On a sunny day in 2023, 43-year-old Pang Xiuyu stood in front of the window and looked out of the window, full of mixed emotions in her heart. The passage of time has changed her face slightly, but there is still a sparkle of tenacity and perseverance in those eyes.
She slowly reached out and caressed her face, as if to confirm whether this strange self really existed.
At this moment, there was a sudden sound of footsteps behind him, Pang Xiuyu turned his head and saw a slightly older man standing there quietly, his eyes full of concern and warmth.
This man is the new life partner that Pang Xiuyu recently found. Although the two have no plans to get married, they still choose to rely on each other, support each other, and spend the rest of their lives together.
Facing this new life partner, Pang Xiuyu's mouth couldn't help but have a faint smile. She stepped forward and gently took the other's hand, interlocking her fingers with his.
This simple gesture seemed to announce that she had come out of the haze of the past and began to embrace new hope.
Looking back on her 43-year life journey, Pang Xiuyu's heart is full of complex emotions. At the age of 14, she was once a high-profile "genius writing girl", appeared on the CCTV screen, and won the honor of the Great Hall of the People, and the future is bright.
However, just seven years later, she suffered a major setback in her life, being tricked into giving birth to three children only to be abandoned, and finally reduced to the desperate situation of having to raise the children alone and take care of her sick mother.
Now, the passage of time has changed her countenance slightly, but the tenacity and hope in her heart have never faded. Despite all the hardships she has endured, she has finally found a new life partner, and the two support each other to move towards the future together.
This simple and warm interdependence made Pang Xiuyu feel the beauty of life again, and her heart was full of gratitude and expectation.
At the age of 21, he was deceived into giving birth to three children
Looking back at what happened to her when she was 21 years old, Pang Xiuyu's heart still set off waves. That year, while working at a restaurant, she met a middle-aged man named Liu Desheng.
This person fell in love at first sight and launched a passionate pursuit of this young and beautiful woman. Under Liu Desheng's careful construction, the two quickly established a close relationship.
However, when Pang Xiuyu was ecstatic to find out that she was pregnant, she was fatally betrayed. It turned out that Liu Desheng was not single, but already had a wife worthy of the name.
This noble lady originally thought that her husband's identity and family were real, but she didn't know that all this was a lie carefully made up by Liu Desheng. Under this heavy blow, Liu Desheng disappeared like evaporation from the world, leaving behind Pang Xiuyu, who was at a loss.
In desperation, the 21-year-old had to take on the burden of raising three children on her own, while also caring for her ailing mother. When the reporter came to her residence, the scene was heart-wrenching: three underage children playing in a simple and dilapidated room, while Pang Xiuyu was lying on the bed weakly, looking pale and weak.
It is really unbearable to see that this once glorious "genius writing girl" has now fallen into such a situation. In the face of the reporter's sigh and persuasion, Pang Xiuyu still firmly shook her head in refusal, saying that she was no longer willing to consume those words that had long lost their vitality and emotion, because that was the only habitat of her soul.
At this critical moment, a man in his fifties suddenly bursts into her world and bluntly offers to take full responsibility for her family. Although she lacked love, Pang Xiuyu was powerless to refuse in a desperate situation, so she had to take her mother and three children and form a new family with this stranger.
However, the good times were short-lived. When Pang Xiuyu gave birth to a lovely child to this man, he suddenly changed his face and threatened to enter the marriage hall with Pang Xiuyu only by giving away the other three children.
Pang Xiuyu, full of disappointment, was forced to choose to leave the man who had given her hope.
As a result, this once high-hoped, "genius writing girl" finally fell to the point of homelessness, and could only find a way to survive with three children alone.
This experience undoubtedly became the darkest period of her life, but she still did not give up her determination to keep going.
Won the Great Hall of the People Award
However, if you go back to the golden age when Pang Xiuyu was 14 years old, her future is bright, and everyone has high hopes for her.
That year, with her outstanding writing talent, she not only appeared on the screen of CCTV, but also was invited to attend the Great Hall of the People and received the honor. The jury praised her with great enthusiasm, calling her writing "as clear as a spring, full of energy and passion".
In an instant, the fame of this "genius writing girl" resounded in the sky and became a literary star that no one could match. Since then, the streets of her home have been crowded with media outlets eager to interview her, and the title of "Genius Girl" has been firmly on her head.
Pang Xiuyu's father, Pang Yi, was naturally overjoyed by this. For many years, he had hoped that his daughter would become an outstanding writer and bring glory to the family.
As a result, he was very strict with his daughter's education, requiring her to read more than 500 pages of books a day and write at least 2,000 words of essays.
Although this intensity of study put Pang Xiuyu under great pressure, she eventually showed extraordinary talent thanks to her father's encouragement.
If this trajectory continues, Pang Xiuyu's success will undoubtedly be just a matter of course. The Pang family will soar to the top of the chicken, and Pang Yi's ambitions over the years are also destined to be realized.
Everything should have a happy ending.
However, it's not that simple. This once beautiful "genius writing girl" finally went through an extremely difficult life process. At the age of 21, she was tricked into giving birth to three children, and was finally reduced to the desperate situation of raising her children alone and caring for her sick mother.
Until now, she has entered the prime of life at the age of 43 and is still looking for a new life partner.
This tortuous and bizarre life experience is undoubtedly embarrassing. How did a "genius girl" who appeared on CCTV at the age of 14 and won the honor of the Great Hall of the People enter such a predicament in just seven years, and what is the reason? This is undoubtedly a tragic story that attracts a lot of attention.
Conflict with Yan's father
Back when Pang Xiuyu was 11 years old, she had been tormented in her heart. As a child, she was supposed to spend her childhood in a carefree and free world, but her father, Pang Yi, imprisoned her in the world of books.
Whenever other children enjoy the holiday time, Pang Xiuyu can only wait alone by the books, waving the pen in her hand, writing her life with a long stream of water.
In her eyes, the color of life has faded to warmth and brightness, leaving only a monotonous and gray gloom.
Pang Xiuyu felt her father's stern eyes and cold ring ruler all the time, which filled her heart with endless fear. Gradually, she gave up her desire for her father's deep love and became as numb as a robot, just to meet his father's demanding demands.
As a result, she gave up her dream of longing for her parents to accompany her to play the playground, and just silently repeated the correspondence between school and home, and devoted herself to her studies.
Just as she was about to enter junior high school, Pang Xiuyu's academic performance declined. When the principal personally invited her into the office, he patiently persuaded her that she should put down her writing and devote all her energy to her studies, so that she could successfully enter an excellent high school.
However, when Pang Xiuyu informed his father of the news, he was met with resolute and unquestionable opposition. In order to support her daughter, the mother even filed a divorce request with the father, but still failed to shake the father's position.
So, the mother resolutely filed for divorce.
On a stormy night, the father got drunk and abandoned his wife and daughter, leaving them to huddle under the overpass in a hurry.
The incident completely destroyed Pang Xiuyu's confidence and motivation to continue studying, and she began to give up her studies altogether, choosing to escape this desperate environment instead.
At that time, Pang Xiuyu had completely lost the desire to learn in her heart. The remarkable writing talent she once displayed in school was also ruthlessly buried in the depths of memory.
It wasn't until later that she suffered an even more serious blow, and finally fell into the predicament she is in to this day.
How did this once high-hoped, "genius girl", fall from the highlight to the trough in just seven years? This is undoubtedly a heart-wrenching tragic story.
Rediscover hope and find a new life
Time flies, and a full 22 years have passed. In the face of this unbearable past, 43-year-old Pang Xiuyu has completely walked out of the haze and embraced life again.
Not long ago, she met a man in his fifties. The man directly offered to take on all the responsibilities of her family, although she lacked love, Pang Xiuyu was powerless to refuse in a desperate situation, so she had to take her mother and three children and form a new family with this stranger.
However, the good times were short-lived. When Pang Xiuyu gave birth to a lovely child to this man, he suddenly changed his face and threatened to enter the marriage hall with Pang Xiuyu only by giving away the other three children.
Pang Xiuyu, full of disappointment, was forced to choose to leave the man who had given her hope.
Even in such a desperate situation, she still did not give up and continued to find her own happiness. After years of exploration, Pang Xiuyu finally found this new life partner.
Although the two have no plans to get married, they can still support each other and walk through the rest of their lives together.
At this moment, Pang Xiuyu has completely gotten rid of the shadow of the past and embraced life again. When she looked at the sunlight outside the window, her heart was full of gratitude and hope. She knows that she has been through many hardships, but now she has finally found a new place to rely on, and this peace and security has made her deeply feel the beauty of life.
Looking back on her 43-year life journey, Pang Xiuyu's heart is full of complex emotions. At the age of 14, she was once a high-profile "genius writing girl", appeared on the CCTV screen, and won the honor of the Great Hall of the People, and the future is bright.
However, just seven years later, she suffered a major setback in her life, being tricked into giving birth to three children only to be abandoned, and finally reduced to the desperate situation of having to raise the children alone and take care of her sick mother.
Now, the passage of time has changed her countenance slightly, but the tenacity and hope in her heart have never faded. Despite all the hardships she has endured, she has finally found a new life partner, and the two support each other to move towards the future together.
This simple and warm interdependence made Pang Xiuyu feel the beauty of life again, and her heart was full of gratitude and expectation.
Society should provide care and assistance
Looking back at Pang Xiuyu's life experience, it is not difficult to find that the various hardships she suffered are undoubtedly closely related to her growth environment and education style.
As a "genius writing girl" who has been pinned on high hopes since she was a child, Pang Xiuyu should have had a happy life. However, her father, Pang Yi, treated his daughter in an extremely strict and mean manner, requiring her to read and write a lot every day, leaving her almost no free time in childhood.
This lack of love and warmth in education has undoubtedly caused deep trauma to Pang Xiuyu's soul. She gradually gave up her dream of longing for her father's love and became numb and indifferent.
When she finally lost the motivation to learn, she also lost the courage to regain her strength, and finally went to an even darker fate.
We often say, "The most beautiful education in the world: nothing but love." Pang Xiuyu's experience undoubtedly confirms this view. If she could get the sincere love and care of her parents when she was growing up, I believe she would never have fallen to where she is today.
Not only that, when Pang Xiuyu suffered the tragic experience of being deceived into giving birth to three babies at the age of 21, the society did not give her due care and assistance. At that time, she had completely lost the confidence to continue studying, but she had to take on the heavy responsibility of raising three children alone.
In a desperate situation, there was no one around her who was willing to take the initiative to lend a hand, which undoubtedly made her even more desperate.
As the article concludes, society should give care and support to people like Pang Xiuyu, so that they can regain hope in life.
Only then can we truly eliminate this injustice and inhumanity and allow everyone to thrive in a caring environment.
Pang Xiuyu's experience is undoubtedly a mirror, reflecting the shortcomings of the current social education and welfare system. Let's work together to create a warmer and fairer social environment for those who are unfairly disadvantaged.