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Preface
Ding Yongdai, in 2022, won the Magnolia Award for Best Supporting Actor for his outstanding performance in "The World". His image in the play corresponds to his real-life self, as the old saying goes: "Art comes from life". However, the excellent actor admitted on the show that he was not a qualified father, admitting that he hurt his son because of his insulting words.
Ding Yongdai in real life is not only an outstanding actor, but also a responsible father. Despite his professional success, he admits that he also has shortcomings in his family. When talking about his son, he unabashedly admits his mistakes, and this candor and courage is admirable. It is this sincere and courageous attitude towards his own shortcomings that makes Ding Yongdai not only create a deeply rooted role on the screen, but also win the respect and recognition of the audience.
Ding Yongdai fell in love with Zhao Xuehua's love story at first sight
The 28-year-old met Zhao Xuehua, who was four years younger than him, and Zhao's parents worked in the repertory troupe, making Ding Yongdai a special case. A chance encounter made Ding Yongdai's heart moved, and since then he took the initiative to approach Zhao Xuehua, and feelings gradually developed between the two.
In order to make Zhao Xuehua happy, Ding Yongdai decided to give her a gift, but expressed his love with steamed steamed buns. Although this move was not successful, it moved Zhao Xuehua and deepened the relationship between them. Over time, they became a happy couple and started a family in less than a year.
In a talk show, Ding Yongdai unabashedly revealed his relationship with Zhao Xuehua. Instead of a romantic proposal, they simply discussed and got married. Although he lacks some sense of ceremony, Ding Yongdai's loyalty and sincerity to his wife have never changed.
Love doesn't have to be a cumbersome ritual or a flowery expression, true love is born from the heart, delivered through simple actions and sincere emotions. Ding Yongdai and Zhao Xuehua used their love story to interpret the true meaning of happiness, making people believe that simple happiness is the longest. Their love story may not be romantic enough, but it is full of sincerity and warmth, and has become a classic in people's hearts.
Ding Yongdai's education and growth of his son Ding Ning
Ding Yongdai is extremely strict with his son's education, and he believes that talents are born under the stick, but this kind of education is more like pulling out seedlings to help them grow. Ding Ning is often forced to lie down at his desk to do his homework, unable to enjoy the happiness of children of the same age, which not only sows the seeds of escaping from the family, but also limits Ding Ning's growth space.
Although Ding Ning longs for his father's love, he is frequently restricted and corporal punishment by his father, and his courtship is always treated indifferently. Ding Yongdai suppressed Ding Ning with his height, often emphasizing exercise and rules, and taking harsh measures against Ding Ning's rebellious behavior. This kind of education not only did not make Ding Ning better.
On the contrary, he became more and more rebellious, reluctant to go home, and even had the idea of studying abroad. Ding Ning's heart longs to be understood and loved, but he feels an insurmountable gap at home. Father's love is the most important part of a child's growth, however, Ding Yongdai's education of Ding Ning has become an obstacle to some extent.
Fathers should be the strong backing and guide of their children, not the source of oppression and restrictions. Therefore, we need to reflect on and re-examine the way parents educate their children. Ding Yongdai's education method may be based on expectations and love for children, but it ignores the real needs of children's hearts. Father's love should not be bondage and oppression, but understanding and support, only in this way can children thrive and find their true worth and belonging.
Ding Ning is not married now, which has become Yongdai's biggest heart disease
Ding Yongdai's wife, Zhao Xuehua, quit her job at home and accompanied Ding Ning to grow up until he entered high school. This is the beginning of a warm and ordinary family story, the selfless devotion of mother's love and the warmth of family. In order to allow his son to receive a better education, Ding Yongdai sent Ding Ning to Vancouver, Canada, where Ding Ning grew up independently and achieved good results.
This is a difficult choice made by a father for the sake of his child's future, and it is also a story of a child's struggle in a foreign country. However, Ding Yongdai hoped that his son would return to China for development, but Ding Ning insisted on staying in Canada. Now, Ding Ning is 36 years old, and Ding Yongdai is distressed by the problem of his son's unmarried.
He adheres to the traditional idea that his son can marry a Chinese daughter-in-law, but Ding Ning has difficulty fulfilling this requirement in the living environment of Canada. The generational gap and cultural differences between father and son are beginning to emerge. Faced with this reality, Ding Yongdai felt self-reproach and began to reflect on whether his traditional attitude towards educating children and treating family issues was problematic.
He has come to realize that it is essential to respect children's choices and understand their ideas. In this diverse world, the collision of tradition and modernity makes family relationships more complex, but also more worthy of our understanding and respect. This family story teaches us that family relationships need to be based on understanding and respect. There may be differences between parents' expectations and children's choices, but only communication and tolerance can truly bring each other closer and create a warm and harmonious family environment.
conclusion
Ding Yongdai and Zhao Xuehua's marriage can be called solid, for 37 years, without a trace of scandals. Now, however, they are facing the challenge of their son's heart disease. This situation is undoubtedly a huge test for Ding Yongdai. He used to educate his children in the traditional way so that his son would inherit his father's legacy.
But he failed to foresee his son's mental health problems. This sudden predicament made Ding Yongdai fall into deep self-blame and anxiety. However, it was in the midst of such challenges that Ding Yongdai gradually realized the importance of family education. He began to reflect on his past approach to education.
Understand that traditional ideas do not always apply to modern society. He realized that respecting and understanding the inner needs of children is the key to building healthy family relationships. The reason why Ding Yongdai and Zhao Xuehua's marriage can last is not only because of their love and loyalty, but also because they face challenges together and grow together.
Their son's heart disease became a bump in their marriage, but it also brought them closer together to find a solution. This family story tells us that family happiness is not only based on the traditional concept of marriage, but also requires understanding, support and joint efforts between husband and wife. Only when the husband and wife can work together in the face of difficulties can the happiness and harmony of the family be truly realized.