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Well-known actor
When Song Dandan suffered the blow of failing the college entrance examination, she did not give up the pace of pursuing her dreams. With a strong desire not to admit defeat, she decided to discover her artistic talent in another way, so she signed up for the exam at the Beijing People's Art Theater.
Unexpectedly, she was successfully admitted to Renyi's acting training class.
Since then, Song Dandan's life has become more spacious and bright. With her own efforts and perseverance, she has gradually grown into a high-profile and powerful actress in China.
Whether it is in the audience-loved family sitcom "I Love My Home" or the popular "Family with Children" series of the post-90s, every role she portrays is unforgettable.
Especially at the annual Spring Festival Gala, the classic partner "Baiyun Black Soil" composed of Song Dandan and Zhao Benshan has become a star that will always shine in the eyes of the public.
People once speculated that after withdrawing from the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, Song Dandan may gradually fade out of the public eye, but the facts have taken an unexpected turn.
In May 2024, Song Dandan will appear again on the hit program "Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Dock", which has once again attracted widespread attention. Interestingly, this time the audience was not more concerned with the work itself, but with the topic of Song Dandan's personal life and emotional journey.
It is these ups and downs in her life that have created Song Dandan's unique personality and charm, and also made her a star who will always shine in the hearts of the public.
Through the information published on the Internet, we can clearly capture Song Dandan's growth trajectory. Although she came from a well-educated family, she did not show much talent in her studies.
failed the college entrance examination twice, but failed to enter the university of her choice as she wished, which made her fall into a trough of despair for a while.
Song Dandan did not easily give up the pace of pursuing her dreams. She signed up for the Beijing People's Art Theater exam, and was finally admitted to the acting training class as she wished.
Since then, her life path has become brighter and brighter. With her own hard work and perseverance, Song Dandan has gradually transformed into a well-known and powerful actress in China, and has created a deeply rooted role image in many classic dramas.
Even after withdrawing from the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, Song Dandan still maintained a high level of attention. In May 2024, she will appear again on the hit show "Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Dock", which has attracted widespread attention.
Unlike usual, this time the audience is no longer concerned with the work itself, but more with her personal life and emotional journey.
It can be said that it is these ups and downs of life experience that have shaped Song Dandan's unique personality charm and made her an indelible star in the eyes of the public. Even after many years, she is still an indispensable and important figure in the domestic film and television industry.
Twists and turns
Song Dandan's marriage journey can be described as magnificent. She has experienced three marriages, the first two of which ended in failure, leaving her with a devastation and loss of face. It wasn't until she met Yingda that she finally found the other half of her life.
Song Dandan's first love object was Yuan Gang, a sunny boy on the court whom he met in high school. At that time, Song Dandan fell in love with this young man at first sight, took the initiative to pursue him passionately, and wrote moving poems for him.
Reality eventually interrupted their romance. Yuan Gang chose to go abroad for further study, and the two had to part ways. Although Song Dandan couldn't accept the loss of this relationship, she still gritted her teeth and insisted, and soon entered her first marriage.
Unexpectedly, this marriage only lasted for a short year before it broke down. Frustrated, Song Dandan devoted himself to his acting career and vowed to prove his worth with his own efforts.
That's when she met Indah.
At that time, Yingda had just walked out of the haze of her last marriage, and she was as emotionally traumatized as Song Dandan. The two like-minded people soon developed a strong relationship, and after a few months of dating, they decided to join hands in the marriage hall.
The good times didn't last long, and their marriage soon cracked. Yingda's deep machismo made his feelings for Song Dandan gradually cool down.
What's even more fatal is that most of the family's financial resources come from Song Dandan's hard work, which makes it difficult for the conceited Yingda to accept. During the filming of "I Love My Home", Yingda had an ambiguous relationship with screenwriter Liang Huan, and finally chose to betray Song Dandan.
Song Dandan naturally couldn't accept such a betrayal, but she had nothing to do. Eventually, their marriage broke down at a heavy cost. Yingda and Liang Huan immediately entered a new marriage hall and chose to settle overseas.
In this family turmoil, Song Dandan was traumatized, but she did not choose to give up. Instead, she chose to devote herself to her acting career, vowing to prove her worth with her own efforts.
History of change
Compared with Song Dandan, Yingda's life resume can be described as extraordinary. He graduated from Peking University, the highest university in China, and then went to the United States for further study, specializing in stage drama and performing arts.
In contrast, although Song Dandan is also talented, her family background is quite different from Yingda.
This gap in academic qualifications and family background makes Yingda feel a sense of pride in her heart. In the process of getting along with Song Dandan, this conceited emotion became more and more prominent.
His feelings for his wife gradually cooled, and he gradually became dissatisfied with family life. What's more critical is that the main source of income for the family turned out to be from Song Dandan, which gave Yingda's self-esteem a serious blow.
Although Yingda did not express his dissatisfaction directly, the pain in his heart pierced his heart like a spike. During the filming of the classic drama "I Love My Home", Yingda met screenwriter Liang Huan.
This intellectually elegant lady immediately ignited Yingda's long-suppressed desires.
Yingda completely indulged in the feeling of being admired and adored, and soon chose to betray her family and devote herself to this new relationship. Although Song Dandan quickly noticed the subtle changes in her husband's emotional world, she couldn't accept such a betrayal and chose to turn her back on her feelings.
Eventually, their marriage broke down in tragic fashion.
After Yingda divorced Song Dandan, he immediately entered a new marriage hall with Liang Huan and began to start a family overseas. At this time, Yingda seemed to want to completely cut off the grievances and hatred with his ex-wife, and chose to turn a blind eye to Song Dandan and their common son Batu.
He even publicly stated that only the son he had with Liang Huan was his real flesh and blood relative.
Yingda's obvious difference in treating his two sons fully exposes the huge difference in his feelings towards Liang Huan and Song Dandan. He spent a lot of money to provide his young second son with all kinds of high-quality training resources, but he turned a deaf ear to the preferences of his eldest son, Batu, and even refused to let Batu go to pay respects to his deceased grandfather.
Such an act undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to Batu. Under the strict requirements of his mother Song Dandan and the blatant indifference of his father Yingda, he seemed to be in the middle of a crack, and his heart was tormented.
This environment forced him to grow into a restrained, sensitive, and slightly depressed child.
This behavior of Yingda undoubtedly stems from the conceit and pride in his heart. As a man from a well-known family with excellent academic qualifications, it was difficult for him to accept the advantages of his wife's economic status.
In this situation of damaged self-esteem, he finally chose to betray his family and put his own desires above the parent-child relationship.
By the time Indah finally realizes the mistake she made, it's too late. In the long river of time, he has missed too many precious opportunities to spend time with Batuu.
Whether it is out of guilt in her heart or still because of her self-esteem, Yingda can't really let go of the past and regain her relationship with her son in the end.
Justice has come
Although Yingda tried her best to hide her true colors, she underestimated the insight of Song Dandan and the public. Song Dandan's post on Weibo was like a resounding slap in the face, hitting Yingda's mask disguised as a "loving father".
She mercilessly exposed Yingdah's cold attitude towards Batu for many years. Indah claims to be a great father on the surface, but in fact he is completely partial to another son, and even a picture of Batu with him is hard to find.
With Song Dandan's revelation, the public finally saw Yingda's true face. They condemned Yingda's actions one after another and supported Song Dandan in unison. It was agreed that it was outrageous to inflict an adult grudge on an innocent child.
Indah doesn't seem to have repented of this. On the contrary, he still tries to cover up his mistakes by distorting the facts. He denigrated Song Dandan on the show, accusing her of preventing him from rebuilding a relationship with Batu.
But in the face of so much evidence, Yingdah's disguise finally could not be maintained.
People can't help but sigh at what kind of motive Yingda has for treating his own flesh and blood like this? Is it out of guilt in his heart and wants to make up for his past mistakes, or is he still stuck with his pride and can't really let go of the past? In any case, he has missed too many precious opportunities and time with Batu in the long river of time.
And in this process, Batu always chose silence and tolerance, and never chose to stand up and expose what Yingda did. This is the last trace of kindness he retains for his former "father".
Even after experiencing so much harm, he still did not choose revenge or revenge, but proved himself with his actual actions.
When Indah tries to rebuild relations with Batu through the show again, the public's emotions will undoubtedly lean in favor of the victim, Batu. Netizens condemned Yingda's behavior and supported Song Dandan's position.
This not only fully demonstrates the public's ability to distinguish between right and wrong, but also once again confirms the truth that justice will eventually be served.
It is believed that as the truth gradually emerges, Yingda's actions will definitely be punished morally and legally. Even if he is still trying to whitewash the peace and try to regain his relationship with Batu, it will be in vain.
As Song Dandan said, although justice is late, it will not be absent.
Looking at the whole story, it is not difficult for us to find that Yingda's deep conceit and pride eventually led to a tragedy that ruined the whole family. He put his self-esteem and face above the parent-child relationship, turned a blind eye to his own flesh and blood, and even openly discriminated against him.
As an adult, Yingda can't treat others with a tolerant heart, let alone fulfill the responsibilities of a father to his children. This is undoubtedly an outrageous act that deserves deep thought for all parents.
In contrast, Batu showed extraordinary tolerance and kindness in this family turmoil. Even in the face of his biological father's coldness and indifference, he chose to remain silent and prove himself with his efforts and achievements.
This courage and determination undoubtedly stems from Song Dandan's earnest teachings to him and his careful cultivation over the years.
It is precisely because of the careful care and guidance of his mother Song Dandan that Batu was able to grow into an adult with a head on his head and feet on his feet and a heart in a difficult environment.
He not only made achievements in his career, but also formed a happy family.
Indah, on the other hand, lost her way in her pride and self-esteem. Not only was he unable to give his children enough love, but he chose to openly discriminate against and deny Batu.
This kind of behavior not only harms innocent children, but is also bound to be condemned by society and morally.
Giving birth to children without nurturing them with care and nurturing is undoubtedly a serious responsibility of parents. We sincerely hope that every parent can give their children the care and teaching they deserve, so that they can thrive in a healthy and happy environment.
Even if Indah eventually realizes her mistakes and tries to make amends for them, it will be too late. He has missed too many precious moments with Batu in the long river of time.
Batu, on the other hand, chose to prove himself in his own way, becoming a man in charge of his own affairs and having a happy family.
For Song Dandan, despite the setbacks in her marriage, she never gave up her love for her son Batu. It was her sincere teaching and careful nurturing that enabled Batu to grow into a brave and kind person in the face of adversity.
I believe that as the truth gradually emerges, Yingda's actions will definitely be punished as they deserve. But in any case, we hope that every parent can fulfill their responsibility and give their children the care and care they deserve, so that they can thrive in a healthy and happy environment, and no more children will be harmed.
Justice may be late, but it will not be absent. We believe that as long as parents can treat their children with a tolerant and tolerant heart, they will be able to raise the next generation as brave and kind as Batu.