During the confinement period, the husband made three chapters of the covenant with the mother-in-law
Law 1: Division of labor in the care of children
During the confinement period, raising a baby is not a big deal.
The husband and mother-in-law should cooperate like a team, just like the team stars in "Where Are You Going, Dad". The husband is responsible for changing diapers and breastfeeding, and the mother-in-law is responsible for singing lullabies to the baby and soothing the emotions. After all, the baby is not the plot of "One Man Alone Against a Hundred Wolves", but a small life guarded by the whole family.
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The husband feels sorry for his wife, and the mother-in-law feels sorry for her son, but the most important thing is to feel sorry for the baby. Raising a baby alone is like being surrounded by a group of elves, imagine that you suddenly receive a call from the boss when you are breastfeeding, isn't it even more miserable prince? mothers-in-law, don't nag next to you: "Why are you crying? Why are your diapers wet again?" Give your husband a little space, they are also learning how to be a qualified father!
Law 2: Consideration and Boxing
The mother-in-law talks about it, but she is also very easy. When she was younger, she may have gone through all these hardships, but now she just wants to love her son more. And you, as a new mother, also have your own difficulties.
Consideration and tolerance are the panacea for resolving conflicts. Just like Ultraman needs to transform to fight monsters, families need a pearl to deal with life's challenges.
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Mother-in-law isn't here to make trouble, she just wants to give some help and advice while you're still adjusting to your new role. But sometimes these "suggestions" can be mistaken for "criticism" by you.
Don't blame her, after all, she is also showing her care for you in her own way. And you must also learn to feel with your heart and treat her "care" with a preventive attitude. After all, there is nothing warmer in the world than mutual understanding and care between family members.
Law 3: Solidarity and cooperation
During confinement, the family is a small team that runs like a machine. The husband and mother-in-law are the core parts of this machine, and the tacit understanding and cooperation between them are crucial. Just like the couple in the TV series and the partners in the hilarious comedy, only unity and cooperation can overcome all kinds of difficulties in life.
Don't think that your mother is the only one who suffers during the confinement period, in fact, your husband and mother-in-law also have their own hardships. The husband may need to work overtime to earn money, and the mother-in-law may need to put down her life to take care of her grandchildren. Therefore, in this special period, it is the wisest choice to unite and cooperate to face the challenges together. Just like the panda family in the cute "Kung Fu Panda", only by working together can we defend our home!
The mother-in-law relationship is a problem in social relationships. But it is precisely because of this problem that our lives are smoother. So, cognition uses the mind of the Buddha to deal with this problem in a different way of thinking. , you will find that it turns out that resolving conflicts can also be a light and pleasant thing. Life is a comedy, let's laugh together about the difficulties in life!
The conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, with complex complexions, actually stems from the discord between each other and poor communication. But as long as you understand that mothers-in-law treat each other with confrontation and acceptance, I believe that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be as sweet and delicious as ice cream in summer!