What is it like to have a "close relationship" with a student who is 23 years younger than himself? Presumably, this professor of China Southern University of Hang Hua has the most right to speak.
Guiding each other academically, in life, taking selfies with students, playing billiards, watching movies, swimming in the Qinhuai River, and going to Zhuzhou together. Who would have thought that the private communication between professors and students would be so wonderful today.
But what is even more unexpected is that under this close interaction, all kinds of rumors have been circulated.
Now the university involved in the incident has set up an investigation team and is verifying the relationship between the two, and the female professor and male student involved have also reported to the police.
So what is going on? Can college teachers and students be free to fall in love?
According to vigorous news reports, it is rumored on the Internet that the male student of the university has a close relationship with the associate professor of the college, and a lot of chat records have been released.
It is reported that Associate Professor Hu is 45 years old this year, and the male student Zheng is only 22 years old, although the difference between the two is 23 years old, but from the front photo, it is not obvious that there is so much difference.
It stands to reason that if it's free love between adults, then it's nothing. But the crux of the incident is that the professor had a family before, and according to the revelations of the students of the school involved, the research topic of this student Zheng is Professor Hu's research group.
Another is that the university's "Ten Guidelines for the Professional Conduct of College Teachers in the New Era" clearly stipulates that teachers should lead by example, and must not have any improper relationship with learning, and strictly prohibit any form of misconduct.
In this case, Professor Hu is now facing four major difficulties:
Dilemma 1: What is the relationship between the two?
According to Zheng's circle of friends, the two will go out to play together in August 2023, and in the copywriting, Zheng calls Professor Hu Sister Hu, and the two eat and play all the way, and he is very glad that he has such a good mentor.
A month later, the two went to Zhuzhou again, and the two were leaning on their heads in the picture, looking very intimate. Under this circle of friends, someone also asked Zheng if he was a girlfriend, but Zheng denied it, emphasizing that this was a mentor and that they were on a business trip to Zhuzhou.
However, taking such a picture with the tutor will inevitably lead to misunderstanding. After the relationship between the two was questioned, they also called the police, but did not deny the relationship, so whether it is true or not, we still need to wait for further official notification, and before that, we should still eat melons instead of surnames.
Dilemma 2: Did this happen before or after the divorce?
According to the online chat records, some people say that the professor is divorcing her husband for him, and some suspected professor's girlfriends came forward to claim that Professor Hu's divorce has nothing to do with Zheng, and her marriage with her husband has long existed in name only, and Professor Hu and Zheng have a close relationship after the divorce.
However, this is also from the Internet, and the authenticity is doubtful.
Dilemma 3: If two people are in the same research group, will it be unfair to other students?
After the incident fermented, two netizens who were certified as the university involved left messages, one said that the male student was his classmate, and the female teacher was their sophomore hot school teacher, and gave Zheng 100 points at that time.
The other said that it doesn't matter if it is related or not, but if you get the qualification for the research institute because of this, then the problem will be big, because Zheng's grades in the first and second years are the last, and the grades in the third and fourth years will follow the research group to make results.
But it is also suspected that Zheng's friend responded, saying that Zheng's grades were very good, and he was the first in his major in his junior year, and he was a direct doctorate.
One said that the grades were good, and the other said that the grades were not good, whether they were good or not, and whether it would affect other graduate students, still needs to be further investigated by the authorities.
Dilemma 4: If it is confirmed, what will happen to Professor Hu?
Although adults are free to love, after all, Professor Hu is a role model, and if it is determined that he does have a close relationship with students, then it is also a violation of the teacher's guidelines, in this case, he will either be seriously criticized, or he will be demerited or demoted, and in serious cases, he may be terminated from his contract or even revoked from his teaching qualifications.
In general, although this relationship does not involve breaking the law, it is also immoral, and once it is confirmed, it will be severely punished by the school.
So it also warns teachers to abide by professional ethics, keep a proper distance from students, and know what to do and what not to do.
Now that the school has set up an investigation team, and the teachers and students involved have also called the police, whether it is their relationship or someone deliberately "spreading rumors and smearing", there will be a clear result.
But no matter what the outcome is, this incident is a lose-lose situation for the university, Professor Hu and Zheng, the reputation of the school will be affected, Professor Hu may be warned or even demoted, and Zheng will also be deeply involved in the public opinion of improper qualifications for graduate school entrance examinations.
But before the report came out, it was still the same sentence, everyone should still eat melons or not believe melons, and look at and speak rationally.
What do you think about this? Do you think this kind of relationship can exist? Welcome to leave a message to discuss!
(The above pictures are unconfirmed, the source is the Internet)