Marriage must be done as early as possible, otherwise it will be difficult for a woman to remarry once she is over 25 years old. After this age, it is difficult to meet someone you like, and it is basically material needs.
Some people say that times have changed, marriage is no longer a necessity, life is not only about marriage, but also poetry and distance. This can only be said to be too idealistic, life is to experience all the things that people should experience in their lives, so that they have no regrets when they leave.
Poetry and distance are all imaginary beauty! You go and check the female teacher who quit her job to see the big world, and she regrets it now.
As I get older, after traveling abroad a few times, I don't think about traveling abroad so much, and it's one thing to experience and discover, not as beautiful as I imagined.
Man is an animal and has animal instincts. When he was Chinese New Year's Eve, he had no girlfriend to talk to, and he couldn't have sex, and he was very lonely and lonely every day.
Find friends to play, they all have families, and they don't have time to play with you. I can't imagine how it would be like to be forty without a girlfriend.
My friend didn't want to get married when she was 25 years old, and her mother saw it and directly ordered that if she didn't marry herself off before the age of 26, she would marry her friend off (meaning either she would fall in love and find a partner.
Then she arranged a blind date, as long as the man took a fancy to me, her mother thought that the man's family was okay, and she could get married directly without the consent of her friends) Later, her husband appeared as a suitor.
She thought that at least what she talked about was more acceptable than that of a blind date, so she married herself as soon as she was crossed. Now I am very happy, and I fight with my husband every day.
The biggest attraction of a woman is her appearance, followed by her personality, career, and wealth. Family is a woman's only choice, marry early while she is young.
Today I was chatting with a female colleague in the office (97 years), I said, marriage is to prevent loneliness! Because after all, marriage is the mainstream phenomenon in China, and after the age of 40, you will find that most of the people around you are married, and you can't find a few friends to talk to.
Many people are over the age of 28, and you will find that the more you live, the more sober you become. You will consider the pros and cons of marriage, and you will not dare to step into marriage so impulsively.
But being single has the benefits of being single, and getting married has the benefits of getting married. Sugar cane is not as sweet as both ends. What kind of thing to do at what age is very correct.
Fate is such a thing, if you miss it, it may be a lifetime. The most beautiful thing is fate, and the most regrettable thing is fate.
Many people say that being single is a kind of sobriety, but to put it bluntly, it is inertia, and after that age, there is no such feeling.
It's like looking at the scenery at the age of 20 and feeling that spring flowers are blooming everywhere, and there are surprises everywhere, but after the 30s, it feels like that, and that new and refreshing feeling can no longer be found.
People have seen their own events and paths in the next few decades clearly, their enthusiasm and passion are gone, and they are more profitable, and they turn doing things into doing business.
Marriage is like work, after a long time, there is no motivation, and there are fewer and fewer good men.
After the impulsive age, it is the mobile phone that accompanies you in your life, waiting and waiting, your own marriage, and the family are also involved, "Doa waits, let's wait."
Ah has better conditions", in the future, it is to pay attention to the other party's conditions, and there is no longer "almost, I am married".
My friend told me that if you don't meet someone you like before the age of thirty, then you won't consider marriage.
Take your family to live a good life and take the elderly to see the world. But I met before I was thirty years old and got married, but I had too little time to spend with my family.
The girl is a flower, and it is good to know that when the spring is in the spring, the season is difficult, and who dares to break the branches? The boy is good, and the daughter-in-law is in the college entrance examination!
If a woman wants to get married and have children, she can consider giving up the heavy burden of buying and selling marriage, such as bride price, dowry, car, house, and savings. in order to get married and have children quickly. Marriage and childbirth are early, children are early, and adults are early.
In fact, the real situation is: I want to get married more when I get older, but it becomes more and more difficult to love when I get older, it is difficult to be moved, and I have lost the ability to love vigorously when I was young, not because I don't want to get married.
When I went to the blind date corner, the older leftover girls themselves and their parents were getting more anxious year by year! It's not that they don't want to get married, but because of her high conditions, there is no man who suits her and meets her requirements, so they can't get married!
Marriage has nothing to do with age, you obviously don't have the right person, you really have to get married because of age, and find someone you don't love, such a marriage is not only irresponsible for yourself, but also irresponsible for the other party.
If you don't get married, there are poems and distant places! Not even offspring! Just imagine staying at the peak of life, enjoying, and exhausting the generations! Unknown consequences can only be repaid at the price of temporary enjoyment!
There are three stages of human cognitive process:
Before 23 or 25, I saw that the mountain was a mountain, and it was the age of pure love and being loved.
Around 23-35, I see whether the mountain is not a mountain, my mood has changed, the things I see have changed, and I can't see through the ethereal ethereal. Some people are still stuck in this period of time after this age, and they will not understand it when they are old.
Few people can do it before 35 to see the mountain or the mountain to understand thoroughly, so the age has passed and the loss will not come again, some people will hope to find back the purity before 25, hesitating and making mistakes again and again, looking at the mountain is actually different from looking at the mountain or the mountain.
It is lucky to get married before 25, and after marriage, you can have someone to accompany you all the way, from the pure to the essence, and to experience all kinds of love and marriage together.
If the cognitive growth differences between the two people are not synchronized halfway, it is also a misfortune that they cannot grow together, and divorce will also become a choice for many people.
Therefore, I wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.