The master behind Big S should have been exposed a long time ago
On March 27, Zhang Lan issued a statement to formally complain to the Shanghai Bar Association against Deng Gaojing, the lawyer representing Da S, with the text: Let the law protect the sunshine and let justice shine on every inch of land.
But compared with this painless, so-called personal attack Deng Gaojing, the lawyer Zhang Lan and her son Wang Xiaofei are more afraid of is actually Lai Fangyu. In the latest online showdown, Wang Xiaofei posted a chat record, and named Big S to "don't listen to Lai Fangyu".
So, who is this Lai Fangyu, and what is the big reason for Wang Xiaofei to be jealous and insist on replacing Big S?
[1] The sweetness of divorced female stars
Lai Fangyu, 57, is a well-known divorce lawyer in Taiwan. When she was young, she was known as a genius girl in the legal profession of Baodao, and she entered the industry with the third place in the national bar examination, and soon became a well-known "beautiful lawyer" in the circle.
She is well aware of the difficulties of women in the workplace and society, and has been actively fighting for women's rights, representing lawsuits, and working with women's groups to promote the establishment of Taiwan's Domestic Violence Law.
Later, she found out that female stars are a very special group of women. They are also facing difficulties in marriage, but they can't talk about their celebrity status, so she has also witnessed a lot of embarrassment beyond the halo of female stars.
And Lai Fangyu can become the designated lawyer of many female stars because of her victories like the "God of War". Jia Jingwen , Zhang Qingfang , Ai Fukuhara , Da S , Huang Jiaqian and other Taiwanese female stars, their divorce cases were all handled by Lai Fangyu, and almost without exception they won. Because of this, Lai Fangyu's reputation is more popular, and many netizens know about her existence.
In 2004, Jia Jingwen, whose career was in full swing, announced that she would marry into a wealthy family, and her husband was Sun Zhihao, who was worth 5 billion at the time.
It's a pity that Alyssa Jia is not human. It didn't take long for Sun Zhihao to be photographed walking with other women many times, and even when Alyssa Jia was pregnant, Sun Zhihao was arrested for drunk driving, and there were hot girls sitting in the car.
In order to maintain her marriage, Alyssa Jia had to come forward to clarify the scandal for Sun Zhihao, saying that she knew these girls herself. even said that she got married because she was pregnant first, and Sun Zhihao was under a lot of pressure.
In 2009, the marital conflict between Sun Zhihao and Jia Jingwen broke out further. Daughter Wutongmei was forcibly taken away by Sun Zhihao, and Jia Jingwen had to hold a press conference to accuse her husband of what he did.
Unexpectedly, Jia Jingwen's move completely angered Sun Zhihao. He took the lead in filing a divorce lawsuit, demanding that Alyssa Jia compensate 26 million yuan of huge property, 360,000 red envelopes, and 1 million diamonds, all of which were returned.
Lai Fangyu took over the case at this time and accompanied Alyssa Jia, who had an emotional breakdown, to survive the difficulties. As a woman, she understands the importance of children to a mother.
At Lai Fangyu's suggestion, Jia Jingwen agreed to settle and chose to pay 26 million in compensation, while implementing three ancillary conditions: first, her daughter went to school in Taiwan until she was 15 years old; second, Jia Jingwen should not go out to film for more than 5 days; and third, her daughter cannot appear in public.
Jia Jingwen, who was "bitten back" by Sun Zhihao, finally got the custody of her daughter after paying a certain price, and also gave Jia Jingwen the courage to go on, coupled with the support of her second husband Xiu Jiekai, to this day we see her with a second spring in her career: with the modern drama "The Distance Between Us and Evil", she won the 54th TV Golden Bell Award for the heroine of a drama program, and won the 3rd Taiwan Film Critics Association Award for Best Actress with the movie "Waterfall".
After talking about Jia Jingwen, let's talk about Zhang Qingfang's divorce case, which got 1.6 billion sky-high alimony and caused a sensation in Taiwan.
Zhang Qingfang, a female singer from Taiwan, China, a representative figure in Taiwan's music scene in the 90s, has sung popular works such as "Flower Rainy Night", "California Sunshine", "No One Knows", and by 2015, nearly 30 solo albums have been released, with a total sales of more than 13 million copies, and she has been shortlisted 5 times and won the Golden Melody Award for Best Female Singer 2 times.
In March 2002, Zhang Qingfang was introduced by Zhang Xiaoyan and met Song Xueren, vice chairman of a bank in Hong Kong, and the two began to date, and the man was a fan of Zhang Qingfang's album "Men's Talk".
After getting married in 2005, Zhang Qingfang gave birth to two children and gradually faded out of the entertainment industry. But after that, Song Xueren suddenly changed. He is not splitting his legs, but his attitude towards Zhang Qingfang has changed greatly, if the children don't eat a mouthful of food, Zhang Qingfang will be held accountable, "I often feel that I am lonely."
After the child grew up a little, Zhang Qingfang wanted to hold a solo concert for the 30th anniversary of his debut, but Song Xueren did not support it, and then Zhang Qingfang realized that this so-called fan was not the person he was back then.
In June 2020, Zhang Qingfang and Song Xueren were divorced, and at first the man proposed that "during his appendix surgery, Zhang Qingfang was busy with the concert and neglected to take care of it". Subsequently, Zhang Qingfang sent the divorce application to the court because she "lost herself in marriage and became an outsider to the family".
It only took one afternoon for Lai Fangyu to help Zhang Qingfang, who had a husband and children after marriage and had no income, in exchange for a free divorce agreement and NT$1.6 billion in alimony. This battle also made Lai Fangyu's reputation famous.
Time turned to 2021, while netizens were happily eating melons and ridiculing Wang Xiaofei and mattress stalks, Lai Fangyu helped Big S strategize behind her back and obtained the biggest benefits: housing worth 400 million yuan and custody of two children. In addition, Wang Xiaofei also has to bear a large amount of expenses such as mortgage, living expenses, and nanny fees every month.
It wasn't until the news of Da S and Gu Junye's marriage came that Wang Xiaofei finally couldn't hold back and posted the bill and scolded. During the live broadcast, he even angrily reprimanded Lai Fangyu by name, saying that Lai Fangyu was too scheming, "That lawyer's name is Lai Yufang, it's not a good thing, the typical kind of person who picks people and makes trouble, a person who pretends to be feminist, makes me feel disgusting." ”
Lai Fangyu handled it properly here, and always maintained the minimum decency for Da S. The wording of this divorce statement is enough to see her cleverness and make the outside world impeccable, "Wang Xiaofei and Ms. Xu Xiyuan are destined to know each other and spend a happy time together." Even if you choose to separate now, you are very grateful for each other's efforts, and you will get along with each other as friends and parents in the future. ”
In fact, Wang Xiaofei is afraid that she forgot that as early as the beginning of the divorce, the "Divorce Agreement" that allowed Da S to sue him in court in one fell swoop was also from Lai Fangyu.
After that, there were more female stars who asked Lai Fangyu for help, such as Ai Fukuhara, who married Jiang Hongjie.
In March 2022, Lai Fangyu received a call from Ai Fukuhara. At that time, the media public opinion was different from the distress of mainland netizens for Ai Fukuhara, and Taiwanese netizens were full of malice towards Ai Fukuhara, thinking that she "abandoned her husband and children", and was a mother who cheated in marriage, didn't care about her children's feelings, and didn't want children. Jiang Hongjie even accused her of opening her mouth like a slut when she went to the dentist.
In the face of these negative comments, Ai Fukuhara has even made up the idea of giving up custody of the child. But Lai Fangyu used one sentence to directly reverse Ai Fukuhara's comments and make countless women empathize, "She was condemned for not being a good mother, but the outside world will not really see what her predicament is, which mother doesn't want to see her child?"
On March 16, 2024, Ai Fukuhara held a press conference in Japan, announcing that she had reached a settlement with her ex-husband, and the two would raise their children together in the future, which can be regarded as an end to this emotional battle.
In addition to female stars, there are also male stars in the celebrity divorce cases that Lai Fangyu has contacted, and he is Wang Leehom.
On December 15, 2021, Taiwan media revealed that Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei had completed the divorce procedures.
Subsequently, Li Lianglei's 1,000-word essay directly hammered Wang Leehom on the hot search. In the article, Li Lianglei revealed that she was subjected to the collective cold violence of the Wang family, PUA verbal bullying, and became a reproductive tool, and also accused Wang Leehom of habitual derailment and dating materials, Xu Ruoxuan and BY2's sister were listed as suspects.
After this long article sparked public opinion, Leehom Wang's side also made some counterattacks, but whether it was Leehom Wang's father who went into battle with a handwritten letter, or Leehom Wang himself came forward to explain, it failed to change the trend of public opinion. After this battle, Wang Leehom not only had his reputation damaged, his endorsement terminated, and his domestic entertainment career blocked, but even his practical interests such as the custody of his children and the right to live in a mansion were pocketed by Li Lianglei.
Not long after, Leehom Wang held a concert in the United States, and he created a new song "If You Want to Meet, You Can Meet", which was specially given to his three children. After singing, he cried and said that he missed the child.
Li Lianglei came out directly and shouted, saying that the children and Wang Leehom have been meeting regularly, asking him not to consume children, and sarcastically mocked Wang Leehom "Is it difficult to take off the mask and be a man"?
In May 2023, 47-year-old Wang Leehom appeared at the door of the Taipei Court.
This is a rare appearance of Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei after the divorce turmoil in 2021. Wang Leehom said that Li Lianglei did not comply with the divorce ruling and did not let him see the children, so he could only take legal measures again.
However, Lai Fangyu did not want to disclose whether the two reached a consensus in court and what specific content they communicated, only saying, "I hope that parents all over the world can interact with their families freely." ”
Since the divorce war began, Leehom Wang's appearance has changed so much that people can't recognize him for a while, his hair is faintly gray, his eye bags are obvious, his career and reputation have also collapsed, and he has not recovered until now.
[2] The dignity and reputation of marriage
In fact, after watching more of these divorce cases, we will find that Lai Fangyu is not able to help every party and fight for the maximum rights and interests, but she clearly feels the pulse of the parties: what celebrities are looking for is not wealth, but reputation preservation, and finally ends decently.
With reputation and dignity, the career will be preserved, and it will not be boycotted by netizens, and it will continue to make money in the entertainment industry, which is an extremely safe means. Lai Fangyu grasped these 2 points and almost won every battle.
Some netizens also made a summary, saying that the celebrity divorce cases she handled couldn't escape these routines: first, let her client be dignified, let the other party become a madman, and become the laughing stock of public opinion; second, the custody of the child is in the hands of her client; third, she will not let the other party see the child.
Compared with these routines, Wang Xiaofei can be said to be a decent opposite, every time he is stimulated by Big S to talk crazy, it is not surprising that Wang Xiaofei said that what he hates the most is Lai Fangyu.
It is no exaggeration to say that there are a series of successful cases in the body, and Lai Fangyu has become a "golden signboard" for celebrities in the circle. She has also participated in variety shows many times, as if she is an "Internet celebrity lawyer" with her own traffic.
Lai Fangyu was able to get out of the circle, on the one hand, because of the celebrity divorce case, on the other hand, because she is very good at expressing herself in public, she publishes books, interviews, has her own podcast, and does a YouTube channel, many women use her as an emotional mentor, learning from her how to deal with family conflicts, parent-child problems, and how to face conflicts with others.
In Lai's view, winning a lawsuit is not a measure of success, and the most important thing is to help the parties "get out of the predicament".
After many years of divorce lawsuits, she has a better understanding of the nature of marriage, affairs, domestic violence, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, children's education and other issues, all of which are only superficial, the most fundamental thing is that there is no love, no feelings, if there is still love, anything can be solved together. If there is really no way out, then only money is the most practical.
Life is a long journey, along the way, we will meet many people who are just passing by, meeting some people, and some of them will become a part of our lives. So, thank you for meeting us, and I hope you all grow old hand in hand with your loved ones. If someone gets off the bus halfway, don't be resentful, smile and bless.