Ding Yongdai loved acting as a young man, studied hard, and stepped into the road of acting
The cheerful and optimistic Ding Yongdai has dreamed of being a hero since he was a child, and is determined to become a righteous person who saves people from fire and water. However, an attempt to rescue the drowning victim almost died due to self-indulgence.
The teacher's earnest teachings made him realize that he should pursue his dreams carefully and steadily, and not be impetuous. Inspired by his teacher, Ding Yongdai gradually found his interest, that is, his love and yearning for performing arts.
He actively prepared, passed the exam with hard work, and began to systematically learn Xi acting knowledge. After graduating from university, Ding Yongdai played supporting roles in some TV series, accumulating experience and honing his skills from bits and pieces.
He persevered and progressed his way to acting in a gradual way, and has since gradually made a name for himself.
27-year-old Ding Yongdai met Zhao Xuehua at the corner of the stairs and forged a 36-year relationship
At the age of 27, Ding Yongdai was still working in the troupe, and one day after rehearsals, he hurried to an appointment with a friend. At the corner of the theater stairs, Ding Yongdai accidentally collided with a girl, and the two of them almost stumbled and fell.
Ding Yongdai hurriedly apologized, looked up, and suddenly lost his mind - the girl in front of him was dressed plainly, only a pair of small red shoes on her feet were bright and moving. Ding Yongdai watched the girl leave, and his heart couldn't calm down for a long time.
Later, through a colleague's inquiry, I learned that the girl's name was Zhao Xuehua, and her parents also worked in the troupe. Ding Yongdai took the initiative to approach Zhao Xuehua and asked her to go out together. He even studied Xi cooking, and cooked with his own hands to entertain Zhao Xuehua, although his skills were clumsy, but he expressed his sincere intentions.
A year later, the two finally married. Time flies, and their relationship is still deep, and they are now old together. That chance encounter actually laid the emotional sustenance of Ding Yongdai's life.
Ding Yongdai has a successful career, his wife is married and teaches children, and his life is warm and happy
With the support of Zhao Xuehua, Ding Yongdai's acting career is thriving and gradually becoming famous. Despite working long hours outside the home, he has never had any scandals and has always been devoted to his wife.
Zhao Xuehua took care of her son's growth and took the initiative to give up her job and become a full-time housewife. She is good at handling household chores and taking care of her son's daily life. This allows Ding Yongdai to devote himself to his acting career.
Although the two places are separated, Ding Yongdai often calls home to inquire about his family's current situation. The simple life bits and pieces constitute their warm and happy daily life.
Ding Yongdai is strict with the weak, and the verbal stabbing is heart-wrenching
His son Ding Ning has been weak since he was a child, which makes Ding Yongdai very worried. He always tries to make his son stronger, and often strictly requires Ding Ning to exercise. Every weekend, Ding Yongdai will wake up Ding Ning to go for a run, even if Ding Ning doesn't want to, he has to get up on time.
After going to school, seeing that his classmates were taller than Ding Ning, Ding Yongdai was even more anxious. He increased the intensity of physical training for his son, hoping that he would grow up as soon as possible. Ding Ning often couldn't bear this kind of high-intensity training at school, and his legs were sore, but Ding Yongdai insisted on asking him to exercise every day.
Once, Ding Ning wanted to pick up vegetables for his father, but was slapped back by Ding Yongdai, saying that he should take care of his body first. This undoubtedly broke his son's heart. Although behind the harshness is the father's loving meaning, the excessively harsh requirements and words still leave a trauma on the son's growth.
In his later years, Ding Yongdai's career peaked, but his son became ill
In the film and television drama "In the World", 64-year-old Ding Yongdai played the role of a loving father, and his superb acting skills moved the audience. In the end, he won the Magnolia Award for Best Supporting Actor for this play, which is undoubtedly the pinnacle of his acting career.
On weekdays, his son Ding Ning has made a small achievement in the Canadian film industry, which makes Ding Yongdai and his wife feel gratified. But Ding Ning has made no progress on the issue of marriage so far, which has become the only serious illness of the old couple.
Ding Yongdai may have imagined his son's perfect life, but he gradually realized that marriage is destined and cannot be forced. As a father, he can only give support to his son to live the life he thinks is happy.
Emotions and expectations
It seems that Ding Yongdai can be said to be double happiness and career and family. His acting career has reached its peak, and he and his wife are growing old together, which is enviable. But reflecting on the father-son relationship, there may be room for improvement in his approach to education.
Parents can be strict in their love for their children, but they should not be too demanding, and they should stand more in their children's perspective, understand their thoughts, and listen patiently to their hearts. Supporting children to pursue their dreams bravely, rather than delineating life frameworks, is the right way to care.
I hope that Ding Yongdai can let go of his feelings in the future, rebuild trust with his son, and support him to live independently in Canada. Although there is less togetherness and more separation, this mutual understanding and encouragement will become the bond in their relationship.
At the end of life, love and understanding are more precious than anything else. This is also the true meaning of understanding relatives and embracing society as human beings.