Recently, there has been a video circulating on the Internet that the picture in the video has always lingered. The one-year-old boy is drowning headfirst into a bucket of water, writhing and struggling in pain, and no adult seems to notice from the bucket. The story behind this video also makes us wonder: what is the responsibility of taking care of children at the moment, and where is the sense of affection and responsibility in the family?
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Causes of the incident
The incident began when a 1-year-old boy was entrusted to the care of his grandmother. The grandmother focused on the phone and did not notice the child for 20 minutes, which eventually led to the child drowning in the bucket. When the boy's mother received the news, she was tormented by the long-overdue result. She posted a message denouncing her grandmother's carelessness and believing that if she stayed at home, the accident would not have happened. This remark was also unacceptable to the boy's father.
Netizens are hotly discussed
Netizens said: This time I stood on the side of the child's mother, and the old lady passed by there and her legs were about to touch it, and she didn't see it?
Netizens said: Many old people force their daughters-in-law to go to work, they don't care about their children, play mahjong and chat on mobile phones, and there are many, many children who are missing or injured or killed, which happens every day, and their hearts ache to death.
Netizens said: It's just playing with mobile phones and getting fascinated. The last time I saw it in the park, a grandfather took his 3-year-old granddaughter, the grandfather looked at his mobile phone, and the granddaughter climbed to the one-meter-high five-stone fence to walk on the single-plank bridge for a long time, and her head was cracked when she fell. My lover took her down and told her grandfather not to look at his phone and to take care of the child.
Netizens said: It's understandable if grandma is busy and doesn't notice it, the problem is that grandma is playing with her mobile phone and causing the child to drown.
Netizens said: It's strange if you don't fall out, what kind of grandma is this? When there is no accident, it is how hard it is to lead people, and the daughter-in-law should be grateful to Dade, and if something happens, it is an accident.
Write at the end
Behind this matter lies several layers of analysis and reflection. In today's society, dual-income families have become the norm. However, the responsibility for the care of children cannot be shirked. Regardless of who entrusts the child, the person in charge should do everything in his or her power to prevent accidents. It can be seen that the grandmother has been derelict in her duty by not paying attention to the child for 20 minutes.
Secondly, the predicament brought about by the mother's work cannot be denied. But the blanket accusations against grandma do not seem to take into account the full picture. Quarrels between husband and wife over the issue of responsibility can also potentially undermine family harmony.
The deep-seated reason behind this incident may lie in the changes in the environment of the times and family concepts. Nowadays, dual-income has become the norm, but the traditional concept of family roles is difficult to change overnight. At the same time, the rapid spread of public opinion on the Internet is also easy to exacerbate events and emotions. The truth is often hard to come to light.
In the face of this series of problems, we need to think in many ways. On the one hand, it is important to pay attention to the safety of children and clarify the responsibilities of all parties. At the same time, we should not deal with problems in a simple "right or wrong" way, but face the truth rationally. Roles and responsibilities in the family also need to be repositioned. With the progress of society, the traditional patriarchal system should be transformed into a family care model. Finally, the public should also be cautious and avoid arbitrary characterization that further undermines all parties involved in the incident.
Overall, the incident reveals new challenges for families and society. We need to reshape the concept of family, clarify the responsibilities of all parties, and at the same time care for the plight and needs of each member. Only by thinking about problems in a comprehensive and multifaceted way and properly resolving contradictions can we make the family a warm shelter.
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