Recently, the famous dancer Jin Xing announced on social media that she had remarried her ex-husband Hans.
According to Jin Xing, he divorced Hans in 2006, that is, 18 years ago, because he had no choice but to register his children.
Today, eighteen years later, the two remarried again, and the day of the remarriage was Hans's birthday, which felt very romantic and meaningful.
After Jin Xing released the news of remarriage, it quickly became the first hot search, and netizens wished Jin Xing and Hans a happy marriage.
In today's society, it is not uncommon for people like Venus and Hans to divorce for the sake of their children, but it is rare for them to remarry in the end and only remarry after 18 years.
Many people are touched by the relationship between Venus and Hans, in fact, everyone knows that Venus is a "transgender", and her previous private life was also very chaotic.
Today, let's take a look at Venus's unknown private life:
One
Jin Xing was born on August 13, 1967 in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, in a Korean family.
Although Jin Xing was born in China, her ancestral home is North Korea, and her father, Kim Yong-chol, is a native of Hamsin, North Pyongan Province, North Korea, who moved to China a long time ago.
Jin Xing's mother was born in South Korea, and during the Korean War in 1950, Jin Xingdi's parents fled to China for refuge.
After arriving in China, Jin Xing's mother was introduced to her father, and later gave birth to a daughter and a son, who were Jin Xing's sister and Jin Xing.
When Jin Xing was young, her father was a soldier in Beijing, and she and her sister were taken care of by their mother.
Before going to elementary school, Jin Xing, her mother and sister all went to the women's bathhouse to take a bath together, and she didn't think there was anything wrong with this at that time.
It wasn't until Venus was about to enter elementary school that her father came back from the army and took her to the men's bathhouse to take a bath, and the first time she entered the men's bathhouse made Venus feel very uncomfortable.
Later, after going there more times, Venus slowly began to pay attention to the body structure of other men, and would run to some uncles to chat with them, at this time she still did not notice that others were a little different from herself.
After going to elementary school, Jin Xing and his sister studied at North Korean Primary School in Heping District, Shenyang City, and Jin Xing, who was able to sing and dance well since he was a child, was selected into the school's literary and artistic propaganda team.
There are two boys in the literary propaganda team, Jin Xing is one of them, she gets along very well with the girls in the team, but after leaving the literary team, Jin Xing will be rejected by the boys in the class, because the boys think that Jin Xing and the girls play too well, and they also call Jin Xing "little daughter-in-law".
In 1976, the army art troupe came to the school where Jin Xing was located to select good seedlings, and they fell in love with the aura of Jin Xing at a glance, but Jin Xing's parents wanted Jin Xing to study hard.
At this time, Jin Xing didn't want to stay in school for a long time, after all, anyone who has been excluded and isolated will not be happy, so she did not hesitate to force her parents to let her go to the army art troupe at the cost of hunger strike.
When parents compete with their children, often the parents are the one who compromises, and Venus's parents are naturally no exception, so Venus became the youngest among the seedlings of the art troupe, only 9 years old.
Because she is too young, sometimes the art troupe goes to the countryside to perform, some older colleagues take good care of Venus, and some male colleagues directly let Venus sit on their laps, this feeling Venus feels very wonderful, so that she can fully feel the warmth of a man.
Two
In the second year of entering the art troupe, 10-year-old Jin Xing came to Dandong with the troops.
One morning, when it was Venus Chagang's turn, he entered the room of the company clerk, and when he saw that the clerk was still asleep, he lifted the quilt of the clerk, so she saw that the clerk faintly raised the sign of a man.
At this time, Venus already felt that he was a girl in his heart, so he was very shy after seeing this thing, and just wanted to leave the room quickly.
But who knew that when the clerk saw Venus in such a state, he suddenly became interested, and directly grabbed Venus's hand and started a piston movement (this is what Venus said in his autobiography).
After this incident, Venus would be embarrassed when she saw the paperwork, and every time the paperwork smiled at her, she felt that it was a malicious smile.
Although she was embarrassed to face the paperwork, but for a while she didn't see the paperwork, Jin Xing always felt that something was missing, and at that time, she hated herself for why she only had a daughter, and she didn't have a daughter.
In 1980, 13-year-old Jin Xing graduated from the art troupe, and other students basically went to sing and dance after finishing their studies, but Jin Xing was left behind because he was too short.
At this time, there was an old man in his forties and fifties in the class who "fell in love" with Venus, and Venus had an inexplicable dislike for this old man who was older than her father, but she didn't know how to refuse when she was still young.
At this time, Song Zhaokun, who recommended Jin Xing to enter the army cadet class, made a phone call to Jin Xing, hoping that Jin Xing would continue his studies at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts (at this time, Song Zhaokun was already a teacher of military art).
This call made Jin Xing out of the old man's gaze, and after studying dance at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts for four years, the 17-year-old Jin Xing graduated with the first grade in all subjects.
After graduation, she returned to the Art Troupe of the Shenyang Military Region, this time she thought that she could finally stand on the stage and dance the protagonist, but who knew that she had been sitting on the cold bench.
The young and frivolous Venus felt that she was no worse than others, or even better, but the leader was unwilling to give herself a chance, so she was disheartened and had the idea of giving up dance to enter the pop music scene.
At this time, Jin Xing's mentor Song Zhaokun pulled Jin Xing again, Song Zhaokun told Jin Xing that the China Dance Association held the first "Taoli Cup" dance competition in Beijing, and with his encouragement, Jin Xing participated in this competition and won the championship.
After winning the championship, Jin Xing returned to the art troupe and directly won the "second-class merit", and was also promoted to a company-level cadre, not only that, but Jin Xing was also transferred to the Chinese Art Troupe to France and performed in Europe.
In 1986, North Korea held an event and invited forty or fifty dance troupes from all over the world to perform in the capital Pyongyang, and Jin Xing, as a member of the Chinese art troupe, also went to North Korea to perform.
Because Jin Xing's performance was very exciting, after the performance, the relevant leaders of the Ministry of Culture of the DPRK found Jin Xing, hoping that she could stay in North Korea, and promised her many privileges, but Jin Xing finally chose to return to China for development.
After returning to China, the 19-year-old Jin Xing entered the Guangzhou Modern Dance Class, and two years later, because of his outstanding performance, Jin Xing was sent to the United States by the Asian Cultural Fund to study modern dance.
Three
After arriving in the United States, Venus lived in Greenwich Village, New York, a famous international gay neighborhood.
Here Venus met an English teacher, John, who was gay, and Venus gave her first time to John.
After spending some time with John, Venus begins to have some doubts, she admits that she likes men, but she doesn't feel that she is gay, because he has considered himself a woman since he was a child.
So, Venus proposed to John to break up, and although John was very reluctant, as a teacher, he still left Venus happily and did not choose to stalk.
In the case of making it clear that he likes men, in 1990 Jin Xing married a female classmate in the dance class, Ken Bolin, but the marriage of the two can only be regarded as taking their own choices.
Ken Bolin wants to live in the apartment rented by Venus for free, and Venus wants to get a green card in the United States through her marriage to Kemporin.
It is worth mentioning that the witness to the marriage of the two was Kemporin's boyfriend Eric, and the three lived in a rented apartment with Venus after that, and it was not until many years later that Kemporin became pregnant, and the two ended this strange marriage.
In 1991, Venus ushered in what she considered her "first love", which was the manor owner Ke Lei, who was 5 years older than her, and the "first time" of the two was on the big bed in Ke Lei's house.
After having negative distance contact, the relationship between Venus and Kelei is getting better and better, and the two are tired of being together all day long, in addition to satisfying their respective desires, Kelei also teaches Venus to ride horses and fly planes.
Kelei's gentle hometown made Venus lost, and she began to forget her dance dream, forgot why she came to the United States, and just wanted to live her life by Kelei's side.
But it was the energy of Venus that he liked, and as Venus became more gentle and easy-going, Ray got a little tired of it, so he began to encourage Venus to pursue his dreams.
At first, Venus didn't want to think about this, he just wanted to be with Kelei, but he couldn't stand Kelei's persuasion every day, so the two agreed to wait until one day when Venus couldn't jump, and then return to Kelei, and Kelei's family would always leave a key for Venus (now it seems that Venus should have forgotten this agreement).
In 1991, when she went to Italy to perform, she met a middle-aged man named Carlo in a gay bar.
Carlo is a psychiatrist, and the two had an in-depth communication on the first night of their acquaintance, but Carlo is a bisexual, he already had a wife at the time, and the two have been married for 15 years, although they have no children, but Carlo loves his wife very much, so the two separated after a one-night stand with Venus.
It wasn't until a month later that Venus came to the bar where he met Carlo again, and the owner of the bar gave Venus the phone number left by Caro, who dialed after hesitating for a long time.
The two had a good conversation on the phone, so three days later Carlo appeared next to Venus again, this time the two "did" for a week.
But in the end, when the desire faded, Venus decided to break up with Carlo, because she always considered herself a woman, not a homosexual.
Although Carlo said that he didn't mind and that he was also bisexual, Venus decisively broke up with him.
After breaking up with Carlo, Venus prepares to have "sex reassignment surgery", but another man appears in her life, delaying her time from "him" to "her".
Four
In 1992, for an unexpected reason, Venus met a Belgian parliamentarian, and when she first saw him, Venus fell in love with him.
The Belgian parliamentarian not only has a wife but also a pair of twin sons, but he is also in love with Venus, and due to his identity, the two can only say that they do not know each other.
While in a relationship with a Belgian parliamentarian, Venus also had a Dutch male lover, which lasted until 1993.
Venus, who had been adrift for many years, wanted to go home, so she said goodbye to her lover, lover, and friends, and returned to her homeland after a long absence.
After returning to China, Jin Xing was recalled to the army, and two years later, at the age of 28, she already enjoyed the treatment of deputy division, and it was also in this year that she finally made up her mind to change from "him" to "her".
Despite the dissuasion of relatives, leaders, and friends, Venus insisted on going her own way, but fortunately Venus's parents supported her, so on April 5, 1995, Venus successfully underwent "sex reassignment surgery" and fulfilled her long-held dream.
Due to the improper operation of the nurse during the operation, Venus's left calf nerve necrosis was judged to be a second-degree disability, and it was difficult for her to have a chance to step on the stage again, but in the end she returned to the stage again with great perseverance.
After completely becoming a woman, Venus has taken a step forward in her career, but her original romantic style has not changed.
Once on a plane to Tibet for a performance, Jin Xing met a handsome middle-aged man, and after arriving in Tibet, unspeakable things happened to the two, and more than once.
Another time when Venus went to Belgium to perform, the taxi driver made excessive demands on her, and Venus finally made the Belgian comfortable with her hands, although she did not complete the last step.
These are not even the nothing, Venus once blew herself up and talked to five boyfriends at one time at the most, and it wasn't until she met Hans that she restrained her amorous nature.
Venus and Hans also met on the plane, and the two who looked at each other left their contact information, and a few days later Hans took the initiative to contact Venus and express his love.
Venus confesses to Hansin that he is not an original woman, and Hans thinks about it for a few days and says that he doesn't care, so the two are together.
In 2005, Venus ushered in her second marriage, only this time she was not the groom but the bride.
Venus is not an original woman, so she can't have children, so after marrying Hans, the two adopted a child, and although the two divorced in order to register the child, they have been living together all these years.
After being with Hans, Jin Xing ushered in the peak of his career, not only becoming the top artist of the Chinese Dance Festival in dance, but also began to get involved in variety shows, and did well.
It's just that later, because she dared to say it too much, she was once banned by the whole network.
Now, Venus is 57 years old, and after 18 years of divorce, she remarried Hans, and she may have already let go of her obsession with her career, and she only enjoys the time with Hans in her future life.
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