If you have no money and no connections, and you want to work hard to change your life, but it always has no effect, don't panic first, and understand the next 3 sentences that Ah Fat wants to share, which is more important than thousands of money.
I'm really not exaggerating, the thinking and cognition reflected behind these 3 sentences will directly change our thinking and behavior habits, and develop in a good direction!
In the area of writing, I have insisted on writing every day for 5 years, and I have some experience in growing up, which has allowed me to increase my monthly salary from 3,000 to 30,000 yuan in more than a year.
In addition, these 3 sentences also combine the wisdom of Warren Buffett.
In the previous content, Ah Fat often shared Buffett's wisdom, so he has been introduced many times, but to save friends the time to find the previous article, I still briefly mention his achievements.
He has long dominated the Forbes rich list, and in less than 50 years, he has created a wealth creation myth that doubles $500 to $72 billion.
Without further ado, sharing begins!
Be fearful when others are greedy and be greedy when others are fearful
This sentence was originally the investment experience shared by Warren Buffett, which means that when others want to get a piece of the pie from investment, we should start to be cautious, and when others are afraid of investment, we must keep rushing into investment!
But I found that this logic actually has a wide range of applications, and if we understand it well, our lives will become better.
Does this sentence tell us a point: if we want to go to a place where there are few people, when most people are greedy, we must be as fearful as a small number of people, and when most people are afraid, we must be as greedy as a small number of people.
Take the self-media industry I have done, it is also a very important logic to go to a place with fewer people.
Like when you first started writing, you don't need too fine positioning, an account has a general field, and it is easier to write explosive models, because of this, many people have participated, and everyone has not made the positioning too fine, just write a general field, at this time, there are many creators who are not too fine in positioning, how we follow the trend and write like these people, often we don't get too many benefits.
Therefore, more and more self-media have begun to refine their own writing fields, the more detailed the better, and some people even specialize in creating content that only procrastinates.
There are relatively few people who do a particularly fine job of self-media, maybe the cake in it is not particularly big, but after all, there are few people involved, and we can get more benefits.
Where there are many people, although the cake is big enough, there are too many people to divide it, so we can get a lot less benefits!
Dry sales is also a truth, most of the sales are ordinary sales, they treat all customers fairly, awesome sales, will put more energy on important customers, these customers may only have 2 or 3, but the consumption power is stronger than 200, 300 ordinary customers!
Awesome sales, in fact, also ran to a place with fewer people!
To use a better word to describe the act of running to a place with fewer people is actually to create differentiation.
No matter what we are doing, we must know how to create differentiation, which can increase our competitiveness and make our life better!
Don't see the excellence of others and deny yourself
In the Internet era, information is very developed, and many people are prone to do this kind of thing: when they see people who are about the same age as themselves, they have managed hundreds of people, and they have a monthly income of 100,000, and they feel useless.
This is a dangerous idea, and many people are obviously capable, but because of this meaningless denial, they make themselves anxious, lose confidence, and finally completely abolish it.
I was such a person before, because the previous job was very stable, so I didn't face this problem, after I started to do self-media, my eyes were opened, and I came into contact with all kinds of excellent people, others are young, they make millions in their 20s, others sell classes, do training camps, and they haven't signed up at every turn, and the people are full, and I suddenly feel that I am too wasteful, which leads to my always self-doubt, all kinds of internal friction, and I can't help but want to imitate others, which leads to a great reduction in my life efficiency!
After continuous self-reflection, I slowly woke up and realized that my behavior was really stupid.
Everyone has their own advantages, other people's advantages, can let them do that step, my advantages, can also let themselves get some achievements, if I think others are awesome, to imitate others, this is actually to kill their own advantages, to do things that are not so suitable for themselves, so the efficiency is lower.
So after that, I slowly began to adjust my behavior, try to play to my strengths, continue to do what I should do, and at the same time, I will continue to observe what others have done well, and then learn, learn from it, and integrate it into what I do.
So far, the results are very good, I am no longer anxious, and my career is getting better and better.
I also found a problem later, some people can easily achieve certain achievements, but it just looks!
People are like this, some things, obviously take a lot of effort, plus a lot of luck, to do it well, but when talking to others, it is always easy to describe very simple, we onlookers, may see the surface, not see the depth, thus generating unnecessary anxiety!
All the efforts will not be in vain
Every step of life counts!
After I graduated, the first job I found was a very stable job that could be seen at a glance, but I didn't really want to live such a life, so I thought about doing a side hustle, and then constantly improving my ability to give myself more possibilities.
But I have no clue what side hustle I should do and how to improve my ability, after all, I am the kind of person who completely follows my family's plan and doesn't think much about problems!
But I know how to use the Internet, so I searched all kinds of things, and finally decided to start reading first, because I couldn't determine the direction, so I read all kinds of books, literature, dry goods, novels, I read books for 1 or 2 years in a row, and my life did not improve in the slightest, as if the books I read seemed to be useless at all?
But then I started to do self-media, others can't write an article in half a day, I just started doing it for a few days, I can write a 2000-word article, although the content is a piece of, but it's just that I lack skills, my content reserve is enough!
Although my life experience is also counted, but more of the year or two when I was crazy about reading, my content reserve was ahead of many newcomers who had just entered the industry, so I quickly stood out from the encirclement!
I am a very athletic person, especially basketball, I have been playing basketball since elementary school, and the frequency of exercise is very high, and it is slowly decreasing when I come out to work.
When I first started exercising, it seemed that I had been exercising for several years, and there were no noticeable changes in my body.
But after thinking about it, I realized that my body is better than the average person under the nourishment of long-term exercise, I will be more energetic, and I will not be so easily tired.
There is a good saying: many powerful people spend a long time and a lot of effort but do not gain anything, but one day suddenly there is a breakthrough, but we will not make progress anyway. It is because his breakthrough "emerged" on his accumulation, a product of scale. The more knowledge, the more obvious the emergence.
So just work hard and accumulate our own "emergence", even if our efforts are in the wrong direction, it will not be in vain, because we are closer to the right!
I am a fat, I have been doing self-media for 5 years, 5 years of daily change, and I have gone from a monthly salary of 3,000 to a monthly income of 30,000 yuan in more than a year by reading and writing, sharing the key thinking and cognition that makes me grow, helping you reshape your brain, become a super individual, break the confusion in life, and avoid 10 years of detours
I really want to have a more in-depth communication with all of you!
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