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Is it true that a person's emotions really affect a person's behavior or even a person's fate?
It really will, no doubt about it.
In fact, a person's fate can often be based on the following formula:
Your cognition determines your thinking, your thinking determines your emotions, your emotions affect your behavior, your behavior affects the content of your life, and the content of your life affects your destiny.
Faced with the same thing, people who complain and people who don't complain, they choose different ways, just like in "Journey to the West", whenever Tang Seng is picked up by a monster, Zhu Bajie's instinctive reaction is to pick a child, shouting and complaining about Gao Laozhuang, and Sun Wukong often thinks about how to rescue his master, and slowly realizes the great dream of learning scriptures from the West.
Life often needs to be based on facts, and solve problems when encountered, so I said, "Excellent people find ways to find problems, and failed people find excuses when they encounter problems", and there is a different life.
People who don't complain are calm and calm, and deal with whatever they encounter.
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Life is often composed of one pass after another, just like birth, old age, sickness and death, like work and career, just like talking about marriage and having children.
Life is destined to have 108,000 miles, one step at a time, just go steadily, because your own emotions are disordered, messing up your own rhythm, is a troublesome thing.
I like this kind of wisdom very much, that is, no matter what kind of thing you encounter (even if it is a big thing), it is the best idea for soldiers to block the water and cover the earth.
Excessively allowing yourself to be caught up in emotional internal friction is destined to be painful, and life is also full of gloom and anxiety, which often restricts you from moving forward and stagnating your dreams.
As long as you don't lose your inner foundation and don't mess up your own proportions, you will naturally have a "golden bell jar and iron cloth shirt", and you will have more chances of winning against evil and traps.
The attitude of choosing not to complain is to give yourself to the sunshine, be dedicated to the sun, strive to grow, and the future can be expected.
03
Today, when I went to pick up people on the street, I passed by a roadside stall, and one of the stall owners complained that "the weather is bad, there are a lot fewer people, and the business is not good, damn the weather." ”
When a person starts to complain, it may be that all the good energy between heaven and earth and your interaction with you will begin to shut down, and then it is destined that those unbeautiful things often disturb your body and mind, so it is not known that it will slowly go downhill.
Heaven and earth have been in operation all the time, so that there is a sanitizing Shengke.
When we are born together, we are beneficial,
When the mutual restraint is met, it is lost.
Coming and going, gaining and losing, gathering and dispersing, forming and living, and destroying emptiness are all natural phenomena.
The old man said:
"You can't take all three paths. ”
When you are watching "Journey to the West", you will also see Sun Wukong saying to the Buddha when he was making trouble in the sky:
"The emperor takes turns to do it, and this year comes to my house. ”
Feng Shui takes turns, as the so-called 30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi, a person can not always be lucky, but it is not always unlucky, straighten out the heart, you will be more calm on the road of life, more unhurried.
04
Actually, in the eyes of practice, there is no such thing as good or bad, and it is possible that what you think is good is often also a bad thing, and this is often really bad.
When the water is full, it overflows, the moon is full and it is lost, there is no more youth, and there is no 100-day red flower.
People may often have such an inertia, that is, once they encounter any kind of good things, they are often surging and dancing happily, but when they face a little unsatisfactory in life, it is possible to break the dam of emotions and get out of control.
Life is impermanent, and everyone doesn't like to encounter unsatisfactory things, but this is something that cannot be done in life.
In fact, life is often a mixed bag, there will be surprises, of course, there will be unsatisfactory times, and what a person can control is his own mentality.
Yang Jiang said:
"We are so eager to be calm in the waves, and in the end we find that the most beautiful scenery in this life is the calmness and calmness in the heart, the world is our own, and it has nothing to do with others. ”
A good life should be like this, try not to complain, the soldiers will block the water and cover the earth, and the things you face will be solved one by one.
05
Don't be complacent in good times, don't complain in bad times.
If you don't complain, it doesn't hurt or hinder.
If you often complain, you will be upset and disturb the original spirit, and it is your own loss of yourself, not the loss of the outside world.
Once a person's emotions are on the top and overflowing, the suffering in life can also be described as suffering, out of control, one after another.
In the early years, when brushing the pot, I didn't like to brush the rice pot the most, at first it was difficult no matter how you brushed, the residual rice was particularly hard, of course, the resistance was "endless", and then I found the idea, I chose to overcome the rigidity with softness, and then soak it with the power of water for a period of time before brushing, you will find that the weak is better than the strong, and the brush pot is more calm.
As a result, the choice of not complaining has also allowed you to gain different life wisdom and tricks, and the so-called difficulty in your mind will no longer be a difficulty.
In this life, we are destined to encounter all kinds of things, some are difficult, some are boring, and some are laborious, but what comes is safe, stabilize our mentality, and find the right way to tailor the right solution, which is the way of thinking.
When you need to repay the mortgage, prepare money to repay the mortgage and get through the current hurdle first;
When you need to write with your heart, then you choose to focus and work hard to complete this quiet time at the moment;
When you need to invite others to dinner, look for the right restaurant and the drinks you need, and the rest is to entertain and entrust;
Choosing to complain will only allow us to dissipate more energy, which is the so-called spirit, and a person's energy is destined to be limited, whether it is to practice excellent livelihood skills or to leave the most precious emotions and time for worthy people, we need to work hard and concentrate on it.
Resentful people, the gods are not close, if you want to have blessings, it will be difficult.
Harmonious people, the gods are happy, harmonious and wealthy, and the goods are salty.
In the same situation, people who don't complain are calm and calm, and deal with whatever they encounter.
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