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In this world, if you don't want to do something, no one can force you to do it. If you don't care about something, then nothing else can hurt you.
Nine times out of ten, things that are unsatisfactory in life, we imagine one or two, not eight or nine. You have to think about everything and don't get too entangled, so that you can make your life easier.
In the face of some things, we must also stay sober and stop deceiving ourselves, what does not belong to you will not be obtained after all.
What you leave is the scenery, and what you leave is life.
In this life, there are successes and failures, gains and losses, reunions, partings, thinking about opening, looking down, and the heart is not tired.
1. If you want to open some, your troubles will be gone.
In this life, it is not easy, there will definitely be a lot of unpleasant things, life is also a chicken feather, all kinds of things can happen, no matter what you encounter in life, you must see it, think openly, face it positively and optimistically, don't think too much, don't get angry, don't complain, when you encounter problems, keep a peaceful attitude, don't complain, don't be impatient, learn to look down, learn to think about it, so bad things will disappear.
No matter what happens in life, the important thing is your own mentality, and if you have a good attitude, everything will go smoothly.
There is no wishful life, only people who can't think about it, and if you think about everything, life will be cheerful.
If you always think about it because of some bad things, and you can't figure it out, you will have a very tangled life. Instead, I don't think about it, I let it go, I let go, and my troubles are gone.
Second, if you want to open up the gains and losses of success or failure, people will have an easy life.
In this life, it will not always be smooth, and there will be times when there are setbacks.
God closes a door for you, and it will also open a window for you, when we encounter things, don't be in a hurry, don't think about it, everything must look forward.
When you are at a low point in your life, don't complain, but work hard to improve yourself, adjust your mentality, as long as you want to open, everything will slowly get better.
In fact, the trough is also a turning point, don't think about it, but think about things in a different way, this road can't go, learn to turn around, and you will always encounter a new exit.
Su Shi said, "Don't listen to the sound of the forest beating the leaves, why not chant and walk slowly." Bamboo canes and shoes are lighter than horses, who is afraid? The steep spring breeze blows the wine and wakes up, slightly cold, and the mountain is obliquely shining but welcomes. Looking back at the bleak place, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine. ”
Life is like this, full of wind and rain and impermanence, even in adversity, we must face it well, and maintain an indifferent attitude to face the success and failure of gains and losses, so as to make ourselves better.
3. Think about every relationship and fate.
In this life, you will meet many people, and all encounters are actually fate. No matter how long this person has been with you, no matter whether this person will love you or not, and whether this person has gone to the end with you, in fact, we don't have to be too entangled.
In the face of feelings, we must be able to take it and let it go.
If you like someone, be brave enough to express your heart, and if the other party doesn't like you, you don't need to be moved by yourself, but learn to let go, and there is no need to pester the other person.
If a person likes you, after falling in love, he still changes his mind and leaves you, you don't have to be sad for such a person who doesn't love you, let alone hurt yourself for someone who doesn't love you.
If you want to open some, feelings are fate, and they come and go, after all, they are all providence.
There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it. Feelings are also forced, we can be casual, let it be, let everything come and go.
Xu Zhimo said: "I will visit my only soul mate in the vast sea of people; ”
Life is disturbed, it is lucky to get it, and it is not a bad thing to not get it, think about it, see it, and the heart will not be tired.
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