Text/Flying Fish
In a person's life, marriage actually accounts for most of his life, and with the passage of time, marriage also appears different.
Most of them are actually from warm to bland, after people reach middle age, married life, in fact, most of them are bland, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, relying on each other, living an ordinary life.
Husband and wife can be content and happy in their ordinary life, then they can also get happiness and joy.
If the husband and wife still don't know how to tolerate and understand, and still complain about each other and the family, then life is actually not good, and they will not be happy at all.
If you want to be blessed in the second half of your life, be able to live a peaceful and stable life, and be happy, then between husband and wife, don't toss blindly.
People are over fifty, and husbands and wives are still tossing these things, and it is inevitable that the evening will be bleak.
1. Dissatisfied with his partner and full of calculations.
After many couples reach the age of fifty, they are still full of calculations, want to leave each other with nothing, do not live a good life with each other at all, always toss each other, want to monopolize property, and are full of interests, so such couples, not only do not have a good marriage, but also will not appear a happy family.
David's parents in "Ode to Joy 5" are like this, the two of them are full of calculations, they originally had a good life, a factory, a company, and a very rich life, but these two people are full of calculations, and the days have long been separated, David's mother has been secretly transferring the company's money to her own small treasury, and finally there was a problem, David's father also began to calculate his mother, and also transferred all the assets, leaving a mess for David's mother to clean up.
The family has long been dispersed, and David's mother has spent the rest of her life in debt collection and debt repayment, and his father escaped from the country and did not dare to come back.
Therefore, the two people calculate each other, are dissatisfied with each other, and in the end the evening is not good.
Second, if you are dissatisfied with life, you can't live a good life.
After people are over 50 years old, husband and wife actually live a very stable life, but they love to toss, and they always feel that their lives are not good, they always feel that their lives are not as good as others, they are always too greedy, compare with others, and worry about others, which makes contradictions constantly.
In fact, every family has a difficult scripture, don't peep into other people's windows, but live your own life.
After the age of fifty, plain is true, don't compare, keep a peaceful attitude, accept your current situation, don't look at others to make money, and you have no way or professionalism, so you toss blindly, blindly invest, and it is easy to let yourself have nothing.
Life is to live down-to-earth, to be grateful for everything you have, to live in the present, to cherish the present, in order to feel the true meaning of life.
3. Dissatisfaction with children and disturbing children's marriages.
After the age of 50, when the children have a family and they are idle, they do not do their own things, but focus all their time and energy on the lives of their children, point fingers at the lives of their children, interfere in the lives of their children all the time, and rely on the old and sell the old everywhere, and engage in one-sided parents, then the children's small family will be made into a mess.
Zhu Dali in "Little Days" is like this, he has a good life in his hometown, but he has to go to his son's small home to stir up, always saying that he has the final say in this family, whether it is a son or a daughter-in-law, he has to listen to him, and he has to put out the family rules, aggressive, and even won't respect the child's marriage, and finally the daughter-in-law is going to divorce, and the family is also scattered.
As a parent, when the child has already married and is still interfering in the child's marriage, it is actually very indisproportionate.
If you want to keep your children from disliking you when you get old, then don't interfere with your children's lives, otherwise when you are old, your children will not come back to see you, and the evening will be bleak.
A happy life is managed by oneself little by little, don't be full of malice, don't be picky in every way, and don't be in the midst of blessings and don't know blessings.
People must know that everything can go well.
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