What is a woman's greatest desire for love?
The answer is: three meals for two people in a lifetime, four seasons.
But there is such a woman, who does not want fame and reputation, and compromises to take care of her original partner for 45 years.
She is Liu Lili, the queen director of Qiong Yao drama.
Her madness when she was young was no less than the classic quotation in Qiong Yao's drama: "I came to join this family, not to break up this family." ”
This story is now unacceptable, perhaps many of us can't accept it, and even feel a little "ruined".
But at that time, Liu Lili relied on his desire for love to successfully move the original partner and maintain the love between the three.
01
The beginning of love
In 1938, Liu Lili was born in a wealthy family.
Because he was more interested in drama, he applied for the drama major of the Taiwan School of Political Warfare.
When she was in college, she had a slender figure and a tall posture, and she attracted the attention of most male classmates as soon as she arrived at school.
This includes Dong Jinhu, who is one year older than her.
Dong Jinhu has been in love with Liu Lili since he met her, and often writes love letters to Liu Lili to express his heart.
At this time, Liu Lili only wanted to be a big director, and he was indifferent to things such as children's affection.
After graduation, Liu Lili entered the film and television industry, and unlike everyone else,
Although she is beautiful and tall, she does not join as an actress.
Instead, he did the dirtiest and most tiring work in the crew, running errands for the actors, and carrying camera equipment for the crew.
I remember one day there was an accident during the shooting, and someone needed to go outside the venue to change the equipment on a rainy day.
Liu Lili, who was full of green faces, saw that everyone was reluctant to go in the rain, although she risked being wet in the rain and catching a cold and fever, she resolutely ran into the rain with firm steps.
Since then, director Ding Shanxi has remembered this hard-working girl, and after the filming ended, he directly accepted Liu Lili as a disciple.
Liu Lili worked hard, and under the leadership of her master Ding Shanxi, she made rapid progress.
It didn't take long for her to become quite famous in the circle, and she also filmed a lot of wonderful TV series.
Liu Lili, who had initially succeeded in his career, got to know many famous people in the circle, including Qiong Yao.
In 1979, she and Qiong Yao met, and in Qiong Yao's eyes, Liu Lili was not only hard-working, but also had a very bold personality.
When the two met, they had a feeling of hating each other: "She is my lifelong confidant." ”
The two of them, who are in a relationship with each other, not only ask for warmth in life, but also cooperate in their careers.
So much so that Qiong Yao later directly regarded Liu Lili as her queen director, and all the works she created were handed over to Liu Lili for shooting.
Since then, Liu Lili's career has made unprecedented progress.
With the boom of his career, Liu Lili spends almost every day on the set, no matter the wind or sun, he can always see a girl with a loudspeaker on the set "pointing the country".
Liu Lili's meticulous attitude at work scares everyone, because people are often reprimanded by her for poor work.
Dong Jinhu learned that Liu Lili's crew was difficult to work, so he took the initiative to ask Ying to help.
Although Liu Lili is meticulous in his work, he does not take care of himself in life, and often forgets to eat because of work.
Once, during the filming of the crew, Liu Lili, who had not eaten breakfast, had low blood sugar and fell to the ground with a "bang".
The people around were instantly stunned, Dong Jinhu didn't say a word when he saw this, and helped her to the hospital as quickly as possible.
Since then, Dong Jinhu has taken the initiative to take on the role of "nanny" and take care of Liu Lili's life every day.
For this quiet-looking and cheerful woman, Dong Jinhu was full of admiration in his heart, and his love when he was a student was ignited again, and he launched a crazy pursuit of Liu Lili.
The weather was cold, he brought thick clothes to Liu Lili,
The weather was hot, and he reminded Liu Lili to drink more water,
It was raining, and he made an umbrella for Liu Lili,
Work together, commute together.
Over time, Liu Lili and this boy who took care of himself came together.
"Love at first sight is unjustified, illogical, it's absurd. ”
02
Absurd threesome love
The facts are indeed as Dong Jinhu said, love at first sight is absurd.
Dong Jinhu was married after graduation, and he and his wife also gave birth to a daughter.
Liu Lili, who was kept in the dark, is still enjoying this sweet life, but as everyone knows, she is about to usher in the anger of her original partner.
After all, paper can't contain the fire, Dong Jinhu's behavior of stepping on the two boats was soon discovered by the original Wang Mei, and Wang Mei was indignant and let Dong Jinhu and Liu Lili cut it in two.
Liu Lili, who has filmed dramas for most of his life, didn't expect that the love he has always been proud of is actually based on the pain of others.
After so many years of entanglement, I finally found out that I was someone else's "little three".
Liu Lili couldn't accept it for a while, and found Dong Jinhu to ask clearly: "You already have a wife, why do you have to do this if you have a wife!"
Before Dong Jinhu, who knew that he was at a loss, could explain, his wife Wang Mei's phone called.
It turned out that Wang Mei mistakenly thought that he and Liu Lili were dating, and urged him to go home.
Liu Lili on the side saw this and didn't let him go home, in order to keep Dong Jinhu, she didn't hesitate to hurt herself: "If you dare to go, I will cut off my arm." ”
Despite all the obstacles, Dong Jinhu finally chose to listen to the words of the original partner.
Dong Jinhu and Liu Lili
The disheartened Liu Lili was once accompanied by tears.
Thinking that Qiong Yao's emotional experience is relatively rich, she found a good sister to tell her heart.
After Qiong Yao heard about this, although she felt incredible, she still gave advice: "Do you really like Brother Dong?
Liu Lili, who fell in love, said that it was impossible, and he only recognized Dong Jinhu in this life.
Qiong Yao didn't expect that the relationship between Liu Lili and Dong Jinhu was so similar to herself, from the perspective of a bystander, Qiong Yao understood that this woman had completely fallen: "Since you have made a choice, then go for it, like I did at the beginning, abandon everything for love." ”
Under the guidance of Qiong Yao, Liu Lili recognized her love for Dong Jinhu, and she took the initiative to find the door.
As soon as he entered the door, Liu Lili expressed his love for Dong Jinhu to Wang Mei, and showed his determination to quit.
Hearing this, Wang Mei's head "buzzed", and she scolded Liu Lili angrily: "Do you want to be shameless!
Liu Lili, who has always been irritable, was surprisingly quiet this time, and after thinking about it, he expressed his intention: "I'm not here to quarrel with you, I'm ready to join you, and the three of us will live together in the future." In addition, I will beat the baby in my belly and will not have children in the future. ”
Wang Mei's jaw dropped in shock, she never expected someone to be so shameless: "Isn't it good to keep a child for yourself?"
Liu Lili seemed to be touched to the softness in her heart, but she still stubbornly explained: "I'm not the material to be a mother. ”
No one knows what the three of them said in the end, only that in the days that followed, Wang Mei no longer stopped her from interacting with her husband.
Although some media later sharply reported Dong Jinhu's relationship, he disagreed: "Please tell me that I love two women, and they also love me, who am I hindering?"
"I don't care too much about this person, I face and accept things when they come, and let them go if they can't solve them"
After Liu Lili obtained the consent of his original partner Wang Mei, he did treat Wang Mei as his family.
Once, Wang Mei's child was sick and feverish, which happened to be the absence of adults in the family.
At the last moment, Liu Lili rushed to his home in a hurry and took the child to the most expensive local hospital to see a doctor.
In order to get the best treatment for his children, Liu Lili also sold all the valuable things in his home, even rice cookers and fans.
No matter how hard-hearted she is, Wang Mei was also moved by Liu Lili's approach.
In the meantime, Wang Mei officially accepted her and took her home to live with her and her husband.
"It's hard to explain love, I'm a very loyal person to love, and Sister Liu is so good. ”
Liu Lili's goodness is not only in life, but also in the economy.
At that time, Liu Lili was a director, and she filmed day and night, and her income was higher than that of Dong Jinhu and Wang Mei.
But she did not consume these incomes for herself, but handed them all over to Wang Mei.
In her words, "These things are all foreign objects, and it is better to hand them over to Wang Mei for safekeeping." ”
Dong Jinhu (front), Liu Lili (back left), Wang Mei (middle)
The feelings are mutual, Wang Mei saw that Liu Lili was tired from filming, and she would also make her a cup of warm tea.
"Their family has become a wonderful community of life. Qiong Yao commented on this family.
Liu Lili treats Wang Mei and her children with sincerity, and the original Wang Mei also treats her as a good sister.
Not only did they go shopping and take a walk together, Wang Mei also asked her son Dong Sihai to call her "good mother".
Liu Lili treats Dong Sihai like his own child, takes him to the amusement park to eat, drink and have fun on weekends, and even picks him up and drops him off from school.
So much so that later Dong Sihai once thought that Liu Lili was his own mother.
03
Forty-five years later
For so many years, Liu Lili's unruly emotional experience has been criticized in the community.
In 2010, Liu Lili accidentally fell down at the filming scene, and the crew immediately sent her to the hospital.
Although she was taken to the hospital in time, her cerebellum atrophied, and within a few moments, she was unable to stand.
Wang Mei and Dong Jinhu, who learned the news, rushed to the hospital as soon as possible, and when they saw the good sisters lying on the hospital bed, tears burst out from their eyes.
Later, Wang Mei went to take care of Liu Lili on time every day, afraid that the nurse would not be meticulous, so she personally wiped Liu Lili's body.
Afraid that the meals in the hospital were not nutritious, she made porridge and soup for Liu Lili by herself.
During that time, the story of these two sisters touched all the medical staff in the hospital.
In October of the same year, Dong Sihai saw that the "good mother" had silently paid for this family for decades, and he put forward an idea that shocked everyone: "I want to be a rightful son for a good mother!"
Forty-five years of companionship has already made Liu Lili and Wang Mei sisters indistinguishable from you and me, hearing her son's words, Wang Mei did not oppose it as she did forty-five years ago, but she was the first to support.
When Dong Jinhu put the divorce certificate in front of Liu Lili, she couldn't believe it was true for a long time.
Dong Jinhu looked at her affectionately and asked, "I can marry you, are you willing to marry me?"
On the hospital bed for a moment, Liu Lili's eyes were moist, but he did not hesitate at all when he blinked.
In this way, a noisy wedding was held in a hospital bed.
On October 13, a ward in the hospital was plastered with joy, and under the witness of doctors and nurses, this 45-year love ushered in a perfect ending.
And Liu Lili, who wears the name of "Little Three", finally has a reputation and becomes Mrs. Dong.
The original partner Wang Mei was happy for her, and she was like Liu Lili's sister on the side, busy from beginning to end.
Liu Lili, who saw Wang Mei, exerted all his strength and held her hand tightly, once, twice, and three times, as if he had something to explain.
Confused, Wang Mei found Liu Lili's friend Qiong Yao to solve her doubts,
Qiong Yao's heart was shocked after hearing this, she couldn't speak for a long time, her tears were rolling, and her voice was all choked in her throat.
Because she thought of the story of "Knock three times, I love you" shared with Liu Lili at the beginning.
Wang Mei, who got the answer, couldn't calm down, and when she returned to the hospital, she held Liu Lili's hand, looking at each other with tears in her eyes, so unmoved.
This three-person relationship that shocked the world ended in 2015.
Dong Jinhu died, and after his death, Wang Mei and Liu Lili only depended on each other for three years, and it ended with Liu Lili's departure.
In the follow-up interview, Wang Mei did not hesitate to praise Liu Lili: "Sister Liu is the best woman in the world!"
The unreasonable love between the three of them may have a lot of criticism.
But on the other hand, it shows the loyalty of Liu Lili and Wang Mei, as Qiong Yao said: "In Dong Jinhu's life, there are two such great women, and they are not living in vain!"
Dong Jinhu in his later years and Wang Mei in his original match
Dong Jinhu got the company of the two ladies for a lifetime, Liu Lili got the family affection from his lover and Wang Mei, and Wang Mei got the financial help brought by Liu Lili.
The three of them have formed a big family with their own tolerance, and the family thinks in one place, works hard in one place, and has been in the same boat for 50 years.
As the saying goes, "Whoever drinks the glass of love has to get drunk", Liu Lili interpreted this sentence with his life.
Although the relationship between the three of them is singable and crying to a certain extent, after all, this farce evolved from Dong Jinhu's mistakes.
Love is sacred, "choose a city to grow old, with a white head", this is the true meaning of love.