There are some children who seem to be born with an energy that makes people can't help but give them more attention and love.
There are also some children who seem to be born good at hiding themselves, they do not have a strong sense of existence, and most of the time they are quietly and silently huddled in their little corners, always less noticeable.
There are also some children, who will always cause a steady stream of small troubles, making teachers and parents painstaking, anxious and helpless.
But no matter what kind of children they are, they are all unique beings, and the teacher, as a gardener, should irrigate every flower with love and look forward to their brilliant bloom in the future.
Every child is a flower
Approaching a child is like approaching a flower.
Every child has a different flowering period, and each child is a seed of a flower, but everyone's flowering period is different.
Some flowers will bloom brilliantly at the beginning, and some flowers will require a long wait.
Don't look at others blooming, your own one is in a hurry before it moves, I believe that it is a flower, and it has its own flowering period.
Caring for your flowers, slowly watching them grow up, and accompanying him (her) to soak in the sunshine and wind and rain is not a kind of happiness.
When you face the whole garden, you see a full of purple and red, and each flower exists just to get close to that whole color.
When you squat down, get close to a flower, look closely, you will see its slender, delicate stamens, you will see the thin, almost transparent petals, you will see a slight wind blowing, the flower stalk will sway, just like a child's heart.
Like the clouds and smoke in early spring in March, like a blooming flower, love is such a beautiful and precious thing.
The classroom was very quiet and the children looked at me with bright eyes.
Standing on the podium and looking at them, as if facing a spring field, I could hear the sound of them growing up.
The unruliness in his eyes was precious, as if it were those wild lives in the African savannah, full of vitality.
I hope that children will grow vigorously this spring, and they will be able to get enough respect and love for all their initial experiences of life and emotions, so that they can see how beautiful the world is to know and understand love.
The child's path depends on him to walk
In this world, we will meet a lot of love, a lot of warmth. But what can nourish our growth and have a profound impact on us must be the love from our families.
As a parent, I must admit that growing up must be directed towards separation, and although children are born from us, what they think and think cannot and will not be copied only by us.
Children are independent individuals with their own world and life, don't use our experience to force them.
There are too many unknowns in life, and even if parents have more anxiety and worry, they cannot see and arrange all the future of their children at that time.
Parents can only help their children to follow the current path, but they cannot control the direction of his future. His way is to be walked by himself. We have nothing but blessings for this.
We are companions of our children, not owners.
Yes, children belong only to themselves, not to us. We cannot demand the complete subordination of one life to another, the complete domination of one life over another.
Only by becoming a better version of yourself can we have better children
We are destined to be busy parents. Not to be busy for your children, but to be a better version of yourself. Only by becoming a better version of yourself can you become a better parent.
Teacher Wang said: Only by becoming a better self can we have better children, because the essence of education is that a cloud blows another cloud, and a tree shakes another tree.
The mentality of parents is to accept their own ordinariness and their children's ordinariness.
In the conflicts and problems with the child, fully understand, fully respect, and fully communicate with the child in good faith. Learn to talk well to your child.
"Why? You must have your troubles. No matter what happens, Mom will understand you, help you, and won't blame you. Tell me!"
"Whatever mistakes you make, you can tell your mom. Mom will always love you and will help you. Tomorrow, will you be happy to go to kindergarten?"
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When the child is angry, the adult does not have to rush to the conclusion of the matter, but should first calm the child's emotions so that she can calm down as soon as possible.
Only when the child is calm can he listen to what you say.
Every time a behavioral problem arises, it is actually a good educational opportunity.
As a parent, you should tell her about your experience and guide her.
It is not wrong for adults to ask more, listen more, and understand more about children's ideas.
Even if your child is not right, do not rush to deny it, but accept his emotions first, and then put forward your own ideas and communicate with your child sincerely.
As a parent, you really should crouch down and see the world with your children.
What seems small and insignificant to us adults is often big, big, and important to children.
Only by looking at them can we really understand them and get close to them.
Write to the end
Child, a creature that reminds us of love and hate. They are innocent and cute, but they are also mischievous at the same time, they love you and they make you angry.
We must know how to care for them, guide them, and cherish their innocence, because don't forget that we were also children, and we were naughty and made our parents and teachers angry.
Children not only bring us the confusion of parenting, but also bring us the happy experience of hugging, attachment and hope.
From the perspectives of teachers and mothers, Wang Yuewei told 48 real and warm stories about education and growth issues such as learning, interpersonal relationships, emotional enlightenment, and original family, bringing us infinite touching and reflection.
Wang Yuewei has always been a down-to-earth educator and a diligent recorder of childlike innocence. Affectionately known as the "Innocent Catcher".
Countless netizens expressed their sincere feelings: I really hope that I have been your student, and I have been educated and influenced by you like that!