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A unique view of marriage
Chen Jin is an outstanding and well-known actress who has made a name for herself in the industry with her superb acting skills and has won many awards. However, in the trajectory of her life, there is a unique decision that few people know about - she and her brother agreed not to marry or have children for the rest of their lives.
For this decision, Chen Jin has always been unswerving. In the interview, she confessed: "I don't want to go into the prison of marriage, I just want to be able to enjoy my personal time alone."
This non-mainstream attitude to life makes people admire.
As a professional actor, Chen Jin's life is full of pressure and challenges. When it comes to marriage, she has chosen a different path. She told her parents: "Don't worry about me anymore, as long as I see my brother enter the palace of marriage, I will follow him."
Together, the siblings made this important decision, and they remain steadfast to this day.
Although Chen Jin's parents were worried, they were helpless. They thought it was just a makeshift excuse for the children, but it turned out that the vow was held up and never wavered.
Regarding the general view of society that "it is necessary to get married and have children", Chen Jin holds his own unique opinion. She said indifferently: "I don't have much desire to cater to the mainstream, and I don't pay too much attention to the mainstream."
"Whether we have children or not, everyone's life is spent with themselves. "This detachment from the world is impressive.
Chen Jin compares himself to a bystander standing on the stage and watching the endless stream of pedestrians. "There are always people who organize their lives according to age and social norms, and I think you have the right to be yourself and not feel pressured at all," she says.
These words gave her a new understanding of life.
At the same time, Chen Jin's elder brother Chen Zhun is also an outstanding photographer, and the two have quite similar lifestyles. He once said to his sister so frankly: "May my life be longer than the night, and I may take care of you more deeply, and wash away all the pain from your shoulders."
This kind of brotherhood is very moving.
The siblings have chosen a different path in life, but they have never felt lost or alone. On the contrary, they feel that this independent and free way of life is truly their own life.
Chen Jin and Wu Gang's friendship rumors
Although Chen Jin has made great achievements in her career, her love life has always attracted much attention. In 2013, a set of photos led to speculation about her marital status.
In the photo, 50-year-old Chen Jin and the famous actor Wu Gang frequently go in and out of the same workplace, and the interaction between the two is extremely intimate.
These two excellent actors are both over half a hundred years old, and they have both experienced emotional setbacks. Now, they are standing together, which makes the audience sigh that the two are so compatible.
Many concerned netizens have left messages, looking forward to them being able to spend the rest of their lives together.
However, this speculation was eventually solemnly denied. According to people familiar with the inside story, the two are just deep confidants and friends. As early as 2004, they met during the filming of a TV series, and then became friends who talked about everything.
When asked about this rumor, Chen Jin's answer was unusually calm: "I don't have much desire to cater to the mainstream, and I don't pay too much attention to the mainstream.
"I'm used to living independently, and even with my husband by my side, I still can't rely on him," she insists.
For this brilliant actress, marriage is not a necessity in her life. In the depths of her heart, freedom and independence have always occupied an important place. Even under pressure from the outside world, she never wavered in her faith and determination.
An episode in his career
Looking back on Chen Jin's acting career, there is an episode that attracts quite attention.
When I first entered the campus, due to the mediocre conditions and lack of self-confidence in all aspects, the teachers did not pay much attention to this girl. However, things take a turn with her brilliant performance in a miniature drama called "Brothers and Sisters."
This outstanding performance enabled her to successfully gain the recognition of her teachers and regain her long-lost self-confidence. It turned out that it was the years spent with her brother, as well as her continuous exploration and progress on the road of art, that made her brilliant achievements today.
Since then, Chen Jin has started his own career in theater performance.
In terms of depth of thought and proficiency, Chen Jin has shown a very high level, and has quickly won a reputation for himself on the road of drama art.
However, life is not all smooth sailing. Although her first starring role in the film did not attract widespread attention, she still maintains an optimistic attitude and laughs at life. "I don't envy others, I just focus on living my true life," she confidently says.
At that time, she was in a group dormitory, living a carefree life, and her monthly salary was often squandered within a few days, and she was really a real "moonlight goddess".
However, it is this open-minded and casual attitude that makes Chen Jin unique among many people. Her attitude towards life has won the love of the audience.
At the expense of health
The profession of an actor has high artistic requirements, and in order to keep improving, Chen Jin has made some choices that sacrifice his personal health.
When playing the role of "The Mountain Doesn't Turn and the Water Turns", Chen Jin won the "Feitian Award" for her outstanding acting skills, which is undoubtedly the audience's high affirmation of her acting skills.
However, her appearance has also been questioned because of this, and has been described by many viewers as "as bloated as a middle-aged woman".
In the face of this kind of verbal criticism, Chen Jin was deeply shocked in his heart. She even sighed with emotion: "When I see my past self, it will always be a little difficult to adapt." Later, she was criticized by a director for being too round, and she immediately made up her mind to start a difficult road to lose weight.
"Some people are born with unique conditions, but for those of us who are less qualified, the road will be full of ups and downs. Chen Jin knows that as a professional actor, appearance is crucial to development.
As a result, she developed a strict diet plan, filling her stomach with only tender and juicy peaches or bitter coffee, and refused greasy and tempting meals for more than 20 years.
In addition to this, she also puts in intense physical exercise, often sweating and devoting herself to 3 hours of yoga practice. This extremely harsh way of losing weight has caused serious damage to her physical health.
"Lifeless, the vitality of life seems to have been completely frozen. Chen Jin described himself at that time at a slow and long pace. Every time she exerted force, her body instantly weakened.
But even so, she still chooses to stick to a healthier and reasonable diet plan to gradually restore the balance of her body and mind.
However, the inherent concept of resolutely not touching the staple food has been firmly rooted in her heart, and she still adheres to it unswervingly.
Since then, Chen Jin has starred in excellent film and television works and drama performances such as "The Tide Rises and Falls", "Honor and Disgrace in the Business World" and "Three Sisters, Waiting for Godot".
Her performance has always remained restrained and bland, but it contains endless power and emotion.
As she puts it, "As an actor, that's what we love and what we do!
This fearless and tenacious spirit has made her win countless honors and awards, and she has become a well-deserved "all-round heroine".
The deep brotherhood with the brother of the concubine
In addition to the excellence of professional acting skills, another admirable aspect of Chen Jin's life is the deep brotherhood with his brother Chen Zhun.
It wasn't until Chen Jin participated in the art school interview and successfully passed the interview that he mustered up the courage to tell his family the truth. When the father learned of his daughter's outstanding performance, he immediately searched for the best mentor for her.
Chen Jin was deeply loved by the teachers with her outstanding performance in school.
At the same time, his brother Chen Zhun also became a popular photographer. In order to help his brother's career start, most of the scholarships and salaries Chen Jin saved were used to buy photography equipment, and this sincere brotherhood made their relationship closer and closer.
Over the years, the siblings have been close to each other. Chen Zhun once said to his sister from the bottom of his heart: "May my life be longer than the night, so that I can take care of you more deeply and wash away all the pain on your shoulders."
"They convey each other's unique ideas about life with far-reaching eyes.
Even though their parents were often anxious about their marriage, the siblings always said firmly: "Don't worry about us anymore, as long as we see each other enter the palace of marriage, we will follow."
To this day, their oath has not wavered.
Chen Jin compares himself to a bystander standing under the stage, quietly watching the people of the world come and go. And Chen Zheng is a unique perspective to create a fairyland-like residence for his sister and himself.
In such an absolutely free and unrestrained atmosphere, the two of them chatted about life and talked about everything.