At the 2024 TV Drama Quality Ceremony, a subtle controversy sparked heated discussions among netizens, let's unveil the veil in this social occasion.
When Ding Yongdai walked to the first row and shook hands with Chen Jianbin , a unique scene was depicted: Chen Jianbin sat in place, leaned forward slightly, and shook hands with Ding Yongdai. This scene was like a stone stirring up a thousand waves, and netizens began to have a heated discussion in the comment area.
Some people bluntly say, "It's not polite to sit and shake hands with someone!" They believe that shaking hands as a common etiquette represents respect and friendship between both parties. On this occasion, Ding Yongdai, as an elder, should be more respected, and Chen Jianbin sat and shook hands, which seemed a bit impolite.
There are also some netizens who have a different opinion. They believe that the way of shaking hands is not an absolute norm, and more importantly, the inner will of both parties and the sincerity of the interaction should be valued. Chen Jianbin sat and shook hands with Ding Yongdai, not because of disrespect, but out of a natural and equal mentality, probably because the relationship between the two was relatively familiar.
Some netizens pointed out that no matter who is older, when others take the initiative to come over to greet each other, getting up or owing is one of the basic social etiquette. This seems to remind us that respect and care are indispensable elements in our interactions.
There are also objections to this. They believe that in intimate relationships, too rigid in etiquette can be pretentious. In this case, a sitting handshake may be more reflective of the closeness and equality between the two parties.
The discussion is not just about etiquette, but also about the subtle psychological and emotional exchanges in social interactions. How do we show respect and friendliness when dealing with different people and situations?
There are also some people in the comment section who have a more detailed interpretation of this scene. They observed that Ding Yongdai took the initiative to take steps and shook hands with Chen Jianbin The moment revealed a kind of modesty and sincerity. Chen Jianbin sat and shook hands, showing an equal and natural attitude. This subtle detail may be the crux of this controversy.
In this discussion, which is full of social norms and psychological factors, we seem to see a deeper meaning. Socializing is not just a ritual, but a way to communicate and interact. In this process, etiquette and sincerity coexist, and respect and closeness complement each other.
How do we deal with similar social situations in our daily lives? Are we able to be sincere and natural while respecting others? Perhaps this is where each of us needs to think and work on it.