❂ Author: Jun Jian Yakan Red Mansion
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How strong is Jia Mu's ability? The original text seems to be just a word of mouth, without real knowledge. Only when Daguanyuan checked the gambling, Jia Mu made a slight move, and sure enough, her mind, insight and vision were extraordinary.
In fact, in addition to the gambling in Daguanyuan, Jia Mu also had a wonderful move to resolve the crisis, which was the "Breaking Lies" of the Lantern Festival Night Banquet.
Jia Mu did wrong things in the face of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in public, and her serious resolution was as light as a textbook, which can be described as a textbook level, and it also reflects the broad-mindedness of not evading and having the courage to face it is the most admirable.
I am Jun Jian Yakan Red Mansion, and I will tell you about those things in "Dream of Red Mansions".
It is said that at the Lantern Festival night banquet, Jia Mu instructed Jia Baoyu to toast everyone.
(Chapter 54) Baoyu heard about it, agreed, and poured it one by one. In front of Daiyu, he didn't drink, picked up the cup, put it on Baoyu's lips, and Baoyu drank it dry. Daiyu smiled and said, "Thank you." Baoyu poured him a glass. ”
Readers can explain the "reasonableness" of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu's intimate behavior from 10,000 angles, but they can't erase the fact that Bao Dai and the two are so intimate is wrong.
Lin Daiyu used the wine glass she had drunk to "feed" the leftover wine in the cup to Jia Baoyu, and now she will be coaxed to be "kissed in disguise", not to mention under the etiquette and rules of the past.
Not to mention that in front of the public at that time, there were two "outsider" elders, Aunt Li and Aunt Xue, watching. Even in private, the two are sixteen or seventeen years old, and this kind of intimacy is not allowed.
Bao Dai and the two couldn't help themselves, and the meaning of affection was so obvious that they couldn't hide it at all.
Therefore, in the face of the sudden arrival of the two, everyone was speechless. Even Wang Xifeng, who is accustomed to dealing with big scenes, was unable to return to the sky in a hurry to solve the siege in embarrassment. The others were silent, but it was clear that the atmosphere was solidified at that time, and it was estimated that everyone was on pins and needles.
In the face of Bao Dai's mistake, it is almost equivalent to a "scandal", and the most embarrassing people here are Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang.
After all, one is a granddaughter and grandson, and the other is a son and niece, and it is embarrassing for their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be seen by everyone like this.
However, the reactions of the two are very different, and they also reflect their own courage and open-mindedness.
Mrs. Wang didn't say a word, judging from the later text of copying and inspecting the Grand View Garden, and Qingwen "broke her bones and scattered ashes", it was obvious that she was the same as Jin Chu'er, venting her anger on Lin Daiyu.
Jia Mu, on the contrary, not only did not "escape", but stepped forward to actively resolve it.
Since it is wrong, it is wrong, and correcting it is the top priority.
Therefore, Jia's mother's way to make amends is to seize the opportunity of "Feng Qiuluan" and use the "Lie" to beat her, which not only embarrassed the mother and daughter of the Xue family, but also gave Bao Dai and the two a warning.
(Chapter 54) Jia Mu smiled: "These books are all a set, and Zuo is just some beautiful talents, the most boring." said that other people's daughters were so bad, and said that they were beautiful, and there was not even a shadow of the editor. The openings are all scholarly, and the father is either a scholar or a prime minister, and giving birth to a young lady must be like a treasure. This young lady must be well-versed in etiquette and know everything, and she is a peerless beauty. As soon as I saw a handsome man, whether it was a relative or a friend, I remembered the major events of my life, my parents forgot, I forgot the book ceremony, the ghost is not a ghost, the thief is not a thief, then a little bit is a beauty? For example, if a man is full of articles and goes to be a thief, does the royal law say that he is a talented man, so he will not be involved in the thief case?" ”
Jia Mu's words show three attitudes:
First, talented and beautiful people are all "thieves", that is, they are not talented, and she does not support them.
not only opposes the mother and daughter of the Xue family to plot a good marriage, but also does not allow Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu to have a personal relationship.
Second, Miss Qianjin can't make a private lifelong decision, and she wants her parents' orders to match her words.
Marriage matters should be decided within the scope of etiquette and rules, and no one can give or receive them privately.
Third, "There is no such thing in my family", revealing the intimacy of Bao Dai just now, behind the premise of "not taking an example", it is to warn the two not to embarrass the family.
The three perverts of Jia Mu, no matter who they target, are reminders and warnings to Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu. Let them no longer dare to act recklessly.
Since then, Bao Dai and the two have never seen such an intimate and unmeasured move. It is the work of Jia's mother's "education".
Since the mistake has been made, Jia Mu's response is not to cover up, but to face it immediately, while stopping losses and making up for the loss.
After the warning and suppression of "breaking lies", Jia Mu did not finish the calculation, and then rearranged the seats to further remedy.
(Chapter 54) Jia Mu said, "Don't be formal, just let me assign you to sit down." As he spoke, he asked Xue Li to sit on the front, and he sat westward, and asked Baoqin, Daiyu, and Xiangyun to sit down close to the left and right, and said to Baoyu, "You are next to your wife." So Mrs. Xing and Mrs. Wang were sandwiched by Baoyu, Baochai and other sisters were in the west, and one after another was Lou's with Jia Yan, You Li Su was sandwiched by Jia Lan, and Jia Rong's wife was crossed below. ”
This is completely for Aunt Li and Aunt Xue to see, showing the responsibility of the elders and everyone's demeanor. People are always at fault, and knowing their mistakes can improve greatly.
Since Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are easy to "get carried away", they simply separated them and sandwiched Jia Baoyu between their aunt and mother, seeing that he was still wrong?
With the wisdom of Bao Dai and the others, after the lesson of "breaking lies" and the seat arranged by Jia's mother, how can they not understand the education of their elders, and how can they dare to mess around again?
Mother Jia acted like this, and Aunt Li and Aunt Xue saw it in their eyes, and they had nothing to say. If people change their mistakes, they are the magnanimity of a wealthy family.
And Jia's mother is so exemplary, and her children and grandchildren can learn a good trick in their eyes.
This is the meaning of "good daughter-in-law Wang three generations", Mother Jia has been teaching by word and deed!
The value of a woman's inheritance is equivalent to the Nuwa who can "mend the sky", and she will radiate great power.
The root of the controversy over hairpins is the inheritance after all!
✍ The above views are sorted out and inferred from the story clues before the 80th episode of "Dream of Red Mansions".