Xiaofang was born in a small town in the south, her parents are honest farmers, Xiaofang has two younger brothers, and the family lives a simple and poor life.
Xiaofang looks like a flower, is smart and clever, and is a beautiful embryo in the eyes of the villagers. Despite Xiaofang's outstanding appearance and talent, she has never been able to find a satisfactory home. In a flash, she was 28 years old and became an older leftover girl, and her marriage became a heart disease for the family.
Xiao Fang has been on a blind date more than 20 times, but has never found a satisfactory marriage partner, because Xiao Fang has extremely high requirements for the other half. She just wants to find a man who has a house, is rich and handsome. Xiaofang has met many men and has been in love several times, but she still hasn't found a man who meets her requirements.
Every time she goes on a blind date, Xiaofang will directly ask the other party if she has a house and a car, how much she has in savings, and also requires that the other party must be handsome. Such a request discouraged many blind dates, feeling that Xiaofang was too picky.
One day, news came from the village that a wealthy merchant from other places came to the village and wanted to find a virtuous and virtuous woman as his wife. When the news reached Xiaofang's ears, she felt that this was a rare opportunity, so she decided to give it a try.
Xiaofang dressed up carefully, and she came to the rich business. The rich businessman's eyes lit up when he saw Xiao Fang, and he felt that she was indeed a beauty. They recognized each other and started talking. Xiaofang expressed her request unabashedly, she hoped that the rich businessman would give her a bride price of 280,000 yuan, and buy a house in the city, and take good care of her.
The wealthy merchant listened to Xiao Fang's request and was silent for a while. He tells Xiaofang that he is rich, but he will not squander it at will. He felt that marriage should be based on affection, not on the exchange of money and material things. He also said: "True happiness is not measured by money, but requires both parties to work together to create!"
Xiaofang was a little unhappy, she felt that the rich businessman did not understand her thoughts and did not respect her request. She decided to leave the wealthy businessman and continue to look for a man who met her requirements.
As the days passed, Xiaofang still did not find a satisfactory home. She reflects on whether she is too demanding, and whether she should let go of her obsessions to find true happiness.
This case teaches us that marriage is not a transaction, and it cannot be measured purely in terms of money and material things. True happiness is based on affection and requires both parties to work together to create it. At the same time, we should also respect everyone's choices, don't be too others, and don't give up our own pursuits easily.
Sentiment analysis
From an emotional point of view, the 28-year-old village flower's actions elicit a mixed emotional response.
First of all, her persistence and persistence make people have a certain understanding and sympathy. Everyone has their own expectations and requirements for marriage, and she believes that a man with a house, money and handsomeness can give her the life and security she wants. In the blind date, she insisted on her own standards and was unwilling to compromise, which reflected her serious attitude towards marriage and her pursuit of her own happiness.
However, her actions elicit some negative emotional reactions. She bluntly asked for a bride price of 280,000 yuan, which would be seen by some as too materialistic and utilitarian, ignoring the more important emotional foundation and mutual respect in marriage. This request comes across as not being gentle, considerate, and empathetic enough to call into question her true motives and attitudes toward marriage.
In addition, her high standards will also trigger doubts and criticism from some people. In the eyes of others, she is too demanding, ignoring the complexities of real life. After all, true happiness should not be based on material conditions, but requires joint efforts and mutual understanding on both sides.
Overall, the actions of the village flower elicited different reactions emotionally. Her persistence and persistence deserve respect, but her demands and behavior also make people question and criticize. When it comes to marriage, everyone needs to make choices based on their own actual situation, while also respecting the choices and feelings of others.