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Wang Ou appeared after giving birth, her figure was hotly discussed, and the relationship became a mystery again - the change in the actress's concept of marriage and love, is it progress or regression?
As we all know, if a female star wants to gain a foothold in the entertainment industry, in addition to acting skills and popularity, she also has to rely on a beautiful face and a good figure.
However, when they become mothers, it is almost inevitable that they will lose their shape.
Recently, Wang Ou's postpartum comeback has sparked a lot of discussions.
The three cliff-like aging periods of life
Many people are discussing when people will age off a cliff.
The official version is 34, 60 and 78, and it is in these three age groups that people are most likely to suddenly age a lot.
But in fact, age is only an objective indicator, and what really affects a person's state is what they experience.
Born from the heart, a person's current life status will be reflected on the face.
Happy events can make people's eyebrows flutter, while misfortune can make people turn white.
For women, pregnancy and childbirth are undoubtedly an important turning point in life.
After many female celebrities give birth, their figures and appearances will change dramatically.
Wang Ou made his first appearance after giving birth, and his figure was fat, which caused heated discussions
Not long ago, Yuji Zhang Xiaohan exposed a set of photos of Wang Ou's comeback after giving birth.
Wang Ou in this group of photos looks a lot fatter, especially the fat around his waist is very obvious, and the whole person is much more vicissitudes than before.
However, it can be seen from her bright smile that although her figure is out of shape, she is happy in her heart.
Whose fault is it that the actress has a distorted figure after giving birth?
As a female star, Wang Ou's postpartum fortune is obviously unacceptable.
Many netizens left messages, lamenting the difficulty of postpartum maintenance for actresses.
But in fact, postpartum body shape is not an isolated case.
Even a female star with a well-managed body cannot escape the "curse" of gaining weight after giving birth.
This is because, during pregnancy, a woman's body undergoes a series of changes, and hormonal disorders are one of the main reasons.
In addition, during pregnancy and lactation, women often need additional nutrients and increased caloric intake, but their metabolism gradually slows down, so it is not difficult to understand that the body shape is out of shape after childbirth.
But then again, although the body is no longer in shape after giving birth, the brilliance that motherhood gives to women is irreplaceable.
What's more, the working version of Wang Ou on the set is still glamorous, but in private, she lives more realistically as a mother.
Guo Degang gossiped that Wang Ou gave birth to a daughter, and He Jiuhua became the center of the topic
I have to mention that Wang Ou gave birth to a daughter, and there is another important protagonist, that is, cross talk actor He Jiuhua.
Some time ago, Guo Degang revealed on the show that his apprentice He Jiuhua was taking care of the children at home, and by the way, he urged Guo Qilin to find a girlfriend quickly, and he wanted to be a grandfather.
It turned out that the entertainment industry also circulated the news that Wang Ou and He Jiuhua had a daughter.
And Guo Degang's words undoubtedly pushed He Jiuhua to the forefront.
For a time, the discussion about Wang Ou and He Jiuhua on the Internet was overwhelming.
Wang Ou posted a "love ring", and his emotional status became a mystery
Faced with the embarrassing situation of being ridiculed for being out of shape, Wang Ou obviously didn't want to sit still.
So, she quickly posted three selfies on social platforms, in which she painted exquisite makeup, dignified and elegant, and was in such good condition that people couldn't fault it.
Interestingly, though, she also deliberately showed off a ring on her middle finger.
According to convention, wedding rings are worn on the ring finger, but Wang Ou's ring is worn on the middle finger, which means that the two are still in love.
So, is He Jiuhua the child's father?
Have the two been married?
All kinds of questions once again pushed Wang Ou's emotional state to a peak.
Strange romance in the entertainment industry, and having children out of wedlock has gradually become the norm?
In fact, there are many examples like Wang Ou in the entertainment industry.
For example, some time ago, Selena gave birth to a daughter with her boyfriend Allen, who was 16 years younger than her, and the two were also in love and did not get a certificate.
Female stars like this who have a bumper harvest in career and fame seem to have more choices in marriage than ordinary women.
A senior executive of an entertainment company who did not want to be named said that if a female star like Wang Ou wants to marry an outsider, she must first notarize her premarital property, but if you have a good relationship, it doesn't matter if you get a certificate or not, anyway, if you have children, it will be easier to take care of even if you break up in the future.
In his opinion, the current female celebrities' view of marriage and love is generally more open, and the phenomenon of having children out of wedlock will become more and more normalized.
In addition, some entertainment industry veterans also said that like Wu Junru and Chen Kexin, they have maintained a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship for many years, even if the children are older, the two have never received a certificate.
There are also some female celebrities who don't plan to have children at all, and feel that they want to have a free career, and getting married and having children will only become a stumbling block for them to move forward.
Is the concept of Chinese-style marriage in line with international standards or distorted?
Looking at the current chaos in the entertainment industry, people can't help but ask: What is the correct view of marriage and love?
As Chinese, should we blindly pursue international standards, or should we adhere to our own traditional culture?
It is true that the traditional model of "marry first, have children later" is being broken, love is no longer a necessary prerequisite for marriage, and women have more choices.
But at the same time, are some overly extreme thoughts and behaviors also quietly distorting our original correct values?
Marriage and childbearing should never be a burden for women.
But nowadays, some female celebrities regard breaking up after giving birth as a trend, and taking having children out of wedlock as a fashion, which is undoubtedly a wrong demonstration.
Being responsible for a new life and being responsible for the family seems to be the moral bottom line that we should adhere to.
Life is long, and maintaining self-discipline is the only way to age gracefully
In the end, we still have to go back to Wang Ou.
From her experience, female friends may be able to learn some wisdom in life.
For example, manage your body well, don't indulge easily, and for example, treat your life's events sensibly and don't follow the crowd.
Losing weight is never something that happens overnight.
Especially for public figures, their every move is closely watched, and the slightest carelessness may become the target of public criticism.
If you want to be beautiful when you are young, and still be elegant and decent in middle and old age, maintaining self-discipline is the only way.
Epilogue:
Whether you are a man or a woman, whether you are a celebrity or a commoner, maintaining a good state of life and managing your body and emotions can make your life more calm and elegant.
I sincerely wish Wang Ou can make persistent efforts in the coming days and return to the peak of his appearance and career!