Recently, a mother released a video of a confinement lady abusing her baby. Bao Ma said that she had just given birth to a child for 9 days and invited the confinement lady to take the child, but when she went to the toilet, the confinement lady who was breastfeeding the child pulled out the pacifier on the bottle and directly poured milk into the baby.
Originally, this was the problem of the low quality and poor professionalism of the confinement sister-in-law, but a large number of netizens in the comment area were accusing the mother, saying why she didn't take care of the children herself, but asked the confinement sister-in-law.
Some netizens even said that the child's mother is disabled?
I'm strange, we have to recuperate for ten days and a half months when we come home after any surgery, only the mother does not need to rest after the caesarean section, she can directly breastfeed and hold the child to change diapers, as long as you don't do it yourself, you are an unqualified mother.
Some netizens said that it is all because the current mother does not believe in her mother-in-law, and would rather let outsiders take care of her children.
So, should the child be given to the grandmother?
Delinquency!
Grandma didn't take the child well, let the child fall into the bucket and drown, don't blame grandma for not careless, blame mom for being irresponsible.
Why doesn't the mother bring it by herself when she gives birth, why does the mother go to work, and the mother leaves the child to the grandmother, which is to shirk the responsibility!
So the mother gave birth, and the mother took care of the child at home by herself, so it's always okay, right?
Delinquency!
How can a woman be a stay-at-home mother? Do you want to hand over the responsibility of earning money to your father alone? Do you know how hard it is for him to do this? Do you know that in a family, only men earn money to support the family, and women are full-time mothers, and the risk is very high, which is a very terrible pattern!
People say that even if a woman only earns more than 2,000 yuan a month, you have to go to work, so that the happiness index of the family is high. Staying at home full-time with children, you're just lazy, you just don't want to go to work, and the rest are excuses!
So, the mother has to go to work, so who exactly should the child be brought to?
And they said, Since thou hast no power to bring him, thou shalt not give birth to him.
Okay, so it's okay if I don't give birth, right?
Delinquency!
The principal of a middle school said that marriage is to have children.
The men also said, if you don't have children, why should I marry you!
That's really not going to work, I'm not even married, it's okay, right?
Not at all!
They also said that as a woman, you don't have children, you don't get married, and you haven't experienced being a mother and a grandmother, it's a waste of life!
They also said that the older leftover women who don't get married are all sick!
If you don't get married, there must be something wrong with you!
Then who will take care of me when I get married and have children?
Mom can't bring it, because women can't not make money, grandma can't take it, because grandma has no obligation, and you can't say if you can't bring it, nanny confinement sister-in-law can't take it, because it's an outsider, and you are irresponsible to hand over the child to an outsider!
So, who should take the child?