Jealousy is human nature, and many people are happy not because of their own happiness, but because of the downfall of others. On the stage of life, we often witness such a phenomenon: many people's happiness does not come from their own happiness, but is based on the downfall of others. This phenomenon is both thought-provoking and reveals the complex side of human nature.
This kind of mentality of taking pleasure in the misfortune of others may be rooted in the comparative psychology of human beings, and when they meet someone who is better than themselves, then they will breed the psychology of jealousy of others, and in order to achieve their own psychological balance, they can only nourish themselves through the misfortune of others.
In the competitive environment of society, we often unconsciously compare ourselves with others and measure our own achievements and status. When you find that others are inferior to yourself, a short-term sense of superiority may arise spontaneously, bringing about so-called "happiness". However, this happiness is based on the suffering of others and lacks real connotation and value.
This phenomenon also reflects the selfishness and indifference in human nature. When we focus too much on our own interests and feelings and turn a blind eye to the plight of others, we lose the compassion and conscience that we should have as human beings. This kind of selfishness and indifference not only hurts others, but also makes our own hearts barren and empty, although it will make us happy for a short time, but it will only make us slowly decadent and go to the abyss.
Know that true happiness does not come from comparing and competing with others. Happiness is a kind of inner peace and contentment, which comes from the recognition of self-worth and the love of life. Happiness comes when we focus on our own growth and development, striving for what our hearts truly desire.
Know that we should also develop the quality of caring for others. When we learn to pay attention to the needs of others and reach out to help those who are in need, we can experience a deeper level of joy and satisfaction. This joy stems from caring for and giving to others, and is an emotional experience that transcends oneself.
You need to understand that everyone's life trajectory is unique, and the definition of success and happiness is different. We don't need to measure our worth by the standards of others, nor should we base our happiness on the pain of others. True happiness comes from inner harmony and balance, as well as genuine dealings and sharing with others.
Summary: Therefore, if a person wants to be truly happy, then on the road to happiness, let us abandon the mentality of taking others as a happy one, and instead focus on our own growth and progress. At the same time, treat others with love and kindness, and jointly create a warmer and better world. Only in this way can we truly understand the true meaning of happiness and embrace our own happy life.