I swiped a video today, a woman claimed to be a 40-year-old girl, she said that she went on a blind date with 21 objects a year, but these 21 people were all scared away by the blind date conditions she proposed, resulting in even the matchmaker being reluctant to introduce her, bluntly saying that the woman is too good, and other men are not worthy of her at all.
When I first heard the woman say this, I was still curious about what kind of conditions the woman put forward to scare off 21 blind dates, and even the matchmaker was unwilling to introduce her in the end.
As a result, after watching the woman's video, I can only say that this condition is not ordinarily high, and every one is testing the bottom line of men.
The first condition put forward by a woman is that she has a child after marriage, and the child cannot be raised with her.
Regarding this condition, the woman said that she was thinking about the lives of two people, because he didn't want anyone to disturb the lives of their husband and wife, and wanted to live a two-person world, and only hoped that two people could live a lifetime of affection and love.
It is said that the child is the crystallization of the love of the parents, and the parents have the obligation to raise the child, and the child is born but does not intend to raise it by his side, who will raise the child, and the beautiful name is that he does not want the child to disturb the couple's two-person world, which is actually selfish.
The second condition for a woman is that she should bring her parents with her after marriage.
The reason given by the woman is that it is not easy for her parents to raise her, and she should be filial to them, and this is also what a man should do, and a man must have a sense of responsibility and filial piety.
The previous article is still saying that if you have a child, you don't plan to keep your child by your side, and you are afraid that the child will disturb the two-person world of the husband and wife, and the second article will take over your parents, so you are not afraid of your parents disturbing your two-person world.
And it's not easy for your parents to raise you, and the same is true for the man's parents, so will you agree to take the man's parents over after marriage?
The third condition of a woman is the bride price, and she asks for a bride price of 600,000 or 500,000 in gold.
The woman said that the wedding bride price must be 600,000 yuan, and there must be 500,000 yuan in gold, and if you don't buy gold, you can discount it into cash for her.
The woman explained that the reason why she wants so much bride price is because she wants an attitude of the man, she thinks that the woman pays a lot in marriage, which needs money to support, with the bride price and hardware, the future life is guaranteed, if you can't even take this, there will definitely be big problems after marriage.
I have never objected to a bride price for marriage, but this must also be based on the economic foundation of the man's family, and I can't ask for a price all over the sky, 600,000 bride price, 500,000 gold, these two things alone are more than one million, and the average family will definitely not be able to take it out.
The fourth condition is that the man's monthly salary must be more than 30,000 yuan, and he must pay his salary
The woman said that the man's monthly salary must be more than 30,000 yuan, and he must have this economic strength.
And every month, I have to hand over my salary, 10,000 yuan as daily living expenses, and 20,000 yuan as women's private money.
And the woman also said that she has to do monthly nursing, she has to dress up, she is beautiful, and the man also has face.
The man's monthly salary must be more than 30,000 yuan, and all of them must be handed over, and finally they must be saved as the woman's private money.
The fifth condition is that the man must have a house and a car.
The woman requires the man to have a house and a car, and the house must be transferred to her name before marriage, and the car is the same, which is the most basic living guarantee.
It's really getting more and more outrageous, why should the man's car and house be transferred to your name, and won't the premarital transfer become your premarital property? Isn't this a clear robbery?
It was the 5 conditions put forward by the woman that directly scared away 21 blind dates, and even the matchmaker was reluctant to introduce herself, the woman was very puzzled, she felt that the conditions she proposed were very ordinary, and she didn't feel that the conditions she raised were high.
The woman also posted her own matter on the Internet for everyone to comment, and netizens also discussed it.
Some netizens said that the woman's requirements were not high, and asked her to wait slowly.
Regarding the woman's claim that she is still a little girl at the age of 40, netizens also expressed "recognition", saying that she is a big girl at the age of 60 and 80 years old.
Some netizens also said that the woman's bride price is only 600,000, plus 500,000 gold, which is still too low, and it should be 80 million directly.
There are also netizens who hope that women will not compromise, do not lower their blind date standards, and adhere to principles.
Some netizens said that they could wait a little longer, and they could retire at the age of 50 and enjoy Qingfu.
Some netizens also said that the woman's wish will definitely come true by the end of this century, and persistence is victory.
After reading the messages of netizens, I have to say that netizens are really too "bad", if according to netizens, it is estimated that the woman plans to marry in this life.
If a woman really wants to get married, she still hopes that the woman can lower her standards a little, although bread is important, but if no one can accept these conditions, it will be in vain.
What do you think about this?