Do you remember what your parents said to us when you were a child? Do you think it makes sense now? Do you regret it?
Nowadays, when I become a parent, I often think about how to better guide my children.
At the parent-teacher conference last week, the teacher shared a short story about how Mr. Li Ka-shing taught his children. I was so inspired that on the way home, I wondered what kind of words did the richest man in Asia use to inspire his children.
As we all know, Mr. Li Ka-shing has not only achieved great success in the business world, but his parenting philosophy has always been praised by people.
So, I delved into Mr. Li Ka-shing's parenting philosophy, especially his six words of encouragement for children.
These six sentences are not only a deep insight into children's growth, but also an accurate guide to parents' parenting styles.
Revealing the billionaire's parenting philosophy: Mr. Li Ka-shing's six golden sentences for teaching his son, every sentence is a classic
Only when you become stronger, more and more people will respect you!
In this highly competitive society, it is not difficult to find that those who are respected are often people who have excelled in their fields. Respect is often not earned by identity or status, but by one's own strength and ability.
Mr. Li Ka-shing is well aware of this and encourages the children to constantly pursue personal growth and improvement.
We can guide children to strengthen themselves by studying hard, exercising actively, and cultivating good character.
When they face difficulties and challenges, encourage them to be brave and unyielding. In this way, children can gradually become strong and thus earn the respect and respect of others.
If you have money in your hand, others will listen to you.
This sentence may seem a bit utilitarian to some people, but if you taste it, we will find a profound truth contained in it.
It's not about money first, it's about emphasizing the importance of economic independence.
Money does play an important role in modern society, it is not only the foundation of our lives, but also an important tool for us to achieve our dreams.
However, we need to let our children understand that money is not everything, nor is it the only goal we pursue, not that there is no voice without money, but that economic independence is the basis for a person to be able to express his opinions freely.
We need to guide them to put money in perspective and use it as a tool to achieve their dreams, not the whole of life.
At the same time, we also need to teach them how to use money correctly, how to manage and invest money, so that money can add color to their future lives.
Reading is the surest way out of poverty!
Mr. Li Ka-shing's words reflect the great importance he attaches to education.
Through unremitting study and struggle, he himself has grown from a child from an ordinary family to a world-renowned entrepreneur. He believes that no matter what their background, as long as they are willing to study hard, everyone has the potential to change their destiny.
This sentence is a great encouragement to every child, especially those from ordinary families.
It tells us that no matter what our background, as long as we have dreams, pursuits, and hard work, we will be able to change our destiny.
Perhaps, reading books is not the only way to success, but it is relatively simple and secure.
If you don't study, you can only be reduced to the lowest level of society!
Although this sentence sounds a bit harsh, it is a warning for the future of children. It is out of deep concern for the future of children.
Mr. Li Ka-shing hopes that children will realize the importance of learning and not miss out on opportunities to improve themselves because of laziness and indulgence.
In this era of knowledge explosion, it is difficult to gain a foothold in society without sufficient knowledge and skills. If we don't study hard now, we may face more difficulties and challenges in the future.
Therefore, we need to let children understand the importance of learning, so that they know that learning is not only to cope with the pressure of exams and further education, but also to cultivate their comprehensive quality and competitiveness.
We can guide them to develop study plans, cultivate interest in learning, master learning methods, etc., and help them develop good study habits and attitudes.
At the same time, we should also pay attention to the children's learning situation and give them timely encouragement and support.
When they encounter difficulties, we should patiently guide and help them solve the problem, and when they make progress, we should praise and motivate them to continue to work hard.
What your parents give doesn't count, what you earn is what you earn!
This quote emphasizes the importance of individual effort.
It tells us that there is a limit to what our parents give us, and that what truly belongs to us needs to be fought for and created by ourselves.
We must not always rely on the help of our parents or others, but learn to face the challenges and difficulties of life independently.
Mr. Li Ka-shing does not want his children to rely only on the fame and wealth of the family, but wants them to be able to create their own businesses.
Therefore, we want to encourage children to pursue their dreams and goals bravely, so that they can understand that only through their own efforts and struggles can they win their own success and glory.
At the same time, we also need to teach them how to properly handle their relationship with their parents, not only to be grateful for their nurturing grace, but also to maintain their independence and autonomy.
Don't expect anything from anyone, including your parents!
This sentence is a summary and sublimation of the previous points. It is Mr. Li Ka-shing's demand for children's independence.
He believes that in order for a person to gain a foothold in society, one must learn to think independently and solve problems. We can't always expect help from others, and we can't rely on our parents for the rest of our lives.
It emphasizes the importance of independence and autonomy and makes us understand that there are no shortcuts on the road of life.
At the same time, we need to make them understand that independence does not mean being alone, and that it is okay to ask for help in moderation.
Of course, in this social world, good interpersonal relationships and the ability to work together are just as important. We want children to understand that only by building good relationships with others can they better achieve their goals.
In-depth analysis of Mr. Li Ka-shing's six sentences, it is not difficult for us to find that this is not only his earnest entrustment to the growth of children, but also the crystallization of his wisdom in life.
These six sentences are not only a good expectation for the children's future, but also a clear guide to their current behavior.
On the road of parenting, we may encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges, but as long as we use these six sentences as a guide, constantly adjust the way we get along with our children, and let our children go through it, we can slowly accumulate experience and continue to grow.
Only in this way can they become truly strong in their future life journey.
Parenting is a long-distance race, which requires us to accompany our children with patience and love. Let us work together to use these six words of Mr. Li Ka-shing to light up the road of life for children, so that they can strengthen their confidence and move forward bravely in the days to come, no matter what difficulties and challenges they face.
Author: Wait for the wind to come
A working mother of two children, holding a pen in her left hand and a baby in her right hand, she likes to read, write, and paint, and firmly believes that even if she lives in a chicken feather, she must have her own poetry and distance in her heart.
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