Shamelessly forcing his girlfriend to cook for his parents, it's really a long time to see!

Text | Mi Li's mother

This generation of young people is in love, and Mi Li's mother is becoming more and more incomprehensible.

The chat history of a young couple is full of question marks on my head.

The boy's mother was sick and hospitalized, and his father was lying at home with nothing to do, so he actually asked his girlfriend to send him to the hospital twice a day???

The girl objected: Why do you want me to cook?

First, ordering takeout is unhealthy, and the outside may be made of gutter oil;

Second, my dad doesn't know how to cook, nothing but bragging.

Hekan not only has to bring food to his mother, but also feeds his father by the way?

The girl was puzzled and said that she could ask a nurse to help, or find other relatives, otherwise, she would go outside to find a restaurant to do it, so that others could put less oil and salt and make it lighter.

After all, I haven't passed the door yet, so I cook and deliver food, and I can't hang my face.

As soon as he heard that it would cost money, the boy was poor and dagger: there were more than 100 dishes fried outside!

Yes, the nurse is hundreds of yuan a day, and it costs more than 100 just to stir-fry, but the girlfriend is free, so you don't have to use it in vain!

The girl was still unwilling, saying that she also had a lot of things to do, and she couldn't spend her time on cooking.

"You have nothing to do at home anyway, you can still practice your cooking skills when you cook, kill two birds with one stone, my parents have a good impression of you"

"What a great opportunity to perform. ”

Mi Li's mother just wants to ask, is this looking for a daughter-in-law, or interviewing a nanny?

However, the girl was still awake and did not waver at all, so she asked the boy to find a nanny who came to cook and asked his father to send the food to the hospital, and by the way, he could eat it himself.

The boy apparently didn't want to spend the money and said it again:

"You have nothing to do at home, is my mother more important than yours?"

The latter words are even more explosive:

"I need you the most now, if you don't take the initiative to stand up, I won't go yet"

"Isn't marrying a wife just to take care of each other?

"I think you're just lazy."

I was suffocated, really suffocated, so angry that my low blood pressure was cured.

A comment from a melon-eating crowd can be described as hitting the nail on the head:

What is your boyfriend doing, he himself is full of moral kidnapping for you, why didn't he do it himself?

Yes, the boy keeps saying that his mother's affairs are the most important, but why don't he move a finger?

You don't care about your own children, why do you put everything on your girlfriend? Isn't this the "outsourcing of filial piety"?

Mi Li's mother thinks that this father and son are really amazing, and it can be seen from the dialogue that the boy's mother usually serves his father like an uncle, not that his father can't do it, but that the two of them feel that they shouldn't do the things that serve people.

In their eyes, the wife is a tool person who cooks and cooks, one is sick, and the other has to fill the position immediately, regardless of whether you pass the door or not.

It is conceivable that if the girl really marries into their family, she will repeat the old path of the boy's mother in the future and continue to serve the father and son.

Mi Li's mother is not saying that only when you are married can you help the other party's family, the key depends on the specific situation. This father and son shook their two arms, and if they didn't do anything, they just knew that PUA girls, this attitude was unbearable, and it was better to run away early.

Another boy who kidnapped his girlfriend to give his mother a birthday gift is even more heavyweight.

My boyfriend, who has been in love for 7 months, is about to have a birthday, and the girl is going to buy a switch game console as a birthday gift, and the boy is very happy to hear it and says that he likes it very much.

But the next words poured a basin of cold water on the girl:

Can you give my mom a gift too?

The girl thought that the boy's mother's birthday was approaching, but the boy said:

Test you, what is my mother's birthday for?

The girl was speechless and didn't answer at all, so the boy said to himself:

My birthday is my mother's hard day, so of course I want to give her a gift!

In the past, boys would give their mothers a gift on their birthdays, but now that they are in love, the gift should be given by girls.

Yes, it is also a master of filial piety outsourcing.

And this buddy's logic is very self-consistent, and he explains the truth that this gift should be given by a girl very thoroughly:

"If you don't have my mother, then you don't have me, and without me you don't have a boyfriend, and no one calls you baby. ”

Without you, you won't have a boyfriend, and you're the only man in the world?

Also, are you inlaid with gold teeth, and how much is it worth to shout a baby?

In addition to moral kidnapping, boys will also sell miserably:

"When my mother gave birth to me, I had a difficult birth and almost couldn't get off the operating table. ”

Yo, you're weird.

But she almost died because she gave birth to you, and she didn't give birth to your girlfriend, so it's not your pot after all?

The girl was not wrapped around and immediately said that it was not appropriate.

But the boyfriend still didn't give up, chased after him, and the girl had no choice but to say that he could send a scarf of more than 100 yuan, which happened to be winter and could be used.

Unexpectedly, the boy was not satisfied, and said something that made her angry:

"It's a shame that you're still a woman, you don't understand women at all, and you don't ask me what she likes. ”

At this time, the girl was very speechless and didn't bother to reply to the boy's words, but the boy was immersed in the joy of "matchmaking" alone:

"Quietly tell you that she recently fell in love with a coat, more than a thousand, and she didn't buy it for a long time. ”

"I'll help you peek at that coat in a moment. ”

Finally, he also said to the girl very "intimately":

"It's too troublesome, or you transfer it to me, and I'll buy it."

Friends, this is really a poor dagger!

The previous "Suffering Day" and "Birthday" are all excuses, in the final analysis, this boy is still playing the trick of "filial piety outsourcing", and he wants to give gifts, but he doesn't want to pay for himself, so he comes to trick his girlfriend.

Fortunately, this girl is sober and not used to him at all, so she doesn't even send a game console.

Seriously, such people are not worthy of being "filial piety outsourcing", because at least filial piety can be outsourced.

And these people, in the face of "filial piety" and "self-interest", not only did not hesitate to choose themselves, but also "should stand up", transfer the pressure to others, and give themselves a reputation of "filial piety", which is really strange.

Mi Li's mother remembered a hot search before, which was also very absurd, just like the "Confusing Human Behavior Award".

Xiao Zhu, a young man from Shanxi, originally negotiated a bride price of 188,000 yuan with his ex-girlfriend, but the girl temporarily asked for another 30,000 yuan before marriage, otherwise the marriage would not be concluded.

Thinking of his parents who had been frugal all their lives, they had never even eaten Haidilao, but they wanted to hollow them out when they got married, Xiao Zhu couldn't bear it, so he resolutely withdrew from the marriage and asked for the 188,000 dowry given back.

I thought he would take his parents to Haidilao, but I didn't expect that after Xiao Zhu got the money, he quit his job and traveled around China...

This turn was so fast that I really didn't react:

For a decade or two before the blind date, I didn't remember that my parents hadn't eaten Haidilao, and as soon as I asked for a bride price, the memory of death began to attack you.

But I'm finally coming back, why don't you hurry up and arrange good food and drink for my parents, but enjoy it myself?

Seriously, some people are not really filial to themselves, they may just want to marry a wife and do their filial piety on their behalf.

Like there was a video before:

In the picture, an older leftover man in his 30s, behind him is his hard-working mother, and the accompanying text can really make people angry:

If you are really filial, if you have the skills to shoot videos and write copywriting, you might as well help your mother do some farm work.

Mi Li's mother just wants to say that fortunately, the two girls at the beginning did not marry their boyfriends, and there is still a chance to escape.

Otherwise, after getting married, the end may be as miserable as their mother.

Because, filial piety can not only be outsourced to girlfriends and wives, but also to mothers.

Mi Li's mother watched "Dream Renovation Home" before, and the father and son of one family were so strange that they forcibly turned a home renovation show into a family ethics drama.

The client, Xiao Sheng, wants to renovate the old house and give his paralyzed father a good old age.

This was originally a good thing, but in fact, Sheng's father divorced his mother due to cheating as early as 22 years ago, so in fact, for so many years, Xiao Sheng's mother and son have not had much contact with their father.

But after his father was paralyzed, he hired 4 nannies who were not to his liking, and he thought that the old house was dilapidated and uncomfortable, so Xiao Sheng made an amazing decision:

After renovating the old house, his mother took care of his paralyzed father.

Mi Li's mother clenched her fists when she saw this, what is this, the negative man who has been divorced for 22 years is paralyzed, why should you let your mother serve?

But Sheng's mother felt sorry for her son being too busy, so she agreed.

What's even more infuriating is that the ideas for the renovation of the old house are all based on the needs of Sheng's father:

He likes the garden style, as well as the entertainment area, which can be mahjong table, TV sofa, automatic dining table...

And what did Xiao Sheng have for his mother?

Oh, and it's the stove in the kitchen that automatically controls the temperature, so you can be on call and not afraid to forget to turn off the heat.

Originally, the mother pulled her son and grandson to enjoy the blessings, but now it's okay, and after 22 years of divorce, she is still a nanny, and I feel suffocated when I think about it.

It's no wonder that Sheng's father is not satisfied with several nannies, no matter how good the nanny is, how can there be a free original match that is more affordable and worry-free?

The abacus beads are going to jump in my face.

What chills me the most is this son, who knows how much his mother has sacrificed, but hasn't he watched her sacrifice?

In the final analysis, Xiao Sheng, who seems to be ignoring his previous suspicions, is still "filial piety outsourcing", but the object is not his wife, but his mother.

It is no wonder that many men's criteria for choosing a mate require women to be "obedient and sensible, and filial to their parents".

As the saying goes, a daughter who marries out spills water.

For a long time, for many people, the biggest role of marrying a wife is to find a tool person who can help them clean up their housework and fulfill their filial piety.

And the bride price given is the service fee for buying out for life.

Raising children does not prevent old age, but raising children and marrying wives can prevent old age.

Therefore, until now, there are still people who accuse women of "not taking care of their in-laws", but other people such as sons and fathers-in-law can be beautiful and invisible.

There are still people who are reporting the selection of "good daughters-in-law" in full swing, but why have they never heard of the selection of excellent husbands and sons-in-law?

Taking care of the elders, respecting the old and loving the young is indeed a virtue.

But the premise is that respect is mutual, not the oppression of one party to the other, the enslavement of one to the other, and the reincarnation of women back into the prison of patriarchy.

Any healthy and benign relationship is built on the basis of mutual respect, whether it is between husband and wife, mother-in-law, son-in-law, or parents and children.

Blindly using "filial piety" and "shun" to engage in moral kidnapping is either stupid or bad!

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